Why is it so difficult for people to talk about love after they reach their thirties?

I Chinese New Year's Eve this day and didn't find a partner, the reason is that I have experienced at least three love blows, all of which have been talked about for a period of time, and I think this is an important reason that seriously affects my relationship development. So now I am more mature, and I am also very forbidden to see feelings, so it may be really difficult to talk about love with me, unless there is really the right person, it will really open my heart and talk about a relationship wholeheartedly.

Because thirty years old is no longer young, you need to run your own business, and your parents need to take care of it. It's not realistic to want to flow out the time to fall in love. And after thirty, there are not so many choices to find a partner, and if you meet the right one, you will get married quickly.

If you don't meet it, you won't care so much, and you will live your life by yourself if it's a big deal. I'm thirty-two now, but I'm still single, I think now for me, my life is more free, I like to travel, I like to run around, and my job is stable, my income is good, I can live my life freely, and even if I find a partner at this time, and then pin my feelings on him, in case there is no result, then I really lose more than I lose, so I won't be so stupid, I won't easily waste my feelings before I meet the right person.

Generally, when you reach 30 and haven't fallen in love, you must be either too showy, or too picky, and people must be picking on you, all of them are mutual, and if you still have no excellent highlights as before, it will be more difficult to find a partner as you get older.

Because the mentality of the thirty-year-old is no longer simple, and there are many problems to consider, even if you really plan to fall in love, you have to find the right person, and such limitations arise. I won't give my feelings as much as I want, so even if I have a suitable one, I won't be tempted immediately. Rationality is greater than emotion, so if you take your feelings more seriously, you won't have the sense of ease and yearning you had when you were young.

As a result, there are fewer opportunities for yourself to fall in love, and even if you seize it, you will feel that it is difficult to develop.

Because thirty years old is not a free age, there is not much time and affection for us to squander, so as long as you talk about love, you must be running to get married, I have a deep understanding anyway, I don't have so much time to squander, so I meet, I am rushing to get married, so this may be a kind of pressure for others, as long as you want to get married, you have to get married, so it is more difficult.

Because when you reach thirty, the love you are looking for is a soul mate, and the three views are the same, rather than the surface of blindly pursuing love that you were ignorant at the beginning. It's no longer as ideal and simple as in your 20s, and you're thinking about it more in your 30s, and love is no longer such a particularly important thing.

Because the age of 30 is a turning point for a person, many people understand what direction their life is going at this age. Some people who are well developed will want to make themselves work harder, and some who have achieved nothing just want to be like this, and they don't have any hope for their marriage. So many people don't put their minds on falling in love.

And it is very realistic that it is impossible to pick and choose among young people at their own age. Therefore, many people after the age of 30 are not so interested in relationships, but they are more at ease when they meet them.

In fact, the results of this analysis are based on the very rational analysis of the survey, which is very scientific. In fact, in real life, after the age of 30, they are already a slightly older group of people. Generally, people after the age of 30 are generally regarded as successful people in their careers, because they have put all their minds into their careers before, and their careers must be very good.

Therefore, people after the age of 30 have a very high vision and are also very picky, so their mate selection standards are also very high. The average person does not meet the requirements and standards of their hearts, so it is very difficult for them to fall in love. Because it's hard to have someone who fits their heart.

After the age of 30, they develop a bad habit of living independently for the previous years. They feel that their lives are also very good, and they feel that they don't need to get married, so they don't want to fall in love, they don't want to have marriage, and they don't want marriage to restrict their freedom. And women after the age of 30 are very mature in their hearts, and they don't want to fall in love because they feel that they are past the age of falling in love.

In short, they will more or less avoid falling in love and getting married.

Because after the age of thirty, people become more mature, not the purity of the initial relationship, but more consideration of material needs, high vision, and higher requirements. So it's harder to fall in love after the age of thirty.

There are relatively few people to choose from in this age group, and everyone else in the same age group is already married, so it will naturally be more difficult to fall in love with fewer resources.

Because after the age of 30, your thinking and experience are more mature, and you understand more and more what you want, so you are more demanding, and it is difficult to meet the person who makes you excited.

Because after the age of thirty, everyone has passed the season of youth, and has already been worn to the point of incompleteness by life, people at this time are not pursuing love, they value more firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in life.

After the age of 30, both men and women will be more demanding, and they all hope to find a true love that suits them, so they will not fall in love easily, which is also a manifestation of fear of injury.

It is difficult to fall in love after the age of thirty, and this problem actually lies in the fact that female friends have such feelings, because at this time it is not that there are no boys pursuing, but that the single life they enjoy is what they want.

Actually, I think it's easier to fall in love after the age of thirty, and at this time, with assets, more mature and stable, it will be more popular.

Because I don't like to dream after the age of thirty.

It's more practical to look at many things, and you won't blindly and impulsively have a relationship.

I will think about whether two people can last long, whether they can get married, whether the other party can satisfy their parents, and whether I can satisfy each other's parents.

A thirty-year-old woman, before she starts to talk about love, she can already know the final result, so what fantasy is there to fall in love.

Because after the age of 30, we need to worry about a lot of things. At the same time, our attitude towards falling in love will become very cautious. Secondly, the generation gap between the ages of 30 will be very large.

It is difficult for people to fall in love after the age of 30 because the older they are, the more problems they will consider, and they will consider their own and the other party's economic ability.

After the age of thirty, the mentality is a little tired, I am too lazy to look for it, and others also think that I am old, due to these two problems, it is more and more difficult to fall in love after the age of thirty.

After experiencing social beatings, I am more rational and realistic, and I think about it more

Because when I was twenty years old, I just came out of society and didn't understand anything very well, but when I was thirty years old, I had some experience, and I looked down on marriage.

Because when I was in my 20s, I felt that I could still grab the tail of youth and get married quickly, but after the age of 30, I felt that this possibility was relatively small, so I felt that it didn't matter.

Because when you are twenty years old, people's thoughts are simple, love is sweet, and after the age of thirty, you have experienced a lot and your heart is tired, and you don't care about love.

Because of the age of 30.

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Zhi has also experienced dao, so they have already looked down on marriage, and they can't find a good partner after the age of 30, so they don't care, and young people in their 20s, because they haven't tried the taste of love, so they want to give it a try out of curiosity.

Because when I was in my 20s, I wanted to keep up with the rhythm of others, and after I was 30 years old, it didn't matter.

Being able to be self-sufficient and giving yourself what you want. With the economic strength, I can solve all kinds of things in life by myself, so over time, I feel that I am quite good alone, so I feel that it really doesn't matter if I get married or not.

Because of the different concepts, we may want to get married due to various pressures at the age of 20, but after the age of 30, this pressure may already make us feel indifferent.

Occasionally, I think it's good to be in love, see.

Friends complain will also feel alone.

When it comes to going with the flow, after all.

It's been so long

There is nothing to teach about falling in love, you will boldly pursue it when you meet someone you like, the love process is relatively beautiful, dating will leave good memories in the future, as for the details of love, you still have to think about it slowly, everyone will be different, but it will be very beautiful!

Isn't that a good feeling;

Now is the information age, and there are many people who have not yet started a family at the age of 30;

But if you are 30 years old and have not experienced a relationship, it is a kind of regret in life.

With a long sigh, hey.

It's all at this age, everything is fate, why are you in a hurry now, Buddhism is a little bit, it will always come, it's just late,

Emotional intelligence is super low, love experience is 0, it is difficult to find a girlfriend and you don't even know what to say when you fall in love!

will doubt the ...... of lifeI will feel that I have made a dummy, and I will sigh when I see the young man coming to the building with my arms, and when I see the husband and wife taking the baby for a walk. Will worry about the future.

This needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis, which is normal under normal circumstances, but individual special cases are not excluded.

1.Fate has not arrived, there is no suitable lover appearing, and it is not easy to make do with it in a hurry, of course, I am single.

2.Also, their own physical health conditions do not allow (catastrophe), they are not in good health, and they have no energy or time to fall in love.

3.It may be that the material conditions do not allow it, there is no money and no house, girls are realistic, and they are definitely not willing to follow you.

4.It may have something to do with your personality, introverted, unwilling and unwilling to communicate with a girl, it is impossible for other girls to take the initiative to give them a hug, so it's not surprising to be single.

Actually, don't dwell too much on this, marriage and love are early and late, and they are even different, don't be anxious or pessimistic, fate can't stop it. Sure the beloved will show up.

To have self-confidence, work hard to make money to improve yourself, have the ability, go to the ability, still worried about not finding a partner? Rest assured, it's a breeze.

It's OK to fall in love in your thirties and twenties