Why do people know how precious they do when they lose it?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People always know how to cherish after loss. Before I lost it, I thought that everything now was what it should be, natural, reasonable, and after I lost it, I was shocked to find out how wrong my previous self was. So he tried his best to recover everything that originally belonged to him, but now he has lost

    Many things can only be cherished after they are lost, and many things can easily fly away if you don't know how to cherish them. Then it's hard to get it back, and the memories make you learn to cherish them. Sometimes I think time can really dilute everything?

    No, I still can't help but reminisce, the memories have drifted by. Remembering everything worthy of nostalgia, I once didn't know how to cherish it because I didn't try the taste of loss. Now I have learned to cherish because I have lost too much and what I have lost will never come back.

    Maybe now I know how to cherish it, but I am at a loss, and time will not go back. Maybe one day I'll be able to get back everything that belongs to me. But time passes, things are wrong, maybe only after trying to understand the bitterness, maybe only when you lose to know how to cherish, regret is useless.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, some things or some things some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, love it, once they lose it, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because you didn't know how much you cared about him before you lost it, and you found that before you lost it, you found that he had become an indispensable part of your life, but it no longer belonged to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Just because I didn't care at the time, because I didn't care in the past, I really had to wait for everything to pass away, and then I suddenly realized how precious these days were, but at this time, everything became irretrievable.

    It is often not until everything has passed away that it is truly understood, and it is always true to be sentimental when everything is no longer recovered. Because I was holding something in my hand, I didn't expect to lose it! Because if you don't have it, you will feel empty!

    Because it's lost, I regret it! If you don't lose something, you won't understand what heartache is! Life is complete because it is gained, and it is perfect because it is lost.

    It is to think that it is good and give up what you have, but in fact, what you have now is the most perfect. Let's cherish it!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After the loss, I feel that everything is so beautiful, and I don't feel that beauty and happiness are not easy to come by, because the sweetness of love makes them forget that the pain will happen behind them, and when the pain is on them, they find that love is also so fragile, and after the pain, they suddenly understand that love also needs the care of two companions, cherish each other, and accidentally lose their own love of her!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable, and many people in the world only knew how to cherish it when they lost it, we should cherish the people we have around us, and not lose an opportunity because of others, lose a lover, then we will lose a lot.

    In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In our hearts, because we are still naïve, we don't have much experience to enrich our vision, we don't know how important it is in our hearts, and when we lose it, we feel that it exists, and then, alas, it is far away from me.

    We don't know how to cherish everything at first, because there are so many things we should cherish that we can't cherish them all one by one and give up what we should give up. Don't stress yourself out.

    Or, ignoring a few bits and pieces, we will live a happier life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, there are many such times in a person's life, when they always feel that something is their own, they don't care much when they have it, and they regret it once they lose it

    It's just that we age too fast, but we are too late to be smart. I don't regret knowing you, it's just a pity that I'm never the one who can give you happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A lot of things are only known to be cherished after they are lost.

    But the good thing is that the girl now knows to cherish.

    Hopefully, the girls will be brave and frank.

    Let the boy understand your heart and feel your sincerity.

    Experience what the boy has done for you.

    Let him know that you are now the same as he used to be.

    Willing to change for him, and try to make up for the sacrifices he has made and the sadness he has felt, if you can be together, I think, you will be happier!

    Only when you lose a shoe will you understand the pain of losing a shoe.

    Know how to cherish, not because you are smart, but because you have lost.

    Just as the reason why happiness is so hard-won is because of the existence of sorrow.

    Some people are like air when he is there.

    You always feel like he's nothing.

    You know how precious he is when he's gone.

    Let's see if it can be undone.

    Chase him back.

    If not, don't blame yourself too much.

    If you meet someone you love in the future, you will know how to cherish it, right?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What you lose is not what you want to cherish the most.

    What you want to cherish will never be lost or lost.

    It's not that I don't know what to give up.

    It's that I don't know what to choose.

    If you decide what you want to have, you should take care of it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Emotional fluctuations are always based on immaturity, maybe it would be better to be bigger, after hurting others and being hurt by others, you will understand that being good to a person and being treated well is not always just temporary, and then learn to be responsible for yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Only after losing do you know how to cherish people, often so, you don't know how to cherish what you get, and you don't know how to cherish it once you lose it. So, in the long life, how many people sigh like this: it is difficult to recover the water, regret is beyond reach, the sun and rain, the birds and flowers, give everyone fairly; Joy and joy, troubles and sorrows, but they belong to the private property of individuals.

    Life is always beautiful, it's not that there are too many troubles, it's just that we don't understand life; It's not that there is too little happiness, it's just that we don't know how to grasp it. People don't have to get a lot of flowers, a knowing smile, a concerned greeting, a faint tenderness, a sympathetic regret, a sincere tear. It is a very valuable asset for a person.

    Possess and know how to cherish, so that there is a spacious road between love and hate, sorrow and sorrow, gain and loss. Life tells me: beautiful sentiments, the persistent pursuit of life will not wither because of the invasion of wind and rain, will not be weakened because of the passage of time!

    Plain is true!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because the warmth and happiness when we have it make us forget the pain and sorrow temporarily, and when we have it can only be the past, the warmth and happiness of the past will magnify the pain and sorrow of our present many times, and will make us more deeply experience the pain of loss. Therefore, we often only know the preciousness of things after we have lost them.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because you have things, you haven't thought about the consequences, real love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), worried about him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, you will always think about him (her) when you can't see it, you will be excited when you see it, and your heart will beat faster.

    You'll feel warm and safe when you're together, really! Positive love.

    One will be willing.

    Take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything you want, see the person you love happy and you will be happy, you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, true love one.

    Individuals will want to grow old with him (her) and get along with him (her), you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

    Feel it with your heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because I am not afraid of losing when I have it, but I am afraid of it after I lose it, so I know how to cherish it

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Cherishing is always after regret, and regret can never go before cherishing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe that's human nature, everybody.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's all the fault of discontentment! It is innate human nature not to be content. What he can't get will always be precious in his eyes, and what he can't get in front of him is too easy, and he will always lose it inadvertently, because he doesn't care at all.

    This is the nature of the lack of human heart, and when he loses it, he knows that he cherishes it, and everything is over. Cherish what you have now, don't wait until you lose it to regret it, feelings are weird, if you lose it, it's hard for you to get it back.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When you have it, you don't know how to be satisfied....I always feel like I don't have enough to give...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    One has to trust each other.

    To love someone is to understand each other.

    To love someone, you have to be tolerant with more heart.

    To love someone is to be open-minded.

    To love someone is to respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

    If you love someone, you should support him (her) a lot behind your back, instead of preventing someone from facing him (her) when you can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm very good and happy.

    To love someone, you have to hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know that you love someone too much, too much love, maybe some people can't do it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because you have it, you won't feel its importance, you just feel that it belongs to you and you don't need to pay anything!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    People who are together will not cherish. Because after losing, you will know how good he was before. Man is an animal that wants to have regret medicine. Listen to love at parting.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you have, you feel satisfied, you feel that it's all that I deserve, that it's not going to go away.

    And when you really lose them because you take a wrong step, you regret it, thinking about why you didn't do it in the first place, if only you had done it that way, if only you didn't have how it was ......in the first place

    But fantasy is fantasy after all, it is not reality. When things happen, they happen, and it doesn't help you to regret your bowels.

    If this continues, when people know how to cherish it one day, I am afraid that their hearts will already be full of holes.

    There is only one sentence: be satisfied with what you have now, and always feel dissatisfied.

    This sentence is not contradictory.

    We must meet the current standard of living, be satisfied with what we have, and do not expect from others; And "dissatisfied" refers to the expectation and cherishing of the present life, cherishing everything in front of us, and looking forward to another beautiful day tomorrow.

    If everyone can think like this, it doesn't matter if you regret it or not.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because she didn't know the preciousness at that time, when she had lost it, she would feel that the paradise in her heart was still that place!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because you don't cherish it when you have it, you don't feel that you will lose it, you tend to ignore it, and when you want to leave, you will find each other's importance.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Because of the "lessons from the past", I will be careful what I do in the future, afraid of whether it will hurt or not, so I cherish the present even more.

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