Why is it that people can not understand love but naturally know how to hate?

It's actually easy to explain, because it's easier to hate than to like. People are always like this, they may easily hate one thing or one person, for many reasons, if it is right about one thing, it may be that you don't want to do it, or you just don't like it; If it's a person, it may be because of the first impression, or some of his actions or words, you will have a nasty psychology. But it's hard to like everything, and you have to go through various aspects or a deeper understanding to like a person or a thing.

If you say you like something and you like it all at once, then it usually won't last long. <>

How can we say love and hate? It's probably a deeper layer of what I hate and like. You will like a lot of people, but there are few people who will fall in love; You will hate a lot of people, but there are not many people who you hate.

Why is that? Because hate will be simpler and easier to understand than love. As a simple example, if someone asks you what you hate, you will blurt out that it is very hateful or disgusting.

But if someone asks you what love is? You may not be able to answer, or you may have to think about it.

Love is a complex word. Some people think that love is a kind of responsibility, a kind of giving, a kind of touching, and a kind of satisfaction. There are also people who feel that love is respect, love is wisdom, and love is selfless dedication.

That's right, the love you feel is what it is for you. Because there is really no one specific word to sum it up, it is varied, incomparable. You usually don't know how to love, and you can't learn how to love.

Because love exists in your mind, you don't know when it will come out. When it comes out, you may not feel it yet, but you will only realize it later, ah, it turns out that this is love. <>

If you hate, there are words that specifically summarize it. This is the difference between love and hate, and love is often more complex and difficult to understand than hate. You can feel that hating him is resentment, it is regret, or you can feel that it is strong resentment, strong hatred.

These are hate, and in general, hate is strong resentment or hate.

Seeing this, why people can not understand love but are born to know hate is simple and clear. There is no esoteric truth. It's just that simple love is more complicated than hate, and hate comes easier than love.

Because it's easy to hate someone, but it's hard to love someone. To love someone, you need to take care of him and love him often. Protect him and do everything you can for him.

It's always about doing your best and giving your best. Just because he can smile and think it's worth it. In all sorts of things in the face of him, you need to throw away your own interests.

Always put yourself in the other person's shoes. When there is a life crisis, your first thought will still be him. <>

Then hate a person, you can put all the blame, all the mistakes on him. You don't have to feel what it's like to take care of her. On the contrary, you can deliberately do something to make him sad and unhappy.

Then I was secretly happy, and I felt very cool. If you hate someone, you can hate it casually, but there are too many experiences to love someone. The point is that you don't know if there is a return yet.

Spend so much energy on others and not on yourself. Of course, everyone has concerns. If the other person is not particularly important to him.

I was especially touched by myself and wanted to repay it. You won't love him either.

It's like when you were young, no matter how much your parents loved you and took care of you, they would lose their temper with them for no reason and make awkward trouble. And they are clamoring that they don't love you and saying things that they hate them. It's not until you're growing up that you can appreciate your parents' hearts.

You know that it's not easy to love someone. And hating someone and hating someone is not difficult. So maybe you love very few people, but you hate people and hate many people.

This seems to have become an inertia, because everyone likes to do simple things, not the kind of overly selfless mentality, after all, everyone is not the kind of person who is very loving.

Many things in the world are not innate, and we always need to slowly experience, ponder, and make ourselves more warm people. Although these will have a certain relationship with family education, growth environment, and their own personality, the child who grows up in love always retains kindness and beauty. In fact, there is no certain saying that people can not understand love but are born to hate, these are all related to acquired cultivation, and in my opinion, there is no inevitable connection.

Love needs to be paid, and some people will feel that they must reciprocate for love, and they are no longer willing to give love when they do not get the desired return. So some people will say that some people don't understand love, but in fact, in my opinion, it's not that they don't understand, they understand, but they just don't want to love. Love sometimes needs to be tolerant, need to be generous, and occasionally suffer a little grievance, under these conditions, some people will choose to be selfish, because love must first be selfless, so in a long time this cognition makes people mistakenly think that they do not understand love.

Hate is a complaint, a dissatisfaction, a demand, so it's all about getting something. Wanting to have, wanting to get these are the innate characteristics of human beings, and under the instigation of this kind of thinking, it is easy for people to learn to hate unconsciously. Because this does not need to be paid, it is just a luxury to get, and once you don't get it, under the influence of psychology, you will hate.

In fact, if you control your emotions, control your desire to have, and fill yourself with beauty, love will become simple, and hate will not exist.

Therefore, nothing is innate, it is all acquired by one's own uncontrol, control the mind in the good side, and slowly feel that love is not only giving, but also happy when giving, and hate will only make oneself more and more ugly and selfish. Therefore, if you treat love and hate with the right vision and attitude, then your life will always be full of sunshine and warmth all the way.

Each of us will go through different emotional stages to learn some feelings that we are not born to learn, and we need to learn to express our feelings in the process of growing up to make ourselves more mature. Loving someone requires you to grow slowly, and when you grow up, you learn how to love someone. And to hate someone is something we are born with, because love is giving, and hate is complaining.

If you love someone, you will learn to care for others, feel sorry for others, know how to think about others, and will worry about your heart because of his every move. You will become more emotional, more sensitive. It's easy to love someone, but it's hard to love someone.

Because love is not just a casual talk, you need to pay the corresponding price for this relationship, when you fall in love with someone, you will find that you have changed. I don't get as strong as I used to be, and I don't do what I want as I used to be. You will feel the happiness that love brings you, the happiness that it brings you, and growing up is also a process that allows us to learn more feelings.

If you hate someone, you will become selfish, begin to hate society, dislike the people around you, feel that everyone is full of malice towards you, become no longer like to laugh, but become suspicious, always feel that the people around you are profitable to you, do not want to help others, and become indifferent. Hatred will make a person cruel, emotionless, and less optimistic. Hatred can ruin a person, ruin his good mood, make him depressed, and stop being hopeful about life.

Eventually make yourself what everyone doesn't like.

To love someone is to give, and to hate someone is to complain. Only by learning to give, can we have a better life, when a person only has hatred in his heart, he will become unsociable, become lonely, and lose a good life.

Everyone wants to be loved by others, and they really don't want to give love to others, so when a person abandons you and goes, he will naturally hate from his heart, which may indeed be a selfish performance! But this is the clear reality in front of you, how can you not accept it! Well, the first thing you understand (by birth) is hate!

Because hating is simple, you can hate without any reason (even if it is a stranger) so love, you need to pay, and after your own pay, it is likely that the other party will disappoint you (and it needs to be maintained), it is so difficult to love someone, the key is that you love her, can you guarantee the other party's love for you? If you can't, then it shows that even if you really don't want to love (if you don't know how to love, then hate is okay).

Love and hate are relative, but they don't feel the same. And love will make people very comfortable; Hate is likely to lead a person astray, and although no one wants that, the fact is that it is likely to go in that direction. It's important to consider the whole thing together!

Chasing girls without agreeing to hate; hatred because the misunderstanding between friends has not been resolved; There is also being abandoned by parents and hating, the culprit of all this is because of responsibility, so we can only do it with our hearts (in order to be understood by others, and we will get love), so in order to keep love in the world, we work together to make love overcome hate (inevitable).

ps: Because birth, old age, sickness and death are a kind of hatred of people (why death is hate), from birth to death is a reincarnation, after all, death is painful, so this is the relationship between life and death, love and hate!

It was once said in the Three Character Sutra that human beings were originally good. But I think that human beings are inherently evil. Probably because love is too ethereal, while hate is everywhere in life.

As children, we hated our neighbor's little brother for stealing our toys. When we grew up, we hated the pretty young lady in the class next door for stealing the boy we liked. Or because one of his actions is not in line with your habits.

That's why you hate him.

You see, we hate a person, and hating a person is always so easy and taken for granted. For other people's contributions, we also take it for granted. If human beings are inherently good, then why do we have so much more malice than kindness?

Why is it that we are good by nature, but we do not know how to love but to hate? I don't want to overthrow our traditional Chinese culture and the Book of Poetry that has been handed down. I just wanted to make my point across.

When you ask this question, you assume that people are born with how to hate, but they don't know how to love. Indeed, it is too easy for us to hate someone, and it is difficult to love someone when we hate someone. Perhaps some people are born with the ability to hate.

However, there are still people who still maintain a kind heart and a loving heart after all kinds of hardships, deceptions, and hurts. To be honest, I can't tell you exactly why people don't understand love, but they naturally know how to hate.

But it seems to me that while they hate, they must have loved once. Probably because the world is too bad and too unkind to them. If a person is born with sound limbs and is born in a warm family, then where does he get his hatred?

Whether others love it or hate it, you just have to be yourself.

They just don't know what love is, maybe they are very tough in their temperament, and they are very strong about not liking, and they are very plain when it comes to love. That's why there is such a difference.

True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, love has long become fast food, not for eternity, but for what once had... What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person