was secretly bullied by a concubine, and her husband didn t dare to squeak, what do you think?

I think that between women, try to let men come forward as little as possible, because once a man comes forward, it is a matter between two families and between brothers. For being concubined.

Secretly bullying, if I were you, I would choose to face the counterattack, the more people who like to make scheming, the more afraid of outspoken people, when you say it, the other party will have nothing to find, and the embarrassment is naturally the other party, and women If you wait for your husband to solve everything, it is really too embarrassing for your husband, you have to understand that you are being bullied, then bully back, don't think about letting others stand up for you.

The situation of being secretly bullied by a concubine and your husband not daring to squeak is mainly due to your husband's personality and emotional intelligence. If your husband is a sensible person who talks about the overall situation, he will deal with this matter from the perspective of the unity and harmony of the whole family, neither worrying his parents, nor letting the conflict between his concubines hurt the brotherly relationship, so he chose to wait and see how to change. There is also a situation where the husband is more timid and afraid of things, and he is afraid of getting involved in provoking trouble and causing greater family conflicts and does not dare to squeak.

There is another situation where your husband has a big personality and doesn't take the conflict between you and her concubine seriously at all. No matter what kind of situation your husband belongs to, I feel that your husband is right, no matter how big the contradiction between you and your concubine is, as long as you don't do anything that violates the principles, your husband can't get involved whether he is an uncle or a brother-in-law, after all, their brothers are compatriots!

The first is that the husband is weaker, and the other is to take care of the brother's affection, and the husband is continuing to accumulate strength, and the hostess should also be open-minded, some problems between women try not to involve the husband, men's thinking is different from women, women think that it is very serious, men will think that it is a trivial matter, and there is no blood relationship between the concubines, and the days of each life are irrelevant, she is unkind to you, you are unjust to her! You don't have to come out of your husband, settle her in minutes! It's better to live together peacefully, and the children are still cousins!

Ay! Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Many brothers build houses at home, and there are people to help in the autumn, and there is no need to apologize, okay?

The ensuing contradictions between the concubines. Women have a lot of hearts and small eyes, they don't look at the big things and don't look at the small places, and the little things that are goosebumps are tangled endlessly. As for the concubine bullying you, you don't have to take her too seriously, it is also possible that she is the person with long hairs on the tip of her mouth and loves to take advantage of her mouth.

In the end, if you can stay away, you can stay away, and if you can't see it, you can't see it. Don't push the contradiction to your husband, don't say that your husband doesn't care, it's not a big deal, he can't speak out, let him talk brotherhood, don't want a man's face. That's what my parents said.

So don't take it seriously if you have nothing to do, and go back by yourself if you have something.

This is the situation in my family, my husband and his eldest brother and sister-in-law are openly and secretly tidying up the two of us, my husband almost doesn't say much, and my mother-in-law is the kind of eccentric, because the two of us live better than them, mainly jealous of us, I was also angry before, and I also quarreled with him, and then I thought about it, if I don't live together, I can't afford to provoke me (my mother's family is my backing, these are the reasons for their jealousy). The more we quarreled, the happier the two of them became, and the poorer we became, the happier they became, and then they simply stopped seeing each other, and I avoided them. For the sake of the elderly, we meet several times a year, but I usually rarely speak, they don't dare to talk about me openly, so I don't go to my heart, behind the scenes, I just pretend not to know, anyway, I and the child's father will not quarrel because of them, not afraid of them, it is unnecessary, know what kind of people they are, big deal in the future, I don't like to make trouble, and because of the situation of his eldest brother's family, I really need sympathy, I just want to say, people, you still have to be kind, retribution is not said, there are gods in the head.

My husband is not popular at home, what I say doesn't count, my husband is not capable of anything. If your husband is capable, others will not dare to bully you. And then the husband cares about face, and he is embarrassed to squeak.

I think it's time for you to stand up, and if you resist, you'll have a chance to turn over.

This man is too cowardly, I remember that my father entrusted me to my uncle's daughter-in-law, and then didn't take care of me, my father criticized her, and his son protected him, and my mother was bullied and sure that my father would not let anyone, and he had to be bullied back.

The concubine secretly bullied her husband, that is, the sister-in-law or younger sibling bullied the brother-in-law. It's secret, which means that it can't be made public, and it can't be put on the table.

I think I borrowed money from him, and I haven't paid it back to him yet, so I don't squeak for fear of hurting the feelings between my brothers. I also have a lot of feelings about this matter, you said that my sister-in-law taught his child not to even give a cheap rubber band to others, and said that my mother said not to give everything to his cousin, this is what his son said, even his husband heard it, and the atmosphere was instantly embarrassing. That day, his wife came to my house and took a fancy to my tea, which cost more than 1,000 yuan, so I still went to my mother's house to get it.

Do you know how my husband does it?! I gave it directly to his brother and sister-in-law, and I was so angry that I had to give him tea because I borrowed some money from him, which made me a little incomprehensible, why?! Her sister-in-law is such a stingy and stingy person, and I am really not very willing to let me send them such expensive tea.

I took a bottle of wine from my mother last night, and my husband was posting wine on WeChat again, and his brother said that he didn't give it to him, and he came to get it. My husband said yes, send him. I'm not happy to say my husband directly on WeChat, and they won't follow.

The husband may have a short-sightedness, and he was caught by his sister-in-law and younger siblings. It was my husband who didn't fight back for the safety of the big family.

At times like this, I usually just rise up and resist. Because the more uncomfortable it is, the easier it is to be bullied.

Why did she bully you, you have been with your husband, she slept with her husband, who bullied whom, if she really bullied you, she wouldn't fight back, still waiting for her to bully, stupid. This is still done by my husband, and it will be done in minutes.

My husband has been bullied for a long time. He was bullied for years before I even entered the door. I entered the door, and my sister-in-law followed me and bullied me.

A good marriage and happiness are decided on the man! Because of course it doesn't matter if he doesn't love, do you know why he doesn't love and doesn't let go? He wants a woman's life.

Women bully men, and men ignore them, it's not bullying! Could it be that her husband stole her sister-in-law? Or sister-in-law through husband? Both of these possibilities are extremely unlikely!

Husband doesn't necessarily believe your words.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need husbands, but there is nothing polite between concubines.

Pretend to be ignorant, if she says about you, you will say go back.

There are also many types of bullying. Just don't bully too much. Unjustified bullying.

That is an aversion to feelings. Bullying with normal jokes. He will like you more.

Love you more. So. Try to bully and bully as much as possible in the joy. Rattle.

After the bullying, I want to coax him

Generally it's fine

If you're really angry, you'll be fooled

Crying and saying you don't love me anymore

Haha, then he's going to coax you in turn!!

...Any joke is fine. It's only a joke that hurts feelings. As long as he truly loves you...Just kidding, okay. Open can accompany the feelings.

Look at what's going on, don't bully at every turn!

You have to grasp it again!