What to do if you are bullied by your roommates, and how to fight back if you are bullied in the dor

Updated on educate 2024-04-08
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Damn, that's a bully! You just pick the best of the 3 people and find him to fight alone! Or if they provoke you, you will directly smash the most arrogant with something, the more ruthless and fierce the better! Of course, don't smash it to death! Don't smash the point. Let's see who dares next time!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, let me tell you, since your school has iron rods and everything, it must be useless to tell the teacher.

    The best way to do this is to change dormitories and think about changing dormitories.

    If you have to fight, remember to say things like "You're fierce, right, it's a heads-up, what's it like to bully one of the three" to avoid serious injury.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Grasp your own strengths, let yourself do something, overwhelm them with momentum, don't let them look down on you, and don't take revenge on them with some unkind means.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't be too weak, be reasonable, fight back if it doesn't work, protect yourself in the process, and ask friends for help and witness if necessary. The most important thing is to be reasonable and do what you think is right.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's up to you, everyone's way of doing things will not be the same, and general communication is the best way.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is better not to cause a big conflict and deal with it calmly.

    3 people in the same dormitory deal with you 1, it is recommended to find your own reason.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is to be permanent, to find the dead knot of the problem, and to untie this knot with heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Communicate with them or talk to the teacher, and it is best to solve it among classmates.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you can tolerate it, try to tolerate it, but if you can't bear it, you must say what you think, and don't let people think that you are a bully, I think so.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Ignore them or tell the teacher.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People are good at being bullied, and the field wants to be found back to fight him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There will always be some small contradictions in the dormitory, and we generally need to constantly run in.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Bear with him, or talk to him, and try to avoid confrontation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Forbearance, if it continues like this, then you must tell them with your actions: I am humble enough for you! I'm not a voodoo doll you're bullied!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Boys or girls?

    In fact, within a dormitory, it's all because of some small things! It is recommended that you talk to the dormitory manager or teacher and change the dormitory! Take a step back and open the sky, many people are looking for trouble for a little face, just because of some small things!

    If you are a girl, it is recommended that you change dormitories! Have fun and have fun!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello, dear, first of all, when you encounter the first college dormitory bullying, you should tell the dormitory manager when you are in charge. The dormitory manager will report to the class teacher according to the actual situation, and the class teacher will solve the problem at his discretion. Don't remember to report it and don't be bullied by your classmates alone.

    If you are timid and afraid of things and dare not speak up, it will only increase the arrogance of others, and you will be bullied next time. Keep a certain distance from the target of bullying, and avoid contact as much as possible without direct contact. If there are other classmates present when you are being bullied, be sure to seek help from your peers.

    If the entire dormitory is in league with the bully, you should report it to the teacher and ask for a dormitory transfer.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Dear, glad to answer for you. Being bullied by your roommates is very uncomfortable.

    This may be due to a lack of heart-to-heart alignment in the process of getting along and communicating with each other, or conflict due to different perceptions of others. In either case, it should not be ignored or tolerated, and should be handled in accordance with laws and regulations, rationally and calmly. 1.

    If you are being bullied or bullied by a roommate, you can seek help from the school's psychological services. 2.If the communication is ineffective, you can apply to the housekeeper or the school** to change the dormitory to avoid unnecessary conflicts.

    3.In school, you should respect the different opinions and cultural backgrounds of others, and contact the dormitory and counselor immediately to find a solution if you find a problem.

    Don't look at that, look at this.

    I just came back from taking Na to the toilet, my roommate Xiao Pan said when I went out, Xiao Pan said that I thought I was in the house, stupid thing didn't Xiao Pan said that I always Xiao Pan couldn't say it halfway through the middle of the worm, I don't know how to say that word, my other roommate Wei Wei said that it was elusive, Xiao Pan said yes, I said that you don't pay attention to me, Xiao Pan said Sister Xing, and then I said to the person in the shop, I pay attention to you, Li Xue is now pulling the curtain, I said this to the shop I am a little, what do I mean by that to the shop? Why say that.

    Dear, glad to answer for you. Being bullied by your roommates is very uncomfortable. This may be due to a lack of heart-to-heart alignment in the process of getting along and communicating with each other, or conflict due to different perceptions of others.

    In either case, not counting grandchildren should be ignored or tolerated, and should be dealt with in accordance with laws and regulations, rationally and calmly. 1.If she is bullied or bullied by her roommates, she can seek help from the school's psychological services.

    2.If the communication is ineffective, you can apply to the housekeeper or the school** to change the dormitory to avoid unnecessary conflicts. 3.

    In the school, you should respect the different opinions and cultural backgrounds of others, and when you find problems related to the big chain, you should immediately contact the dormitory and counselor to seek a proper solution.

    I was very uncomfortable when I said that, and I was very uncomfortable with what I meant by that.

    Are you still there?

    Dear, the reason why she said this should be that she doesn't like you.

    There is no conflict between you.

    No, I don't know what she meant by that.

    Dear, the meaning of being haunted by gods and ghosts is impermanent. Describe the impermanence and elusiveness. After the attack, Brother Shan Gao generally refers to the rapid change of action. It means that you don't say hello when you go out when you're hungry.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Sue the teacher and change the dormitory. That's the only way I can think of it. But the main thing is to make yourself stronger.

    In fact, they dare to do this to you because you have a good temper, and sometimes it is good to be moderately tough. However, at this stage of high school, some conflicts can be avoided or avoided. After all, at the age of high school, there are very few people who are particularly sane.

    So, let's sue the teacher and change the dormitory. Don't think it's so big, it's a shame to sue the teacher, at least others don't even have the courage to sue the teacher.

    After being bullied: First of all, you can't be indifferent, because if you are indifferent, then others will think that you are weak, which is exactly what you say, people are good and are bullied. You have to resist, but you have to resist rightly.

    Brainless rebellion will only lead to more serious and even unbearable consequences.

    As for the correct and reasonable resistance, in my opinion, it is (1. The more others bully me, the more I have to change myself for the better. 2. Never tolerate the violence of others against you without a bottom line, and when others do it, leave evidence that others did it first, and then fight back. 3. Exercise your fighting ability, this is the most important thing.

    4. Don't compromise with the person who does it to yourself, compromise will only bring another injury. )

    Although it is not good to counter violence with violence, when violence comes, countering violence with violence is the best solution. (Of course, the premise is that you have to use your brain to think about the consequences of dealing with all the consequences, and you can't do it without a brain.) )

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now that the matter has passed, you should beware of her first and try to make yourself better, such as: 1. Say hello to classmates and teachers when you meet, at least smile slightly; 2. You must take the initiative to do things within your own share, such as being on duty, sorting out housekeeping, don't want others to urge, and take the initiative to do it yourself; 3. When you see that your classmates are in difficulty, as long as you don't harm your own interests, you can help them with your help, in short, establish your interpersonal relationships, which is very important for students living in the dormitory. Secondly, if there is another incident like her bullying you, you should talk to any teacher you trust, not necessarily the class teacher, as long as you trust.

    Pay attention to your tone of voice when you speak, such as: "Teacher, I don't know what to do if I don't know something?" Then tell the teacher what happened, and at the end, ask the teacher, "What should I do?"

    Instead of simply complaining to the teacher.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Just like a classmate of mine in high school, she was always bullied by several other people in the dormitory at the beginning, at that time he thought that he would just endure it, because after all, he had to live with them for a long time, and it would not be good if he had a head-on conflict with them, but after a long time, he found that they not only did not converge, but did more and more excessively, so at this time he decided to fight back, when a few of them bullied and hurt him, she no longer let them do what they wanted, Rather, they returned the way of others, and what I didn't expect was that after my friend's attitude became tougher, they were no longer as excessive as before.

    So when you have been bullied in the dormitory, the best way is to muster up the courage to confront them, don't think about the destruction of friendship for a few years, let alone just know the forbearance, because they don't take this friendship seriously, then why do you pay so much attention to it, and no matter what you do, they will hurt you, then don't want the friendship of the past few years, anyway, after graduating from college, you probably won't see anyone, there is no need to take this friendship too seriously, after all, they hurt you first, So you're right.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you have been bullied by others, but don't bear to let you fight back, because in this society, no one owes anyone, and there is no need to be suppressed by others all the time.

    Roommates are the people we socialize with the most when we were students, they are different from our friends, we live together every day, we spend much more time together than at home, they are like our relatives, they know our schedule, they know our lives. But everyone's personality is different, there are some people who cherish the friendship with everyone, then they will show themselves in the dormitory are very friendly, and will not worry about others, but there are also some people, because they are in adolescence, they have some personality flaws, they want to be the master of this world, they want other people to obey their own wishes in everything, which will also make others feel very uncomfortable with you.

    I think if you are bullied, you must learn to fight back, because in this society everyone is fair in this society, we don't have to let ourselves listen to the wishes of others, we don't allow others to bully us, we have to learn to make ourselves very strong, this is also a sense of self-protection, you don't always behave very weakly, because then you will let others misunderstand that you are easy to bully, and you will also let some people with more flaws in character bully you.

    If your roommate has been bullying you, then you have to find a way to fight back, but this method should not be in a fierce fight, which is irrational and will make you feel regretted later in life. You can choose to talk to him and ask him why he keeps bullying you. Whether you have really done something wrong, you can go and talk to them directly, because there is nothing in this world that cannot be untied by speaking.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Just like our classmates said, being able to get together is actually a kind of fate, and this kind of fate is not easy to come by. Why don't we cherish this fate, but destroy it? As many people say, the four years of college are actually going to be wonderful.

    Of course, if the relationship with the roommate is handled, the past four years must have been particularly good. But if the relationship with your roommates is not handled well, then the past four years will definitely be painful.

    People who are bullied and bullied are the most afraid of appearing in group life. After all, they're all adults.,Won't you bully others like a child every day?,Don't you feel very naïve? After all, it is a collective life, and everyone's living habits must be different, which requires us to accommodate others by ourselves.

    Take a step back, if we don't worry about a small thing, I think your collective life will be very happy.

    You should also be brave, and you shouldn't just choose to tolerate it. Others bully you like this, and you still can't fight back and scold and don't fight back, it's your own fault. Sometimes we can tolerate some small things, but it is absolutely impossible to touch our bottom line.

    The dog will jump off the wall when he is in a hurry, so you should fight back. Even if they isolate you, don't be afraid, it's a big deal to change dormitories.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Everything happens for a certain reason, and it doesn't just come out for no reason, and I have been bullied by the people in the dormitory, for no more than two reasons. From the perspective of idealism, maybe you bullied others in this way in your previous life, and in this life you meet your enemies and others come to repay you, if you are a person who believes in Buddhism, you must know and bear it with joy, anyway, you can solve it how you want. From the point of view of materialism, you may usually offend people in life, or your life behavior does not pay attention to affect the interests of others, others and you take the opportunity to retaliate against you, so in this case, we must find out the reason, if it is done by ourselves, then we should sincerely apologize to others, hoping that others can forgive themselves The contradiction between the two sides will be resolved, if you have bowed your head and admitted your mistakes, even if you suffer a loss, the contradiction ends here, and the other party continues to find you to bully you and treat you as a fool. This shows that he has a problem with his quality and tutoring, so we must take a strong stance and give him a serious warning.

    Let its arrogance be restrained a little.

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