Why does a person s view of love change from being more playful when he was young to longing for sta

When I was young, I didn't understand anything, but I knew that playing was the most fun, and I would dream of some different experiences, which were vigorous and earth-shattering. But as you grow older, you will experience more and more things, people will be more mature, and you will know more things, and slowly, you will find that many things are plain and simple, and a safe and stable life is the most real, the cruelty of reality will make you stop dreaming, and frustration will make you more sober, and unconsciously, you will find that you don't know when you start yearning for simplicity.

When you're tired of playing, of course you'll want to take a break. This is the same as drinking water when you are thirsty and sleeping when you are sleepy, it is all out of instinct.

People are animals that are very good at seeking advantages and avoiding harm, and over time, some painful memories will be buried, not nothing, but hidden deeply, and even they can't see themselves.

So it's not a transformation, it's an extremely long and painful process. That's growth, isn't it.

There is a German proverb: where a tree crusts, it is often the hardest place.

After being injured, a corner of the heart became more tenacious because of the pain.

I hope mine clears your doubts.

Because I know what love is, through those understandings of the past, I know who I love and what it is, those tosses will only bring pain to myself and future generations, and I know that I have to be responsible, whether it is a man or a woman, it is the same, because at that time, most young people hated superficiality, and matured as they grew older.

First of all, in the process of a person's continuous growth, his mind will become more and more mature, because he has experienced more and more people and things, and his experience of life has become more and more deep, and slowly, you will find that the original self is constantly becoming realistic. Although we hated the word "reality" so much when we were young, after experiencing it, or rather, in the long course of time, when our edges and corners were gradually smoothed out, we also learned to "go with the flow" and learn "reality". When people grow up and mature in their thinking, they naturally lose the impulse of their youth, and they will yearn for a home and stability.

When your view of love changes from a love of play to a desire for stability, I want to say from the bottom of my heart that you have grown up.

People's personality will change with age, when they are young, they are full of vitality, and it is the nature of all young people to love to play, and when they are young, they think about fewer things, and more often they only care about the present; There is a saying that "the leaves fall back to their roots", as we grow older, we become more and more eager to have a stable home, so we no longer think about how to play, but hope to settle down and live a happy life.

You are a boy, the male compatriots around me like "The Little Thing of First Love" very much, because they have beautiful fantasies about first love in their hearts, but most of them do not report hope for first love, and the first love hopes to be beautiful, and romance has no responsibility. But as they grew older, most of them began to respect Grandpa Mao's advice - all love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan! Although this is a bit high-sounding, most boys still yearn for a stable love in their hearts.

Later, they slowly began to contact the society, understood the pressure of employment, and the pressure of the future mother-in-law, of course, they will fight for a stable home for their daughter-in-law, so this is inevitable in life. The general trend is inevitable, and you don't have to worry about it. But as a girl, I think from the beginning I wanted to have a stable and beautiful love, and stability is a must.

Because of the change in age, haven't you noticed that those old people don't like to toss?

As you get older, your personality will change from unstable to calm, that is, mature, and when you are young, you like to linger in the flowers, which is not yet free from the nature of a child, and gradually you will dislike the game, and then you will be a qualified adult.

That's a certainty, at the beginning we are just fun-loving mentality, and after a long time, we hope to have a stable home, so that it will be complete. If you have requirements for your own person or her, and if you have a plan for the future, you will naturally want to be stable.

The water flows for a long time, and it must withstand the blandness.

Gradually mature, the mind longs for a tranquility.

Because as I grew older, my contact with society and my friends started a family one by one, so I also wanted to have a stable home. Different ages have different responsibilities in society.

Because as we grow older, the passage of time, and many feelings in life and emotion, we are all gradually maturing, and we have grown up with the young and frivolous to the last desire for a peaceful life, and we have seen a lot and thought a lot along the way, and we want to get a peace more and more.

As you grow up, you want to settle down and don't want to play anymore. But there are also people who don't think so.

Because when you're young you just want to play.

Love "practice love" After practicing enough and learning it, you will want a stable love and a love that can blossom and bear fruit.

Because you grow up, you need a stable home, a home that belongs to you.

When I was young, I played everything I should have played, and I saw everything I should see, so I slowly settled down.

It means that you've grown up and matured, and no matter who you are, you're going through this transition.

The requirements are different in different periods, so it's mature.

At the university level, that is, around 21 years old.

Man is such a contradictory individual.

Longing for love when he was young. Every day with my lover, before the moon and the moon, I talk about ideals, and talk about the unlit. When love and preparation of limbs and affection are cultivated, they walk into the palace of marriage hand in hand, come into contact with firewood, rice, oil and salt, have children, and bear the bits and pieces of life together.

Contradictions arise naturally.

After starting a family and entering middle age, the relationship between husband and wife has changed from love to more family affection. The pressure of work, the burden of life, the need to honor parents, the need to raise children, and sometimes the incomprehension of lovers. All kinds of trivial life are overwhelming.

At this time, I felt that it was good when I was young, and it was good when I was single.

But that's just a thought when you're in vain. Life has to go on, or lift the spirit, work hard, sort out family relationships, and work together with your lover to build a better home.