Why do you care about a cold person, why do you still care about pain?

The person you care about is cold, it depends on what the situation is, whether this person is a cold person in the first place, or just cold to you, if it is the former, you have nothing to complain about, because since this cold person is worthy of your concern, it means that he (she) must be a very important person to you, whether it is love, family affection or friendship, you should continue, and you should not feel heartache, because this is a normal manifestation for him.

If it's the latter, it means that maybe he hasn't really accepted you in his heart, if it's love that you want, then you have to consider whether he doesn't like you, but he's embarrassed to refuse directly, so use this cold way to make you understand, and retreat. However, if you say that your heart hurts, you will still care, which means that the position of this person in your heart is very important, and I hope you can persevere and persist until the sweetness after bitterness. Because once he gets used to your care, once this care stops, he will not get used to it, and everyone is like that.

There is also a possibility that he does not feel very obvious to you, his heart is also wandering, not knowing whether to accept or reject, at this time, the average person will not behave very naturally, such as being cold, this is a phenomenon of self-preservation, his purpose is only one, before he makes a decision, not to get too close to you, just to give himself enough time to make up his mind.

It is up to you to analyze the specific situation, but no matter which situation it belongs to, I hope you can persevere, at least not let yourself regret it then, come on! Hopefully you'll finally get what you want!

People are like this, what you chase doesn't necessarily like yourself, what you can't get is always the best, so you keep trying, even if you can't see hope, you're still desperate, go on, I can't pour cold water on you, at least you have to make yourself not regret it, do your best, no matter what the result is, at least there will be no regrets, and only in this way will you completely die, your heart will die, it won't hurt, you are not hurting enough.

Falling in love with someone is something you can't control.

When you experience setbacks, when you are sick, when you are lonely, when you eat together, when you get together with friends, when you chat online.

When they are wronged, when they are frustrated, when they are in a bad mood, when they are sick.

Lonely people tend to be indifferent, not good at communicating with others, and are always so indifferent in the eyes of others. As everyone knows, these indifferent people crave companionship. In fact, people who are lonely in their hearts just talk less, and their hearts are also fanatical. These people want to be lively, and at the same time they want to get the attention of others.