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What is it that makes you determined to marry her?

The family hopes that their son will marry a good daughter-in-law, and as for the good-looking family, it is almost a good match, and it doesn't have to be too superior. Especially the parents of the boy, what they are most afraid of is that the daughter-in-law who marries will become a burden, not only can not help much, but also pull back. Your daughter-in-law's own conditions are not outstanding enough, she is still older than you, and her family conditions are not very good.

That's your parents' biggest worry.

You need to focus on these two aspects to talk to the family, one is that she has a bit of a strong personality aspect, she cares about you and is considerate, she will not pull you back and will help you. The other is the family, although her family is not rich, it will definitely not rely on your family, let your family buy this and buy that, it must be your little couple who live their own.

The family wants their children to live a relaxed and happy life without too much pressure, and the central idea of your topic is to say that although you two are having a difficult time, you are happy, happy, help each other and make progress, and she deserves to be had.

See what I mean?Find the root cause of your parents' opposition, solve it from the root, and then let your daughter-in-law cooperate with you to play a few scenes, even if your parents don't agree very much, but they won't be as strongly opposed as they are now.

Hope you succeed.

You need to be calm now!Marriage cannot be based on hot-headedness, it must be considered comprehensively. Love is more romantic than marriage, but marriage is always more real than love. Love can't be completely equated with marriage.

Do you two really love each other?Can I stand on my own after I get married?

To keep your parents from being angry:

1. Don't rush to get married, and slowly let your parents accept your girlfriend;

2. Your girlfriend should be diligent, sweet-mouthed, virtuous, and filial;

3. Be sure to get married, you can first mobilize your uncle or other people who support you and can move your parents to do the work at both ends.

4. You must know that marriage is not a matter for the two of you, it is a social problem. It is not child's play to involve relatives, friends, parents who gave birth to themselves, and future children.

Think twice before you act.

Do you know how much you love her?How important do you think love is?What would happen without her?

This marriage will undoubtedly be prevented, there are really too many flaws, since you ask so, you must have thought that you would be strongly opposed by your parents, I suggest that it is better not to marry her.

Love is not the whole of life, and as painful as it is, a choice that you may regret and may regret for the next 50 years.

Let your parents see the good in your girl, let these obvious things convince your parents, not you to convince your parents, this is also an opportunity for your girlfriend to behave, give your girlfriend a little confidence, parents are soft-hearted, they are just afraid that you will be deceived, we are too young, in the eyes of parents will always be stupid, try it, it really doesn't work, just break up, there is only one parent, but the girlfriend can be found again, there is no need to die for it, or good luck, all happy is what we all want, come on.

In fact, the crux of the matter is that you two do not have the ability or confidence to survive independently in society, so you are still very dependent on your family. Work hard first, and when both of you have a monthly salary of 5,000, you will definitely be fine at home. Come on!

Do what you want to do and treat your parents with a normal heart.

I think marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also the opinions of parents, so it is important to respect the opinions of family members. At the beginning, your parents don't know your lover, this is a link that needs to be done for a long time, only rely on the true feelings of the two of you to impress your parents, so that your parents feel that the love is real, and the living conditions are a process of slow improvement in the future, so you must not do too radical behavior.

Otherwise, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

As long as you stick to your love and slowly do your parents' work, I think your parents will understand you.

Tell your parents that you really love her, why you love her, and believe that your lover has many advantages that will make you so persistent, so that your parents can understand your feelings of loving her. The house is not a problem, you can rent it first, and if you have two people, you can consider paying in installments.

If you have the ability, don't ask your parents to pay for you to buy a house.

There are many choices in life, go your own way and stick to your own choices.

That way, even if it's wrong, you don't have to regret it.

There are many reasons, the key is whether you love each other or not, love does not need excuses.

Personally, I think that at this time, you should bring your girlfriend to the door more, let your girlfriend have more contact with your family, and let your family feel the good of your girlfriend, so that you can get love.

I don't think there's a good balance in this situation, you have to choose one in front of your family and your girlfriend.

Maybe those who feel that the three views do not agree have the intention to use this as an excuse, contradictions are everywhere and all the time, and the same is true for marriage!Therefore, marital happiness is essentially a run-in process of mutual compromise, mutual understanding and mutual tolerance!As long as you admit that contradictions are everywhere, you should understand that discord is not a necessary condition for the failure of marriage, and you want to change someone else, right?

Because this kind of formulation does not conform to the logical thinking of normal people.

If the three views do not coincide, it does not necessarily mean that they cannot go through their lives hand in hand. Marriage needs to be run-in. If you want to drink well, there is no way to drink it, people have to have a sense of responsibility, since you are married to someone, you must be responsible for others, don't use the three views as an excuse, there is no way to shirk your responsibility, do your best to obey the destiny of heaven, you need both sides to constantly grind off their edges and corners and rules and regulations to adapt to each other.

In the end, the husband and wife will gradually form an exclusive three views between the two.

<> you will have a lot of conflicts, and these conflicts will come from differences in aspects of your own views of others and of the world. Because everyone's family, growth environment, and everything around you will affect your worldview, there is no so-called disagreement between the three views, and there are no various problems. Some of them are not careful enough, not generous enough, and not loving her enough.

Women are more spoiled and cuter, don't say that women are unreasonable, when you decide to marry her, you should know. The outlook on life and values are the so-called three views. When you can't allow you to be different from each other, you will have a lot of conflicts.

It's hard to live together.

This kind of image is not only reflected in appearance, but also in the way of behavior and even the three views. After all, there are very few people who are happy with each other at the beginning of marriage, but if we understand and reconcile from the moment we enter the marriage hall. Otherwise, if you share happiness with him, he will feel that you are showing off;If you confide in him about your sadness, he will think you are hypocritical.

No matter how big the contradiction occurs in the future, you must be tolerant and humble to solve the problem, then your marriage must be happy.

I think you should break up with your girlfriend, because your three views are inherently incompatible, and there will be many contradictions in the future.

Sometimes the opinions of parents still have to be listened to, whether the other party's growth environment is urban or rural, family education and atmosphere is the most important, the right person also refers to the consumption concept of two people, the concept of parenting, the way of getting along, and they should seriously consider whether two people are suitable together.

First of all, it doesn't matter whether it's rural or urban. After all, you get married by yourself and her, not your parents who marry her. So if you have identified her yourself, you think that the life of the two of you will be very happy in the future. Then you go and convince your parents to get married.

This kind of person is more traditional in their thinking, and the reason why they oppose it is because they don't believe in you very much, and they can't see the advantages in you, so they can get along more together, so that they can find your advantages and believe in you, and feel very reliable, so they are willing to put their daughter in your hands.

I think you can use the facts to prove that the two people are suitable, so that your parents will definitely agree to you. And let you get married.

I think you should break up with your girlfriend because it's important that your parents don't hurt your partner's three views, otherwise there will be a lot of problems in the future.

I think you can explain it to your parents. The two of us love each other sincerely, and there will be no contradictions because of the different views of the two people.

I think if you still get along well, then your parents can feel that it is very suitable for you to be together, so that this marriage can continue.

Let's be honest, it is advisable for you to break up.

Unless you are materially well-off.

I have seen too many urban and rural families who are unable to get divorced.

The two are together, and the life background is very important. It's too bad, and the final ending won't be satisfactory. I hope you've thought about it for a long time.

What can be done, what can't be done, try hard, what can't be done, communicate.

What does he ask of you?