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In the three-character scripture, it is said that "at the beginning of man, nature is good". Everyone should be born kind, but the acquired environment affects people's growth and changes people's character. People trust each other, but in reality, too much kindness will take revenge, and too much distrust makes the relationship between people tense.
People began to be wary of each other, suspicious of each other, especially those who were hurt by trust, and even began to educate their children, advise their relatives, and tell their friends not to trust others easily. Over time, this society has become what it is now, everyone scolds at the sky, but few people can do their best and work hard to change reality, because they believe that "no matter how hard you try, it's useless, can your arms be twisted over your thighs?" Can you change the world alone?
In the end, it is you who will be hurt." In fact, in everyone's heart, they are still willing to trust, but the reality is very helpless. But I believe that the more people who work hard, the good nature in people's bones will be stimulated, and one day the world will change!
I'm afraid we won't see it)
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Looking at the whole society, the social atmosphere is becoming more and more erosive, social morality is declining, and all kinds of social things are declining day by day.
Many living people in society can no longer be called human, so every creature you see in society can't be counted as a human being, how can there be trust??? Wait until you find someone to trust.
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First, honesty, because we know each other and know each other's basic understanding.
Second, cognition, when our common cognition can resonate, there will naturally be more trust, for example, one plus one equals two, we believe that this ,,, extends to people is ,,, for example, you are very punctual, for example, you are very promised.
Third, the environment, the essence of each person is different, and the environment that can be trusted is also different... Some people trust the need for benefits, some people trust the need for security, and so on.
Fourth, time. Feel with your heart, any understanding of each other, any code of conduct. Thus slowly perceiving the pattern.
In fact, trust can be said to be trust, or it can be said to be regular,,, to look for it confidently.
The son of the night is indoctrinated.
The foundation of trust is based on the initial impression that both parties can treat each other with sincerity and respect, but in today's society, there are fewer and fewer people who can really trust each other. Trust is also built on material foundations. We have the responsibility and obligation to trust another person, and we also have the right to be trusted by another person, and the degree of trust depends on the depth of emotions and the amount of material.
According to the psychological process of trust, the basis of trust between people can be divided into two aspects: first, the way to obtain the information required to generate trust (correct and effective communication), and second, the fundamental needs corresponding to the generation of trust (different needs).
Honesty is a prerequisite, but it is not enough.
From the perspective of the psychological process of trust, the basis of trust between people can be divided into two aspects: first, the way to obtain the information needed to generate trust (correct and effective communication).
Second, the fundamental needs corresponding to the generation of trust (different needs produce different trust).
I believe that the basis of mutual trust between people is honesty, as long as both parties treat each other with sincerity and never participate in words. I think people will get along with each other.
People should be able to treat each other with sincerity and respect, and should treat each other with sincerity, love and tolerance. Caring for each other, loving each other, and helping each other are important principles for strengthening interpersonal relationships. There must be a run-in period between people from acquaintance to harmony, and there will be constant friction and collision in long-term interactions.
In order to further consolidate and develop the relationship between the two countries.
Different people have different foundations, and some may not need any to trust each other's 、、、
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The trust between people isBased on feelings, the relationship is unstable in a sense, and the most important factors that maintain this relationship are emotions and interests.
1. The crisis of trust is due to people's instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and the traditional social morality in modern society has been impacted to a large extent, and people's various wealth, status, and security have been challenged in various aspects.
2. People will have a crisis of trust, so that many people only trust money and do not trust people. The crisis of trust in Westerners is more serious than in China, and we can understand it from their emotional sustenance.
3. The emotional foundation between people is too weak, there are too many ways to obtain emotion, and the channels are too wide, so many people think that what they have lost can be regained immediately. This leads to the casual rupture of emotions and the establishment.
4. Trust built on the basis of affection is often a two-way interaction. What makes you in an emotional relationship is often like to communicate your secrets, and this communication needs to be based on the assumption of trust in the other person (among other purposes).
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I believe that trust should be built on integrity, and if there is no integrity, how can anyone trust.
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Trust depends on how helpful you are to others.
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Reasons: 1. Trust is a kind of hope, hoping to be treated sincerely by others, hoping to have some confidant words to secretly say to someone, hoping that someone will help you when you are helpless, and hoping that someone will sincerely wish you when you are proud, which is the basis for all the beautiful feelings between people and wisdom.
2. Trust is the basis of getting along, people live together, and mutual trust can come together. If you don't trust the doctor, then why go to the hospital and never go to the doctor. You don't trust your teacher, why should you learn culture from him?
How can a friend help you if they don't trust you. Your parents don't trust you, why should they give birth to you and raise you. Good feelings are limited and unattainable, and so is trust, which needs to be cultivated slowly and carefully.
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<><1.Some people say that in this huge world, there are not many people to make friends with. In fact, sometimes, it's not that no one wants to approach you, but that you keep an eye on the door and refuse to accept others.
I often hear a saying that the heart of defense is indispensable. However, everything needs to be measured, and excessive precautions often turn into excessive suspicion.
If you assume from the outset, no one deserves your full trust. Then even if someone really has the intention to be nice to you, you will find all kinds of doubts in it, and then completely overturn everything they have done.
For others, this is a kind of unrecognized harm: for oneself, it is the beginning of self-isolation. In the long run, it is tiring and tiring.
No one is an island, and deep down, we must want to be understood and cared for. However, you will find that when it comes to trust, we often unconsciously fall into the mistake of double standards.
We want others to be genuine, but we never really open up ourselves. Originally, I just wanted to leave room for myself, suffer less losses, and be less deceived. But how can a person who is always on guard against others gain the honesty of others?
Trust is always mutual, and sincerity is always interchangeable.
2.Whether a person is willing to trust others or not has no absolute relationship with what others say or do. To a greater extent, the slippage is caused by the sense of uncertainty and insecurity of the self.
People who choose to trust others are not unaware of the risks that come with it. But instead of getting up and falling into blind suspicion and being mediocre, their choice is: believe in themselves and others.
There is no perfect person in this world, and there is no one who can live up to all our expectations. If you are suspicious of people because you are not satisfied at all, or if you turn everyone away for fear of getting hurt, the results will outweigh the losses. If you want to gain understanding, you must first give respect; If you want to be cared for, you have to give affection first.
Make yourself a trustworthy person, so that you can be sincere and sincere, heart for heart, and meet people who are also sincere to you.
3.Trust is not given by others, but built by oneself.
We always think that trust will cost us, but in fact, without trust, there is no meaning in our interactions. Delivering trust is not only a prerequisite for maintaining a relationship, but also a link of communication. And this trust needs to be two-way.
You are good to me, and I recognize your goodness; I am good to you, and you believe that I am good, there are some things that are indispensable nutrients in life, such as trust, tolerance and understanding between people. Without it, we can only live in suspicion and loneliness, unable to have pure emotion, unable to experience the warmth that touches the deepest part of our hearts.
Seeing the sincerity, the key is to bury the wax to harvest the sincerity, let the journey of life all the way to flowers, so that each other's affection is always there.
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