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I think I may have experienced too much along the way, and I have tolerated too many of each other's shortcomings over others. So the two of them really understood what it means to be harmonious in order to come together. Only tolerance can bring you together through thick and thin.

So thank you. This is the biggest experience.

Because of the separation and integration, it is not easy to come together in the end, thank the other party for not leaving him, not giving up lightly, thank the other party for understanding and tolerance, and thank the other party for choosing himself in the end.

Love is a very complicated relationship, there is no blood relationship but there is family affection, not the same sex but to become partners to share each other's affairs. Most of the reasons for splitting and merging in love are the following three points:

One. When encountering a problem, two people do not have the same point of view, and one party prefers the other party to agree with his own ideas.

For example: you want to get married early, he wants to get married later, you have to ask him to marry early, and he doesn't agree. In this case, one party must compromise, say what is really in each other's hearts, let the other party understand, take a step back, and reach reconciliation.

Two. I don't have confidence in this relationship.

Splitting and merging may be discovering the shortcomings of the other party, wanting to give up but not being able to let go. Maybe we shouldn't be so stingy, we should be more determined, since we have been dividing and combining, it means that this relationship is too loved, so don't let it go! Don't dislike each other, let's live a down-to-earth life.

Three. There is something that is unacceptable to both parties.

There is a big thing between you, it is difficult to overcome it, such as Tongru's economic foundation, both families, etc., when encountering a problem that the two people can't solve, they want to break up when they mention the burning oak spring, and they are reluctant to break up after the breakup, here you need to be each other's allies to face together, as long as you two are willing, you can drag on to overcome everything!

The above is my personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it.

This love, we usually call it a more tortuous love, that is to say, two people stumbled for many years, and finally walked together, indicating that their regretful love road is very bumpy and tortuous.

Divided and combined many times, or identified each other, indicating that they are relatively firm in love, it is not easy for two people to walk together, and finally I hope that the couple can cherish each other's love.

The so-called love is "one thing to one thing," the more humble you give, the other party will take it for granted, the more arrogant you are, the other party will be interested in you like this.

Tsundere does not mean that there is no one in your eyes, or you ignore the efforts of others, but you can afford to let go in love, when you love him, you will not blindly fall into love, be a girl with a love brain, do not love, and will not fall into self-pity, but to gather and disperse, and maintain your due posture.

In the end, you will find that it is really necessary to be a tsundere woman, it makes you understand that in the world of love, there must be a bottom line and principles, rather than blindly following each other, so it will be very tiring to get along.

Don't think "what if I'm tsundere and make the other person think I'm a nice person to get along with"? If there is a person who thinks like this, it can only mean that he is not the right person for you, whether you are arrogant or humble, he will not like you, and when you meet such a person, don't waste your efforts.

The easier it is to get something, the less it is cherished, the more arrogant it is, the more people think you are rare, and the more he knows how to cherish it.

The common mistake that women make in love is that if they love him, they will give up themselves for him, and if they love him, they will become humble.

Maybe this is also a kind of love, but in the end, you will find that you are no longer attractive when you lose yourself, and the other party no longer likes you as much as before, and there will even be all kinds of dislikes, thinking, "How did you become like this", "I still like the original you." ”

This also reminds those girls in love that even if you love someone again, even if your relationship is good, you have to be yourself in love, a little "tsundere" and a little "personality", so that you will be more prominent and more likable.

What you can't get will make people feel mysterious, make people want to cherish, be a tsundere girl, so that he will feel that he wants to conquer you, and after conquering, he will not dare to give up easily, for fear of losing you from now on.

If you repeatedly give in and give up everything for him, he will only feel that this thing should be like this, and he will not feel moved, nor will he feel that there is anything to be grateful for.

Only if you keep your own style and make him feel that even if you leave him, you will live well, so you will naturally make him unforgettable.

Because others think that the two of them are separated and united, and they want to be able to get engaged in the end because they want them to be happy. Most people yearn for love to be able to go to the end. But only the two of them know that there may be a gap between the two of them.

Because I feel that their relationship is very deep, I think it is impossible for them to break up.

Emotional matters, no one except both parties can understand the feelings of the parties. That's why I don't understand why the relationship between two people is so good, why it still ends in a breakup.

The reason why I don't believe it is that they are divided and merged, and they have been engaged for a few years, thinking that the two of them are just making trouble, and after the quarrel, it will be fine! It's like shouting wolf! Talking about breaking up every day, the last two people got engaged, it's a truth!

Because you convinced them that you could be together.

Couples are together, divided and combined, even if they are engaged, it will not be better, and often divided and combined will affect the relationship between two people, which will make two people insecure.

This state will not be good even if you are engaged, and you can't be forced to be together if your relationship is unstable.

Since you can't be together, why are you so tired of love, it's better to break up and find happiness.

If this happens in the long run, it's easy to have problems.

1. Love is not to change each other, but to grow together.

2. Have the greatest hope, do your best, plan for the worst, have the best attitude, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, accept what is true, the sun is always new, and every day is a beautiful day.

3. In fact, every ferry port can be docked or ferried, and it is warm and always by your side. Life is a journey with no beginning and no end. All the stories will come to an end, vigorous, after all, it is a passing cloud.

The way of Zen enlightenment lies in the clear heart, forgive the time, remember the good, delete the complicated and simplified, freeze the fragments of the years, let the tide of life surge, and my heart is at peace.

4. In a short life, everyone is a foreign traveler on the journey. This is neither your permanent home nor your final home, it is only a temporary visit for you.

5. If a person sees clearly how tortuous the course of life is, it is best for him to rely on his conscience as a navigator. As long as people who know how to control themselves automatically at the right time, they can achieve true balance of mind and have a happy life.

6. The years are in a hurry, life is short, beautiful things can't be kept, and there will not be too many happy moments, knowing how to cherish, live to the fullest, and live happily is the wisest choice.

7. The journey of life has a journey of scenery. Looking back at the picture scroll of life, the fragments of the past, there are always some encounters that will stay in the bottom of my heart; There are always some people who have given us warm company. Who will carve the pure beauty of time into a heart flower, and warm the color of life with traceless pen and ink?

Who is the soul of the soul, in the world of a drop of water, nourishing the feelings between the flowers, in the rush of time, together and separated?

8. There are many things in life that are enough to knock you down, but what really knocks you down is your own mentality.

9. On the road of life, please cherish the people who watch the scenery together, maybe at the next corner, they will wave goodbye. All the stories, one day will be yellowed on the plain paper of the years, chanting a small poem, the book a touch of affection, not for the rendering of the heart, nor for who to remember, just in the light of the passing years, learn to be tolerant and grateful, until the green silk is full of frost, suddenly look back, if there is still warmth, it is the brightness of time.

10. How many bumps can be walked on a road; How much joy and sorrow can a heart hold; How much separation can a love endure, how many reincarnations can a story deduce, how much time can tolerate, and the journey of life will always be divided and merged; There will always be comings and goings in the corners of time, time, stumbling, life, ups and downs, how much of the past can be taken away by a turn, and how many vicissitudes can be written at a glance. ‍

It's enough to say it once, there are some things that don't need to be said every day, just know each other in their hearts.

The real good is the interaction with each other and some daily actions.

Let you feel the existence of love, and wish you happiness and happiness!

This shows that your boyfriend likes you very much, although he has been separated from you for several years, but now that he is engaged, your relationship has finally come to the palace of marriage, this is a very beautiful relationship, only people who love each other can get married, which means that the relationship between the two of you is very sweet, and your boyfriend loves you very much.

It's easy to love someone, it's hard to love someone when you give up someone, how deep is it, what should I do? Love is intoxicating. Being with you is my promise to you, not a given.

Out of the shadow of love but powerless. The farthest distance in the world is not the ends of the world, but I stand in front of you, but the person you love is not me....

When I said, "Don't be afraid of hooligans, be more hooligans than hooligans." You say, "There is a person who has rice and an inside, and he can see through the sorrow of his wife."

Although the memories can't be erased, they are always old, so the tears can't flow until 12 o'clock. Use a flower season to warm your eyes, life is a game, a game that you have to play if you don't want to play.

I have a language book in my left hand and a lighter in my right hand, and I won't order ** so easy there. Hee-hee! You have the right to abandon me, but I have the strength to make you regret it. If you are not afraid of an enemy like a god, you are afraid of a buddy like a dog!!

When you turn away, all the questions come one after another! It turns out that sometimes I feel lonely and helpless, sometimes I feel heavy, and sometimes I feel conflicted! Shuttling alone in the world of two people, only you are my closest partner.

My tears have turned into rain, and I am reluctant to wet you, the comfort in my heart is only you, I can give it, and the comfort of the body belongs to you alone...

We only have one earth, so everyone should take care of the earth; There is only one me on earth, so everyone should love me! Even you!

But the love that has passed away will not come back....

This shows that your boyfriend loves you very much, you have been together for a few years, or engaged, which means that your relationship is very stable, and two people must care for and tolerate each other together, and each other, such a relationship will last longer.

Alone, they go around and around together, divide and merge, and now they have finally achieved positive results, I hope you cherish this relationship, because it is really not easy to achieve positive results, and then it also depends on the attitude of both parties, because if you can reach the state of integration, it means that you once felt that it was not suitable.

Some things are not spoken, but actually acted on.

Many things are not by talking, but by doing, and saying it every day has no benefit to us at all, nor does it have any impact, so doing it every day can make our lives more secure.

Love is not something that is said in words, it is not interesting to talk too much, as long as he usually cares about you, don't ask for too much.

There is no need to say some things every day, it depends on how well you do, be responsible for your family, and be positive in life and work.

Why is it necessary to say this kind of thing every day, isn't it too false to say it every day? Some words say once or twice.