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Anonymous users2024-02-12I think first of all, we must distinguish what caused you to break up, and you should also think carefully about whether you can persist for a lifetime if you continue like this, it is necessary to spoil a person, but there is no limit to spoil a person, you don't have to worry about it, in fact, such a woman does not need to be so cherished, when you let go, you will see that there are so many good women in the world that are worth cherishing for your life, besides, I think like you said, this woman is inseparable from you in the end, Because no one will cherish her as much as you do!
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Hehe, a girl who has done things so decisively, do you think it is necessary to redeem them? What is the most important thing for two people to love each other? Living together, working together, building a world that belongs to two people together, this so-called happy world is only maintained by you, don't you feel very tired?
Seriously, buddy, if I show you how you are, that woman hasn't loved you, she may like you, but it's definitely not love, and if she does, she'll take care of you the way you do, and you buy her delicious food, has she ever bought it for you? You always cared about her, did she care about you in the same way? Think about it, from your words, I feel that you are a very responsible man, this is my evaluation for you, if you think what I said is right, give up, because you are helpless, sad and lost.
Forgetting a person is equivalent to giving her a beautiful opportunity Your happiness may be in the distance on the beautiful pure land Now immediately organize your backpack and go to the pure land that belongs to you, and tidy up your backpack can be understood as tidying up your own psychology
I wish you happiness!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Forget it, as long as a woman changes her mind, it is difficult to recover.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09If she left you for your own good, then there is no need to keep her.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Tell the kid that the clause isn't always good.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Ways to keep your lover: both parties communicate calmly, self-reflect unilaterally, and sincerely apologize to each other.
1. Both sides communicate calmly
When both sides calm down, maybe the two of you feel that you are not very used to it, the feeling that both parties are not around, the two of you will naturally be together, talking, this time is sick, don't go directly together, because the two of you go directly to reconcile, maybe the contradiction between the two of you who broke up at that time has not been completely dissolved.
The two of you just need to sit together calmly, it is best to communicate face-to-face, and the two of you will study together why the two of you chose to face this love with a breakup.
2. Unilateral self-reflection
After the two of you communicate, you already know where the problem is, you need to try to reflect first, that is, you need to know why you have such a problem in this love, or why she has such a problem.
Is it the character of the two of you that causes this contradiction to happen, or is it the usual behavior of the two of you that causes this kind of thing to happen.
You need to reflect, that is, to reflect on this matter, what are your shortcomings, because a slap he can't make a sound, the two of you have a conflict, and the breakup will definitely cause some problems on both sides, and there will definitely be problems in your speech or behavior, if only one party has a problem, then this relationship will not really be separated.
3. Sincerely apologize to the other party
Regardless of the matter, you feel that you yourself are at fault. Or do you feel that you are right, and when you do self-reflection, you have to ask the point of the question, maybe the question is him.
His mistake, but after all, you Wu Husun wants to save her heart, so you have to apologize, but I think this kind of thing must be a problem for both parties, because we have just said that a slap in the face, he can't make a sound.
So when both of you have problems, since you want to redeem each other first, there must be a sense of ritual between the two of you, that is, to apologize, don't say that there are two people, no one apologizes.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Here's how to keep your lover:1. Calmly analyze emotional problems, and have a corrective and closed mentality.
2. Accept the other party's accusations against you and learn to reflect on yourself.
3. Understand what the other party's needs are and understand each other.
4. Respect each other's privacy and give enough personal space.
5. Change your way of doing things.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Techniques for retaining lovers, such as: don't stalk, change your self-imposed life, change yourself to make new friends, and attract you a second time
Saving Love Tip 1:Don't stalk
After breaking up with the other party, don't take the initiative to contact the other party, let alone stick to the other party all the time. Calm down with each other for a while, keep a certain distance, and contact in another way, such as connecting as friends.
Saving Love Tip 2:Change your own life
Reinvent yourself and build a confident version of yourself. No matter what the reason for breaking up with each other is, there is one thing that needs to be reflected, that is, if you are not good enough, if you are good enough, the other party will be reluctant to leave. So, before redeeming your love, try to make your life colorful, reshape yourself with confidence, and make yourself more attractive.
Saving Love Tip Three:Change yourself and make new friends
After creating a better image, you might as well get to know more of the opposite sex. Maybe as a party, there is only the other party in my heart, and I only think about how to redeem it, and I am not in the mood to meet another girl, but in fact, this is precisely the point of life after death. Now that you have broken up and have been contacted from the identity of an ordinary friend, it is necessary to meet more people of the opposite sex and let the other party see that you still have many advantages.
Saving Love Technique 4: AftertremblingSecondary attraction
The final stage is secondary attraction. Either way, just be able to show a new way of life and pique the other person's interest. Especially when his ex sees that he is surrounded by excellent people of the opposite sex, and can get along naturally with these opposite sexes, he will definitely have a lot of thoughts in the other party's heart, such as "It turns out that my boyfriend is so good, why did he leave in the first place?"
Because at this time, the other party has already felt a new self and noticed the changes in himself. You will gradually become curious about yourself, and you will slowly be attracted to yourself again.
Emotional recovery techniques
1. During the separation period, you must live a good life first, and don't let yourself have too much pressure. Don't put yourself in the middle of your grief, be sure to cheer yourself up.
2. Then find the reason for the contradiction between the two people, and only when you find the reason can you solve the problem and see if it is possible to recover it in this relationship.
3. See if the contradiction between two people is out of your own body, so at this time you must learn to self-reflect, if it is your own reason, you must make changes at this time.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Communication: Be honest with your lover about your feelings, tell him how much you value him and her, and ask him if she would still like to be with you. 2.
Change: If your lover brings up the reason for the breakup, find a way to change your shortcomings and let him see that you are improving. 3.
Bonding: Reminiscing about the good times you had together, strengthening your relationship, finding common ground, and doing something meaningful together. 4.
Give space: Sometimes people need to be alone or alone to think about debate issues, and give the other person enough space and time during this time. 5.
Express love: Constantly surprise the other person and bring Qiyu to touch his or her heart, such as giving gifts, writing warm commemorative letters, etc. These methods do not always work, and it depends on the specific situation.
The most important thing is to take your relationship with the other person seriously, communicate openly, and try to understand and tolerate the other person.
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