Family troubles, friends come in to help out.

It can't go on like this, some people have to inch in, tell them no, and just say that they will give grandpa's money to grandpa, and let grandpa not give anyone else.

Shameless people! Ay. Why bother with relatives?

Not really! Just come hard! Break off the relationship and never communicate again! That relative won't do your family any good!

Hey, there's everybody now!

It's almost the New Year! Give them some face first! I can reconcile as much as possible!

Is it a relative?

It's a ripple effect. Your grandfather added money to your family, and your second aunt didn't like it, thinking that your grandfather was biased, so she also wanted to, and after getting it, your aunt would think the same way, so she would do the same. Human nature, but it will definitely not work for a long time, and it will definitely affect family harmony!

As the saying goes, communication is the best bridge! Communicate and maybe it will be solved! I wish you family harmony!

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and it is better to teach people to fish. Whatever the foundation is laid, what kind of fruit will be born. I don't know how old you are, in a situation like this, your parents will be hindered by the face of your grandparents and not easy to say anything, in the end it is difficult for your own mother to do, if it is my family, such a black face is played by me, the principle of black face play is "to maintain the physical and mental health of grandparents as the starting point, to be able to understand all the depression complexes of the mother as the fundamental purpose, when speaking according to the speed of speech, the tone of ruthlessness, to the point."

Of course, we must also remember that the old saying "home and everything is prosperous" are forced to live, and the real evil people are still rare.

It's money that is to blame, and I don't have the money to buy any car.

I would venture to ask, are your grandparents quite rich? Then let them explain the distribution of the property, so that your aunt and them will not come to make trouble.

In addition, if they really come to make trouble, come with them, provide water and food every day, two more pairs of chopsticks, and give her a bed at the door at night. Look at when they finish, I still don't believe it, she can come for two months and half a year after a month.

To put it mildly, your two aunts are scoundrels, and the best way to deal with scoundrels is to be more scoundrels than her, and she will have no choice. But remember that you can't lose, those who come are guests, and you can't be hungry and thirsty. Of course, if you eat pickles or big fish and meat, you can do it yourself.

Alas, the money society has lost its family affection, and you ask your parents to say directly to others: give, you can! It stands to reason that the elders are raised by everyone, I have been raising them for many years, you can calculate all the living expenses over the years... Many people are deceived and afraid of evil!

If you're good to him, he'll want you to suck it up.

Every family has a scripture, but the scripture is different. Your uncle has long been under the protection of your grandmother's wing, and has developed selfishness, lack of progress, and a short temper, and all of this can only be corrected by your uncle himself. Of course, freezing three feet is not a day's cold.

The process of correction also requires the understanding of the family, the help and support of the family, and the tolerance.

Judging from your description, it seems that your parents and grandmother's family live together. Uncle is used to being spoiled by Grandma, and this may be a very uncomfortable place for your whole family. But there's really no way around it.

We often say that a person is easy to change, and his nature is difficult to change. So don't expect your uncle to become what you want him to be. So don't blame your grandma and your parents for this.

You have to be calmer and go with the flow when it comes to your uncle. If you can help him, you will help him, and if you can't help him, stay away from him.

Regarding some troubles from the family, it is generally that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well enough, the relationship between husband and wife is not good enough, the family economic income is not much, the basic life is difficult to maintain, etc., life is not easy, so you must know how to cherish the happy life of the family you have, cherish the people around you, want to open up small things, discuss big things together, and learn to tolerate and let go of everything. You have to learn to live each day happily and happily, just do it.

A family has too many troubles, I don't think about it so much when we are together, and after getting married, all the problems are exposed, and the problem of children is also very important, so I think I try to have children as late as possible.

is in his thirties, he shouldn't have been together, he must be weaned and let him feed himself in order to understand this sentence of others. Hard work, you can go to your grandmother's house often, and you can also reduce your own stress.

His values have all been formed, and no one else can do anything unless he makes changes himself.

Every family will have troubles, and we must understand each other, tolerate them, and collude with each other.

Forgive and tolerate your family, just treat your family well, and there is no Buddha in the south.