What are the precursors of divorce and what are the pre divorce signs?

When there is a problem between husband and wife, communication is the only way to solve it. When two people live together, there will inevitably be stumbles, and any problem, as long as the two people are calm and communicate openly and honestly, things will always be solved. If there is a problem, the most feared thing is not to communicate, if two people do not communicate, the problem can only get deeper and deeper, and there is no way to solve it.

Therefore, if there is a problem between the husband and wife, if you want to communicate with each other, but the other party refuses to communicate, this matter is a precursor to the divorce of both parties. After all, there is a problem, and there is no way to solve it for a long time, so there will be a divorce.

Trust is the premise for two people to love each other. The letter is bent and the love is there, and without trust, love is gone. In marriage, only two people who trust each other can fall in love for a long time, and this kind of couple can make friends at any time, chatting anytime and anywhere, without scruples, this kind of relaxed and happy way of getting along will make the two more and more in love.

On the contrary, once the husband and wife lose trust, it is like a broken bathroom mirror, and then the fate is celebrated. No matter what the other party says or does, I maintain a suspicious mentality, sensitive and suspicious all day long, what is the point of such a day?

If in a marriage, the man next to you is not worthy of your trust, or if he does something that makes you no longer want to trust him, then it means that the marriage is about to die. Once a woman loses trust in a man, she will no longer pay attention to what the man says, does, or lose her temper, which means that the marriage has lost its foundation and may collapse at any time.

Two people who love each other will care about each other, and if you really love a man, then every move like this can touch your heart. Even if he only goes out for a few days, your love will leave with him, and you may be concerned about whether he has food and clothing at any time.

If a man goes out for many days, you think of him very little, and even if you think about it, you don't like to take the initiative to call a ** and ask him if he is safe, just like she is just a passerby in your life, and all its joys and sorrows will no longer be related to you, then it means that you have no love for him. A marriage without love is like a kite with a broken string, with no branches to rely on, and it cannot find a place for the soul. It's not that he's bad, it's love; It doesn't matter, it's not loved.

Sometimes, to love or not to love, it's just a matter of words.

When a man is an inconsequential being to you, then it means that he is not so important to you, and you begin to ignore his existence and gradually get used to the daily life of a person. All the joys and sorrows in the marriage are shared by you alone, and you do not have the urge to share with the man, then it means that you no longer have any obsession with him, and the marriage is about to end.

The highest level in marriage is mutual tolerance, and when you have a disdain for a man, it means that you are no longer happy with him. When you love him, his dirty socks can be thrown away, and you can happily help her pick them up and wash them in a new and tidy way; When you love him, his temper is all colorful in your eyes, and you can tolerate his temper; When you love him, he can stretch out his mouth to eat, and you are willing to be his backbone; When you don't love him, even if he helps wash the sheets, you can dislike him for not being clean;

When you don't love him, even if he begs you in a low voice, you will still dislike his weakness and incompetence; When you don't love him, all its strengths become flaws, and the farther away you are from him, the better. Perhaps, it is not him, but the feelings between you. If you don't love him anymore, of course you won't tolerate him anymore, and of course you will dislike him more and more.

Reduced frequency of communication: Couples communicate significantly less frequently, or there are situations such as poor communication and avoidance of topics.

Emotional detachment: The feeling of emotional alienation between couples has increased significantly, and there are situations such as indifference and not caring about each other.

Frequent conflicts: Conflicts and quarrels between husbands and wives are frequent, and there are situations such as inability to communicate and blame each other.

Mutual accusations: Husbands and wives have published articles that accuse each other and He Mao attacks each other, lacking understanding and support.

Decreased care: The care and care between husband and wife has decreased significantly, and there have been situations such as ignoring each other and not caring for each other.

Sexual problems: There are problems in the sex life between couples, such as decreased frequency, disharmony, etc.

It is important to note that the above signs do not necessarily mean that the couple will inevitably divorce, but if these signs occur, the couple needs to communicate and resolve the issue in a timely manner to avoid further deterioration. If the problems between the couple cannot be resolved, it may eventually lead to divorce.