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You are still worried about her, probably because you can't let go of this relationship, you can't bear her, and you hope to be reunited; It may also be because you are now empty in your heart and have no emotional sustenance for the time being, so you will miss your former lover by inertia.

You now have 2 choices, either let go of your dignity and persuade each other with good words to see if you can save your love;

Or pack up your mood, find a girl who is more suitable for you, and renew a new relationship.

If you're just worried about her, it's probably because you've loved and hopefully she'll be doing well without you.

If you're worried about her, you love her. Even if you don't feel as loving as you used to and should stop loving, you definitely have her weight in your subconscious.

Not necessarily, because you can be caring

It depends on what you think, love for her is not in words, but in deeds, and feelings.

Go to BA 3 as you feel for yourself

Except for love. People have other feelings

Hehe, I'm just like you.

Time can always fade away.

Of course, it means that you still have her in your heart

If it's a friend, you'll be worried, I don't know how long you've been together, being with someone is a habit, it's hard to get rid of it quickly, get used to it slowly!

No, it's just that you're too nice.

Didn't I say, "Why are you trying to get back to the past when you're divided?" Nowadays, who still likes to look back, don't be stupid! It's not tired...

Brother, let's go get her back.

People must learn to cherish what is lost, and what is lost will never come back.

Dude, teacher, it's annoying to have a woman. It's also annoying to have no woman.

This feeling I've tried, tired, trying to figure out how to forget to put

Suddenly separated, not very adaptable.

There are several reasons why her parents disagree with her finding a boyfriend from another town:

First of all, it is necessary to make it clear that her love is rushing to get married.

1. The distance is long, like who to go to for the New Year's festival is a practical problem that will never be easy to solve;

2. The environment is born, and if you marry into an unfamiliar environment, you will feel very uncomfortable;

3. The diet is different, and the diet will be different from place to place, such as the difference between the north and the south;

4. Different languages, different languages, different cultures, and a sense of loneliness in a foreign land.

The above list is not all the reasons, but it can still show that her parents do not agree with her concerns about finding a boyfriend from other places.

Alas, it's a long-distance relationship problem again.

This kind of question is asked every day, and I have seen countless questions.

But when I see it again, I still feel sad.

Honestly, it's up to the two of you.

1. See how much you love each other.

2. See if your view of love is correct and mature.

3. Look at how much her parents love her.

4. Look at your future life plan.

Yes, these are all empty words.

You'll say, I'm just asking for a suggestion.

But kids. Without taking these into account, the advice is all false.

Let's start with that. 1. See how much you love each other.

-You said that you have only been dating for half a year, and some people have enough to know someone in half a year, and some people may not necessarily see through a person in ten years. Whether you have wasted these half a year, only you know. I don't know how much you've gotten to know her in half a year.

If you say, yes, I've decided that she's the one I'm looking for, then you look down on my advice.

If not, you just like her very much, and you can't talk about it for a lifetime, then you might as well forget it. Because generally speaking, only when you have a goal and you strive for something, will you go all out.

2. See if your view of love is correct and mature.

-This aspect refers to your view of love. If you just think that you can find someone to live with for the rest of your life, you can break up. If you're all holding on to finding the best person in the world, don't let it go.

The world is too big. Everyone is very different. If you accidentally miss a good one, it's hard to find it.

3. Look at how much her parents love her.

- A war between children and parents, where children are always the last winners. So, if her parents are not out of a strong desire to control, and just can't bear the child to stay away from their parents and suffer, then stick with her. It's only a matter of time before parents compromise, as long as they see your sincerity and your love for their precious daughter, they will nod their heads.

This painful process has to be experienced. Don't let up.

4. Look at your future life plan.

- You need to choose your future direction, such as the direction of employment, and choose the city where you will work. This is the premise of your relationship, the parents of the girl know that you are a person with goals, know that you are a thoughtful person, and will nod and rest assured that their daughter will be handed over to you. You're a man, you have to have this big-picture view.

It is useless to emphasize in vain that you love each other.

I'm just going to talk about a few things. It's how you feel about each other that matters.

She said that she was reluctant to give up, whether it was because of your habit of being with you, or because of her feelings for you. You need to judge for yourself.

The boy has to face the reality, if he doesn't want to let go, then can he accept that he gives up everything and goes to the woman's city to start over.

On the contrary, you must learn to give up, and it is painful to give up feelings. But think about it, once there is no result of the relationship, it will only blindly consume enthusiasm, consume youth, and end up miserable.

Life is a process of constantly choosing to realize while walking, and it is not easy to maintain a long-distance relationship. Although the girl said that she was reluctant to give up, in the end, the environment will change, and the people will also change.

He must be reluctant to give up, he still has feelings for you.

Summary. A long-distance relationship is not a long-term solution, so let's get together!

She was so sad to cry when I just separated from my long-distance girlfriend, so I went back to her to do this, right?

A long-distance relationship is not a long-term solution, so let's get together!

We are all lovers, no one can do without each other, the family situation of both of us is not good, and there is no emotion, I just came back from her yesterday, I feel coaxed, I didn't say anything when I left, I didn't say goodbye, she cried for a day, I was so distressed so I secretly bought a plane ticket, I want to go back and coax her, I don't know if it's right?

But I couldn't say anything but be happy when I saw her.

Shouldn't there be such feelings, she said that the separation is too bitter, she feels tired, and wants to break up, should I let go?

Only after experiencing the inseparability will you understand the preciousness of love more and more.

What exactly should I do? Yesterday I watched her cry and I booked a plane ticket again.

Are you having an affair?

Well. Extramarital affairs are illegitimate and unpopular, so if the two of you can keep the relationship deep in your hearts, this may be the best option.

I know this, but I can't let it go, otherwise I wouldn't have asked you.

If you are really inseparable, there is only one way, and one of them has to make some sacrifices, give up his career, and live in the other city, so that you can see each other often.

Hello, now you are still in love, it doesn't matter if you see your mother or not, you don't want to listen to your mother for everything, you have to be an assertive person, you like your girlfriend now, your girlfriend is definitely not married now, you are not sure of the relationship to pick up your mother, there is nothing to say, it doesn't matter if you see you or not, if you are engaged, go and meet your mother, if you have anything to go to your house for dinner, it is okay, now you have not determined the relationship.

In fact, it doesn't matter if you don't see your mother, you are a boy don't listen to your mother for everything, you have to be assertive, as long as the two of you have a good relationship, you can tell your mother, he is a more introverted girl, and I feel embarrassed to have nothing to say when I meet, you are an elder, and he doesn't want to come to see him, and your mother will not force you to meet your girlfriend, in fact, when the two of you have a good relationship, your girlfriend will be willing to meet your mother.

Good luck. <>

Now you Yuzhou Fu is still in love, it doesn't matter if you see your mother, you don't want to listen to your mother for everything, you have to be an assertive person, you like your girlfriend now, your girlfriend is definitely not married now, you don't have a certain relationship to pick up your mother, there is nothing to say, it doesn't matter if you see it or not, if you are engaged, go to see your mother, if you have something to go to your house for dinner, that's okay, now you haven't determined the relationship, in fact, it doesn't matter if you don't see your mother, You are a boy don't listen to your mother's words for everything, you have to be assertive, as long as the two of you have a good relationship, you can tell your mother, he is a more introverted girl, and when you meet, you feel embarrassed to have nothing to say, you are an elder, so he doesn't want to meet, and your mother will not force you to meet your girlfriend, in fact, when the relationship between the two of you is very good, your girlfriend will be willing to meet your mother.

You are a boy who doesn't want to listen to his mother for everything, he has to be assertive, as long as the two of you have a good personal relationship, you can tell your mother that he is a more introverted girl, and when you meet, you feel embarrassed to have nothing to say, you are an elder, so he doesn't want to come to meet, and your mother will not force you to meet your girlfriend, in fact, when the two of you have a good relationship, your girlfriend will be willing to sell guesses to meet your mother.

If you are still in love, it doesn't matter if you see your mother or not, and don't listen to your mother for everything, you have to be an assertive person. If you are engaged, go and see your mother, if there is anything to go to your house for dinner, it is okay, and now you are not sure of a relationship.

I don't know how your relationship is, but there is a good saying: if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a major problem since ancient times, you have to be psychologically prepared to be hungry, and the other is not much to say, the decision is up to you.

This issue needs to be analysed and dealt with on a case-by-case basis and with the needs of both parties. Here are some possible suggestions:

1.Respect your girlfriend's wishes: If your girlfriend doesn't want to see your mom or communicate, you should respect her wishes and try to understand her feelings and reasons. Sometimes, people need more time and space to digest and heal about past hurts and fears.

2.Communication and negotiation: While respecting your girlfriend, you can also communicate and negotiate with her to understand her doubts and concerns and find appropriate solutions.

3.Neutrality and impartiality: If you feel like you're being blown away, try to be neutral and impartial, and don't favor your girlfriend or your family.

You can show your understanding and respect, but also make it clear to both parties that you can't force each other to make any decisions.

In short, dealing with such complex relationships requires a combination of factors and a humble, respectful, and understanding attitude to find the best solution.

It may be that the woman is afraid of your mother, communicate with her more, after all, if you want to get married, you can't see each other for the rest of your life.