Hey, I quarreled with my roommate today, and I couldn t get over it, here s the thing, let s express

This is actually very easy to do, there is still a month, you can only endure it! It's not a big deal, who knows who in a month? You won't waste your most precious month because of a little, right? Think about it!

Actually, I really don't know what to say! Say bear with it, I feel quite aggrieved in my heart; I can't bear it, more than two years have passed, and we are going to leave in a month or two, and it is not good to get stiff in the end, so I am more depressed!! There are many people and troubles, so choose to ignore it, otherwise you can do it in the last two months???

Can't draw more, right? Ignore ignore ignore, completely ignore ... And then what do you like to do.,Why do you let yourself be aggrieved.,If you're not in a good mood, go to K song or find a sunny day to go to Jiulang Mountain and roar.。。。

The scenery is good... Going to climb a mountain can make you feel more comfortable... I went there last time, and I'm in a better mood when I go back to school...

Hey...

Deal with it indifferently, it's not a big deal, you can get it, and you don't have to worry about it if you can't get it. Don't mess with your own mind because of someone else's fault.

It's okay, I've been putting up with it for too long, I need a platform to vent, you're very wrong.

It is recommended to change dormitories. Why should such people live with them and endure it?

I only read the beginning, not the content, and learned to tolerate each other and solve all problems.

Summary. Hello, that means a situation, your roommate has a better relationship with your friend than you, they are good friends with each other, otherwise this situation would not have happened.

When I had a conflict with my roommate, my friend stopped playing with me.

Hello, that means a situation, your roommate has a better relationship with your friend than you, they are good friends with each other, otherwise this situation would not have happened.

In the dormitory, just because I said quietly, and then she said what tone I was, ah, and then I was a little angry and said, how long have you been doing it, what did I say. I also tried to reconcile with her, but now she excludes me and woos others.

What should I do too?

To put it bluntly, you can also win over others, is there only two people in the dormitory? Treat others the way they do.

Is there no possibility of reconciliation?

Then you can try it, whether people are willing to reconcile, maybe people just want to you, you can try it.

Under the same roof, how can there be roommates who don't quarrel, and how can there be roommates who don't have a good relationship. I think that trying to give each other a step down, can't wait for the other person to come to me, and every day I don't look up and don't look down, ignoring each other for a long time will not only prolong my own pain, but also make other roommates very difficult. Of course, if the other party does not mean to reconcile with you, then you have to choose to turn a blind eye.

Turn the conflict into a jade silk, and in the future, you will look down and not look up to see it, it is all in the same bedroom, there is no need to make it so stiff, besides, one more friend and one more road, one more enemy and one more wall. Invite him to a meal and a glass of wine to release his previous suspicions, and the previous things will be turned over.

Reflect on yourself and see if there is nothing that is wrong with you, whether it is because of your bad temper that you quarrel. If that's the case, you can apologize to your roommate, invite him to a meal or something, and watch your temper in the future. If it's not your fault, it's the other party's problem, then leave him alone and keep your distance in the future.

It's time to take the initiative to resolve the ice, apologize to him and say that he was too impulsive before, I'm sorry, it's my fault, I shouldn't have scolded you like this, I really couldn't help it at the time, I'm sorry if I can, please forgive me After all, everyone has been in a dormitory for so long, not to mention family affection, I hope you can accept my apology.

You'll be living together for a long time afterward. This depends on whether the gap between you is large, if it is not large, it will be easy to solve. If the gap is large, it will be difficult to solve, so it is recommended to change the dormitory directly and reduce the number of meetings, which can also be done.

Make an appointment to go out for a meal and talk. After all, we still have to get along for a few years, and it is impossible to start talking all the time. Besides, what problems can't be solved by communication? It's a big deal to admit a mistake yourself, and there is no need to be so stiff for a small matter.

This still needs to see whose fault it is, if the main problem is you, then don't care about any face, bow your head and admit your mistake with your roommate, invite him to dinner, and the two of you will release their suspicions.

But if the roommate does something wrong, then it depends on whether the other party apologizes or not, and he takes the initiative to ask you for peace, then he also generously says that his attitude is not good, and there are mistakes. But he is indifferent, then you also keep cold, it's a big deal not to speak for the rest of your life, and you can't be pinched as a soft persimmon.

A lot of times it's not really that you're bad. It's that you're too good.

Don't be one-on-one. Some people are too good, because one day you will finally find out that after a long time, those people will take it for granted. Many people are not good enough, but they are too good to others, but they don't know that the better you are to others, the less valuable they are in his eyes. In fact, it could have been stupid enough to ignore the return regardless of the cost, but the reality is always chilling.

In fact, you know that the most humble is feelings, and the coolest is people's hearts.

Remember to socialize with people at a certain distance. Anyone!!!

Also, don't feel unbalanced if you do something yourself. Because no one is forcing you to do it ...

Not only your current but also your future interactions in society are the same, and people should keep a certain distance from each other

Take the initiative, but don't take the initiative, learn to observe words and looks, treat each other sincerely, as long as you are sincere, your performance will be satisfactory, and talk to him more and smile more and don't be expressionless. When he encounters difficulties, he takes the initiative to be enthusiastic. If you help him, he will appreciate you, and slowly, the gap between you will disappear.

If there is something good to share with him and everyone, don't enjoy it alone. In the end, it is necessary to figure out and experience it yourself. I wish you a speedy reconciliation with him.

to adopt....

Well, I had a falling out with my best brother in college, and then I got into fights and ended up not talking to each other! When you want to solve this problem, you should want to reflect on yourself, even if you are not wrong! People think differently, maybe from his point of view, especially an introvert, your complaint about your girlfriend is not sure of him, and he must feel uncomfortable in his heart!

So you have to think more about why you fight and a series of other problems, after you know, you can go out to eat with the people in the dormitory under the banner of inviting dinner, and then drink some wine, with everyone present, the two of them are calm and negotiate, see where the differences are, you can also apologize and say sorry, and then hug or something, after all, it's a man, it's nothing that can't be passed, it's a big deal, but if it's useless for you to do this, then brother, I'd better advise you, It's okay if you don't want such a person or such a brother, it's not a big deal, and it's not a pity!

It's nothing, when you encounter this kind of thing and meet an introvert, you have to take the initiative, you can take the initiative to greet him, take the initiative to talk to him, you have to be patient, otherwise it won't work, just treat him as your ordinary friend, just endure it and communicate with him little by little, and your relationship will ease over time. And he's not very introverted, it's just that you don't know each other, you're not familiar, and you'll find out how good he is if you communicate more, there is a kind of person who says he's introverted rather than a lonely and strong self-esteem mask, and sometimes he really wants to ease up and will change his possibility.

In fact, you should open your heart to talk Maybe he will realize that it is his fault Maybe you will suddenly find that what you are doing is wrong If you are embarrassed to speak directly, you can write a letter to chat about QQ or something In short, the two of them have nothing to do But remember not to quarrel Learn to be tolerant and speak calmly.

I don't want this kind of person directly, I don't want this kind of person to be a friend, why do you want this kind of person to be a friend, just ignore this kind of person, it's not like you can't live without him, in other words, you have a water dispenser

People walk in the world, how can they not be troubled, who has never met this thing, but there are big and small, I have a way, every time we have an awkward quarrel in the dormitory, we will use this trick. It's to gather all the people in the dormitory and have a good talk Everyone talks about who they have the most opinions about in the dormitory, who they hate the most, and they feel that the other party is not doing a good job and needs to be corrected, everyone has to say it, and you can't be angry, and then you talk about it, everyone's personality is different, and everyone is a human being, everyone is difficult, and there is no selfish desire, and everything will be more or less unbalanced, and when the words are opened, the heart will be opened, and every problem is caused by a lack of communication, and I hope it can help you.

I think you should take the initiative to talk to him, reconcile with him, talk to him well, and maybe you can become good friends

As long as everyone treats each other sincerely, then everything will disappear and the other party will be able to see your sincerity! 、

I hope your friendship with your friends endures

Well, I think the way to write a letter is good, that buddy has a good idea, after all, your friendship is not hopeless. I used to have a fight with a good friend, and now we both regret it because neither of us cherished it.

There's nothing difficult in the matter.,I'm just afraid of someone with a heart.,There's no knot that can't be untied.,Usually talk more when you meet.,It's really not okay, you just look for him to drink.,Drink some wine and talk about your heart.,This is my estimation that it's about the same,,, I hope to adopt.。。。

You're actually quite annoying it now.

He's it, don't you want to see him in the dormitory, you want to be nice to him, you just want you to be comfortable in the bedroom, you've fought with him twice, you're evenly matched, if you're stronger than him, or he's stronger than you, you can't fight,,。 Now you can think like this to show that your personality is good, here are two people who said two different methods, in fact, I think they are right, it depends on who he is, if he has a good personality and doesn't care, you two still have a play, otherwise if he is a person with a bad personality, you don't just don't bird,

Talk to him well, it's best if both of you are calm and can talk about anything.

You come out to talk to him, and you say that I am really small-minded, but you care about me so much, aren't you also small-minded, anyway, we are also friends, and we hurt our feelings for this little thing, it's not worth it, right, and then reply with a bright smile, and look at it later.

A lot of times it's not really that you're bad. It's that you're too good.

The previous gods have talked about theories, so I'll talk about the most practical solution Buy something to eat, such as beer, ......Sit with him while no one is around, drink and chat, and then talk about it or pull out to surf the Internet together, of course, you have a treat, and you can play all night together.

I think if you've been trying to reconcile because you're roommates, then you're going to keep the relationship good because you're not sincere. Maybe the relationship will get worse at the end of the day, and you can go out for a drink and talk at the table. Tell me why you are doing this, admit your mistakes, and talk about his problems.

It's good when both of you know it, and if you really can't stand him, keep it that way for both of you.

Do your own thing, don't have to solve this problem, just treat it as if it didn't happen just be careful not to complain in front of others, especially in front of your roommate, since he is an introvert, then you don't take the initiative to go to him, let him come to you, and help him in some ways, so that he will find your good and the problem will be solved.

You can write to him and tell him that you are not careful, you are just unbalanced in your heart, and ask him not to care (in one, if you want to have a good relationship, you must learn to tolerate and forgive...).

If there is anything bad, if you annoy him, don't pay attention to him, put his presence in your heart to the minimum, don't let him influence you, since you don't need to force yourself to accept him, he has his and you have yours, so there will be no contradiction without contact, and it is not your fault that you are alone.

You can ask him directly in front of the whole dormitory why he can't forgive you.

This is a problem of laziness The nature is difficult to change, look at the good work, don't do all the work at once, this kind of person can't stand it. One for each person, it's better. Don't be with him all to do.

For example, if you sweep the floor, she will clean the toilet, and one person will divide it and do it together on the same day. If you don't agree, or there will be cockroaches in the house in the future, you can just call him responsible.

Such people still need to communicate.

Many people have bad moods and bad mood times! At this time, it is normal to look at anything that is not pleasing to the eye, to look at everyone, and even to look at yourself sometimes.

Generally, the reasons for this situation are: first, emotional frustration and loss of love; second, the departure of loved ones; Three, the betrayal of good friends; Fourth, I am in poor health, I don't have a good rest, I don't sleep well!

Therefore, it is important for a person to maintain a good mental state and an optimistic mood! Otherwise, it will affect his work, study, and even his interpersonal interactions!