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First the torrent advances, and then the torrents retreat.
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Hello subject! I have received your question, I am Ke Bai, an emotional counselor from Zhiyue Studio;
When I speak of torture, I understand two meanings: one is torture and the other is flirting; If it is the first type, then a relationship that gets along, if it is a way of torturing each other, will not be happy; As the so-called painful love is equal to chronic suicide, it is a great drain on either side of the emotion, and this behavior needs to be stopped; If it is the second type, I would like to praise you, because proper flirting skills in emotions can indeed keep love fresh and bring each other closer;
If you're confused about how to warm up your relationship with your partner, here's what you need to do:
1. Understand the differences between men and women.
There is a huge difference between men and women in emotional relationships; Sometimes things that women feel indifferent are untouchable minefields for men, such as: aggressive questioning, checking posts and other behaviors; For men, it's all a kind of distrust; A woman may think that she does this because she loves him and cares about him; And for a man, distrust will make him shy away from you and lose interest;
2 Confident women are the most beautiful.
It is normal for every woman to want special attention from her partner, what matters is how to get it; Some women like to rely on discipline, some women rely on attraction, and it goes without saying that the latter is more suitable; Discipline will only cause men's disgust and resistance, but it is attraction that can get the affectionate eyes of the other party; To do this, a woman needs to be confident enough to be comfortable in emotional relationships;
3. Improve business skills.
There are also changes in emotional relationships, sometimes close, sometimes distant, sometimes intimate, sometimes cool, which is normal;
How do you stick to your principles when you're close? How do you close the distance when cooling down and distancing? In getting along day and night, how to warm up emotions step by step?
All of this requires the emotional management skills you need to have in order to do so; Finally, I would like to say to you that love is a kind of ability, not because it is a foregone conclusion because you meet someone, and if you want to make a man love you more, you need to learn the ability to love.
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PUA, you can ask your friends on the Internet, is there anyone who knows this skill? Very awesome!
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If a man tortures you repeatedly, it depends on what kind of torture it is, if it hurts, then it is better to leave him as soon as possible, it is not pleasant to live together, it is better to separate.
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If this is the case, then you must stay away from this man as soon as possible, because such a man does not take you to heart at all and does not know how to consider your feelings.
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Without him, such a life is destined not to be happy, so you should make a choice early, otherwise you will regret it later.
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Kiss, hello, I'm glad to answer for you: how to torture a boy The answer is: occasionally disconnect with him for a period of time (crazy thinking about a person is, will become in love with you) Many women contact men anytime and anywhere after falling in love, and take the initiative to tell men what they are doing, they are **.
In fact, this is not right, if you always contact your man, always tell him your whereabouts, the man will feel that you are not new at all. But if you occasionally disconnect from him, he will become more and more insecure and will start to miss you madly when he can't reach you. At this time, his mind is full of you, and he will think what are you doing?
You'll wonder who you're with. When longing slowly erodes him, he will love you more and more, and even can't leave you. So if you want a man to love you to the bone, you have to occasionally cut off contact with him for a while, and during the time when he can't contact you, his mind is full of you, this is the power of missing.
1. Don't contact again.
Now that he has decided to leave and explained that the two of them are not happy together, you also have to believe that it is true. There is no such assumption as you would have imagined that "he said so, but not in his heart." Don't try to send WeChat over and over again, asking questions like "Why?" >>>More
I often think about her, I want to know what she's doing, I want to know if she's happy, I think about everything that has to do with her....
I really want to scold you when I see your message, as a warm-hearted unknown friend, I just want to tell you, and make it clear that you can't forget him. I have also had the same situation as you, a few years have passed but I have not forgotten her, once I have tried many ways to forget but it has no effect, recognize the reality, think rationally, I really don't want to see a girl who was once so beautiful become "learned to drink, smoke, swear, and also learned to be attentive" When someone comes out and scolds you for being "cheap", will you realize the value of dignity? Wake up, friends, get rid of all those bad habits, and be a good girl full of confidence and sunshine again, "Men must learn to cherish themselves, and women must also learn to cherish themselves".
You want to hate, in fact, you already hate. Don't deliberately torture yourself, if you can't hate it, just take a normal heart, okay?
Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! >>>More