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In order for your love and later life not to be easily destroyed by others, at least there is a piece of paper to pierce.
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To further consolidate the results of your love!
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Affection is the most important thing to maintain a marriage. Only then will there be responsibility.
If you are together for marriage or something else, you will not be happy.
That's the so-called finding a companion and getting by.
It's like wearing shoes that only you know if you want to, so you can be with someone you love.
Acquaintance, acquaintance, love, marriage, time is a very happy thing.
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One. Marriage is a physiological necessity:
Marriage is first and foremost a physical need, that is, a physical need. The ancestor of man was Australopithecus, and in a broad sense, man was also an animal. Animals have physiological needs, whether male or female, Dubirang has sexual needs.
And people also have physiological needs, whether they are men or women, they also have physiological needs. And in some periods, women's physiological needs will be much stronger than men's.
And marriage is undoubtedly the best way for human beings to obtain their physiological needs, and it is also the most correct way, the most legal way, and the fastest way. As long as they are married, both men and women can meet each other's physiological needs justifiably and openly.
Two. Marriage is a psychological need:
Marriage is also a psychological need, that is, the psychological need to find a partner, commonly known as a "soul mate". Soul mates are each other's spiritual trust and understanding, and they are each other's psychological soulmates. Although soulmates are not necessarily husband and wife, the vast majority of soulmates are husband and wife.
People are lonely, especially in modern society, people are even more lonely, and countless people hope to find a suitable soul mate. And the soul mate I found, being able to get married and live together for a lifetime, is undoubtedly the most perfect life.
Three. Marriage is a need for family succession:
Marriage is also the need for inheritance, and marriage is also the premise and foundation of inheritance. There is an ancient Chinese saying: unfilial piety has three splits and wisdom, and no queen is great.
And if you want to have offspring, you first have to get married. Only when you get married, you can naturally pass on the lineage. If a person does not get married, then what will he use to carry on the lineage?
Four. Marriage is a fine social tradition:
Marriage is also a fine social tradition, a social virtue, a social morality, why do you say that? Many people say: I can still find a woman without getting married to solve my physical needs; I don't get married, I can still find a woman to talk about life and solve my psychological needs; If I don't get married, I can still find a woman to help have children and solve the problem of inheritance.
Of course, this is okay, but this is hooliganism, this is immoral, and it is condemned by society. If you love her, you must give her a name; If you love her, give her a home; If you love her, it's better to marry her.
Marriage is a right of citizens, both in the original Marriage Law and in the current Civil Code. Especially as children, marriage is also an obligation of citizenship. If the children do not get married, the parents will be grandparents, grandparents, and grandmothers.
Of course, in modern society, many people do not enjoy the right to marry because they do not have a house, a car, or a car. Even if you want to fulfill the obligation to get married, it is difficult to fulfill it.
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The needs of life, the mental and psychophysiological needs of celery. Understand that no matter how good a person is, it is better for two people to live together and live happily and relaxedly.
Human nature cannot escape the nature of the natural world. Marriage is the continuation of the family, the reproduction of the fullness of life. Two people learn from each other's strengths, play to their respective strengths, encourage each other, and give spiritual and psychophysical comfort.
There are many reasons to get married, and the most basic one is to live an ordinary life.
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When you reach a certain age, you will start to think about getting married, and this seems to be a consensus.
At that time, young people themselves will feel that it is time to put marriage on the agenda, otherwise when they get older, they will be a little late, and the people around them will also be urged in various ways, and they will feel that it is more important to get married quickly than many things.
In life, in their twenties, most people are really looking for the right person.
In people's impressions, there are not so many whys, and if they feel that others are like this, then they should be like this, and everyone is the same.
Many people are really like that, they enter into marriage in a daze, and before they know it, it is a lifetime.
In the past years, too many people have spent their lives like that, but at the moment, more and more people are beginning to be reluctant to be so confused anymore and begin to think about the meaning of marriage.
Why do you want to get married, seriously, it should be because two people love each other and really want to be with each other, but in real life, the answer to this question, many times, is never so simple.
legitimately, to address your own needs.
No matter how smart you are, no matter how smart you are, no matter how fresh and refined, no matter how you are indisputable with the world, more or less, a person will have some physical desires and desires.
There is nothing bad to admit, this is a very normal thing, a normal need of human beings.
Indeed, even if you don't get married, in this era, it is not difficult to solve your own needs, and it can be relatively easy, but that kind of behavior is not very reliable after all, and it will be easy to have problems.
In addition, if you just have a weak desire, even if you don't spend time with anyone, it's not a big deal, and you can still restrain yourself.
However, for the vast majority of people, they still need to conform to their own nature, and they will want to be with someone in the middle of the mill, so that they can be closer to each other and have legal intimate contact.
Falling in love with a person, marrying a person, this is always a good way, after marriage, everything can be taken for granted, and it can also happen naturally, so that there will be no burden blind.
Two people who become husband and wife will have that kind of desire for each other, and also have that kind of obligation, and need to fulfill each other.
It is precisely because of such constraints that the relationship between men and women will not be so chaotic, and some order will be more secure.
Someone to accompany you and face the unknown together.
Life has never been so easy, and the future is always unknown, and there will be all kinds of ups and downs.
In the past few decades, the more you arrive, the more a person will often feel lonely, the more he will want a stability, and the more he will yearn for someone who can bear it with him.
A person's power, after all, is limited, just by himself, many people can easily feel helpless.
And if there is such a person at any time, the other party will always be there, will always stand behind him, always be by his side, and wait at all times.
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Do you mind if your partner doesn't do housework in the wedding cigarette? Some people say that the wedding cigarette is the grave of love, because the love is full of snow, but the wedding cigarette is firewood, rice, oil and salt, before marriage, the husband and wife should understand more clearly, once the two people are married, they need to face many aspects of life, and then join hands to enter the marriage hall. If these three perspectives coincide very well, then it is best to consider getting married.
If two people's thoughts are one South and the other is North, forget it. Once a person's mind is formed, it is difficult to change it.
What should I do if my wife hasn't done housework for a few years after she got married? Smart people do it.
I think the divorce is all because the wife is not doing the housework, and the husband is extremely paranoid. However, it is very undesirable for a wife not to do housework in her married life.
She was so comfortable that there was no sense of crisis. It's okay, it's okay. Naturally, she will have life. No pursuit, no dream. All the things that are real make it boring, including people, and also you.
However, this is also normal. Very few couples have been married for seven or eight years and still remain as strong as possible. Coupled with the stability of material life, some things that were originally intimate will become dispensable.
It's just that she doesn't have a sense of responsibility. But it's really clumsy to sue you for a divorce like this. Even if you re-accept women, all sorts of problems will arise after a few years.
Whenever you have a problem, you will consider a divorce. Getting married is no joke.
Also, people can influence people. There is no doubt that you can really influence a person, or even a person. It's easy and difficult.
Changing her is far from a divorce, but looking for simple people, you want to choose simple things, but you don't want to do difficult things. Your love is selective, and your tolerance is limited. Take out the fatherly love that treats your daughter the same way you tolerate, and subtly infects her, and I believe she will change.
If she remains indifferent, then she is really hopeless.
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Nowadays, many friends will be urged to marry when they reach their age, so is marriage one thing we must do in our lives? What is the meaning of marriage? Why do we have to get married?
1. I want to cry when I see the meaning of marriage.
1. The sublimation of feelings.
For couples who are in love, marriage is the sublimation of each other's feelings, representing that you have entered a new stage of each other's lives, for each other, there is a more important meaning, every couple who gets along seriously, more or less will consider marriage, because this is the sublimation of your feelings, from lovers to family + lovers change.
2. Birth crystallization.
The reason why we say that children are the crystallization of two people's love is because the magnetic field between two loving people is different, and the environment and warmth brought to the child are also different.
3. Firm reliance.
We will encounter a lot of difficulties and ups and downs in our lives, it is not terrible for a person to walk for a while, a person to go through a lifetime, it is inevitable that there will be lonely and lonely moments, especially in the face of life's bumpy moments, it is very fragile and difficult, if you have a healthy and normal marriage, then the other party is your most firm support when you are at a low point in life.
4. Emotional companionship.
People are animals in society, we need to socialize and companionship, so a stable married life can bring us enough emotional companionship, parents will grow old, children will grow up, and the other half of the hand in hand can really accompany you in this life.
2. Why do you want to get married?
Nowadays, many people will say that they will not marry and have children to ensure peace, and they will think that marriage is a bondage and a siege, but in fact, a truly positive and healthy marriage will bring you the abundance of life.
1. Feelings come naturally.
There are people in this world whose feelings are not so smooth, and there are also people who are lucky enough to find their life partners, when two people are together, the natural development of feelings, the moment of natural development, naturally want to get married, enter marriage, this is a very normal thing, this kind of marriage is what we call "married to love", and marry you, not because of money and identity, just because I love you.
2. A stable and warm marriage.
Of course, this world is very big, some people can have love, and naturally some people don't have it, in this part of the people, some may be more yearning for a single life, so they have a vast world, but there are also people who yearn for a stable and warm married life, even if the love is not so strong at the beginning, but with the contact between two people, the nourishment of family affection is also wonderful.
We don't have to get married, but the marriage itself is actually very happy and warm, if you don't feel yearning and hope for marriage, then please think about it carefully, if there is still something to look forward to, then I wish you happiness, I wish you to understand the meaning and true meaning of marriage.
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There will be many passers-by in a person's life, and there are very few people who can really accompany you to the end. When you are lonely and helpless, and especially need help, you will find that although friends can accompany you or lack you, everyone has their own life, and they cannot accompany you all the time. At this time, some people will want to find someone who can always accompany them to marry.
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1. Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.
When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.
The first requirement of the relationship is that each other's personalities are suitable, and if the personalities don't get along, he may tolerate you at first, but after a long time, his true attitude will be exposed. Your married life is prone to conflicts and quarrels, and it is difficult to maintain the sweetness of your relationship.
2. Do you have common interests and hobbies, as well as topics?
Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.
With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed, and you can get along happily.
Ask both parents for their opinions to ensure family harmony.
Marriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to love each other, and marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors are also very important. Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony.
Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them. Eventually, everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage.
Marriage. 3. When you are in love, don't think about getting married right away. Marriage requires careful consideration, not just the immediate happiness, if you want to live happily in the future, you must take the pre-marital issues seriously. Molds leak.
There are many issues to consider when getting married, and "family, hobbies, and personality" are all serious problems, and if you are ready, you don't have to worry about getting married.
It is tradition, it is precisely because of marriage that there is a marriage law, if everyone does not get married and live together, there will definitely be a big mess, involving property issues, who dares to guarantee that two people can live for a lifetime without quarrel or fighting, there will always be a few pairs of problems, so if they get married, they will be protected, if they do not get married, only they know. So marriage is a form of legal protection for two people.
No one can explain love, marriage is a commitment to love, with a commitment to get married, to put it bluntly, marriage is just for that piece of paper, married is obliged to take care of your other half, and if you have children, you have to take care of children, this is a rule handed down by human predecessors, you can't change it, if you want to change, you are considered by others to be a big rebellion. The life after marriage depends on yourself, what kind of life you have, everyone is different, do you say that the life of a beggar is the same as the life of Bill Gates, live your own life.
In order to make yourself happier, and for life to have no regrets, God has arranged for everyone to have another companion for him/her, which is also another happiness, so you must try and enjoy it!
Your question is like asking someone why they want to eat.
I privately think that almost all people who say they don't want to get married now will get married in the future, and not wanting to get married is just a current idea or a reaction to past experiences, but in fact, what is the proportion of citizens in China who have never married in their lives? From the perspective of parents, from a social point of view, from a cultural point of view, it is better for us to choose to get married. There was a time when I didn't want to get married, I felt too tired, how good it was to be alone, and when I met the most beautiful her by chance, these thoughts didn't exist. >>>More