Why the hell do you not want to get married?

I privately think that almost all people who say they don't want to get married now will get married in the future, and not wanting to get married is just a current idea or a reaction to past experiences, but in fact, what is the proportion of citizens in China who have never married in their lives? From the perspective of parents, from a social point of view, from a cultural point of view, it is better for us to choose to get married. There was a time when I didn't want to get married, I felt too tired, how good it was to be alone, and when I met the most beautiful her by chance, these thoughts didn't exist.

Of course, I'm not talking about all, I'm saying that most of the people who say they don't want to get married now still want to get married in the end, or under external pressure, or they meet happiness by themselves, or for all kinds of unknown reasons. For most people, not wanting to get married is just a temporary thought, and trust me, no matter how good you think it is to be alone or how bad it is to get married, it's only a temporary thought (at least most of the time). So, in the final analysis, it's not that we don't want to get married, it's that we haven't met the right person.

Because I lost the only person I wanted to marry, I couldn't forget it, I couldn't let it go, so I never wanted to get married again

Because I didn't meet the one who understood me.

The main thing is that I haven't met the right person, and the love I am looking forward to has not yet appeared, so I don't want to get married, and I am still waiting.

They feel happy not to get married.

Some girls are very angry when they know that I don't want to get married, isn't there a saying that love that is not for the purpose of marriage is a trick. Then there is no choice but to break up. But if the other party is in love with the intention of getting married from the beginning, and the purpose is very clear, I will definitely tell the other party that I am not married.

Once you get into marriage, there are many problems. Love is an emotional relationship, but marriage is an economic system, does love have to be marriage in the end? The answer is actually not yes.

Don't you think there are too many nets in society now? Marriage relationships, relationships with parents, classmates, work relationships, the messy web nails you to that point.

Marriage is another complicated web for me, and I don't want to be needed, and I don't want to need anyone else.

Some people will think that some young people nowadays do not marry and only pretend to be a freer covenant, which means that they can make an appointment with an old age? Of course, there are such people in reality, so it's right not to get married, after all, there is such a strong demand, and if you are married, you won't make an appointment? It is a good thing that this kind of person does not enter into marriage, and it can also reduce the harm to others.

I think that human beings really have more pain than happiness in this life, so I want to live as much as possible according to my own will. I don't want to be responsible for another life or family, and I don't want to bear too many things that shouldn't be borne by me. I really don't bother to integrate into another strange family, I don't want to be spawned, I don't want to deal with complicated interpersonal relationships, I don't want to turn the small family into everyone.

I want to get married, but I don't have any money in my hand, and the other party is too demanding and needs to buy a car and a house. I can't meet her conditions, so people don't want to be with me. The reality is that Sui Xun is so cruel.

The encounter is not human, so I don't want to get married. Or if you meet the right person, you are not in the right family of origin, and you don't want to get married.

The answer, from the description of the analysis, because I haven't met someone who wants to get married, Jianna.

And I feel that it is also very good to live alone, and the married life of the girlfriends who are not told by the manuscript around me is not very happy, it is better to be happy and comfortable, and I don't want to get married.

Men are afraid that they will not be able to take on their responsibilities, so they do not want to get married.

The essence of marriage is companionship and responsibility, both of which are indispensable.

When a man can't afford that responsibility, he naturally doesn't dare to get married.

Just like many men who don't have money, the main reason why he doesn't want to get married is not because he can't get married because he has no money, but because they have no money, so they have no sense of security, and they are afraid that they can't bear the responsibilities of a man and can't give women happiness, so they don't dare to get married, and even take the initiative to break up.

Because in reality, although many men have no money, there are still women who are willing to marry him, and those women are love first.

For a man, before getting married, he will think about many things, and money must be the most important thing.

They often think that without a solid material foundation, everything is empty whether it is love, family and friendship.

Not only do you need to prepare a bride price and a house before you get married, but you also have to bear the cost of the family after you get married, and you have to consider issues such as parents and children.

For most men, there is also the responsibility of supporting the elderly.

It is also these reasons of responsibility that make many men dare not get married, and even they will give women freedom and let women choose their own happiness.

For couples in marriage, responsibility is equally important, no matter how charming the world is, as long as each other remembers the responsibility to each other, you will not go a fork in the road, and this marriage can be long and stable.

The unhappy marriages of the people around him make men afraid.

Now not only is life more and more stressful, but the test of marriage is also getting bigger and bigger, and if some things are not done well, it is very likely that you will lose everything.

Many men in modern times are afraid to enter into marriage because they have seen too many marriages of their peers and too many situations of men after marriage.

In their opinion, after getting married, men have no freedom, they can't do whatever they want, everything should be family-oriented, so life is boring.

They believe that if they don't get married, then a person will be very happy, they can stay up late playing games with friends, they can stay up late to watch dramas, they can go wherever they want, they don't have to worry about anyone at all, they are full of food, the whole family is not hungry, and now there are many entertainment facilities, they will not be emotionally empty and lonely at all.

There are many reasons for fear of marriage, the living environment when I was a child was unsafe, and the marriage in which my parents were in a big disturbance will leave indelible traces on you and me when I was a child, this is one of them. Single-parent families may be another factor, do not believe in marriage, so fear of marriage, this is two. Now the social pressure is huge, and many marriage-phobic people think of avoiding the pressure of marriage, so they are reluctant to get married, which is three.

The unhappiness and breakdown of the marital relationship of friends around you will also cause single friends to fear marriage, which is the fourth. There is also the fact that some people do not want to get married, so they find an excuse for fear of marriage, which is five. In fact, no matter what causes the fear of marriage, for you and me, we still have to find a way to find the crux of the problem, and then prescribe the right medicine, after all, if there are more and more marriage-phobic people in this society, there will be more and more relapse crises.

I'm afraid that marriage is the grave of love, I'm afraid that the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea after marriage will consume my poems and distance, I'm afraid that I'll get old and ugly, I'm afraid that my life plan will slowly compromise with life, I'm afraid that I won't dare to chase my dreams bravely, I'm afraid that the blueprint for my better life is just a dream, I'm afraid of the discomfort and pain of pregnancy and childbirth, I'm afraid of the conflict between the concepts of juniors and elders, I'm afraid that the burden of life will eventually crush us, and I'm afraid that no matter how hard we try, we won't be able to go to the end.

It's not that I don't want to get married, it's because I have never met someone who has a fate, and I have been hurt and resisted marriage.

Generally, you can't find a suitable candidate, and you must meet certain economic conditions, right, to be able to get married.

I don't have a house, I don't have a car, I haven't found what I like, I like a free life, I don't want to talk about burdens, and I don't want to take responsibility, so I don't want to get married.

The reason why I don't get married is because my job is not stable enough and I don't have a good job, so I think if I get married, I may not be able to support the family, such as my wife and children, so I don't want to get married yet.

This situation is still related to the mood, that is to say, the mood is not particularly good in real life, or when you feel that married life cannot bring you the life you want, you naturally don't want to get married.

It must be because you didn't meet the right object.

I want someone to love, and I didn't expect that person to have such a strong love for me when I got married.

It's my daughter who loves me the most.

What did the Japanese tell you about Brother Dou Zheng Mo? I don't want to get married?. If you don't want to get married, you can't get married because you don't have money, a house, a car, anything. And Chen Jing doesn't want anything, he just wants to be a monk.

Who doesn't want to get married, one doesn't meet the right person, and the other is who wants to marry you if they don't have money, a car or a house.

Because I just don't want to get married.

What makes you stay single because you don't want to get married? With a lot of young people don't want to get married, the marriage rate in our country is getting lower and lower every year, many people are afraid of marriage, they either never want to get married, so they are about to get married and suddenly don't want to get married, so what are the reasons for not wanting to get married?

First, the influence of the family from which he was born.

Growing up in a warm home environment, children will know how to express their feelings better. On the contrary, children who grow up in discordant family environments will have problems in interpersonal relationships, such as not knowing how to handle arguments, deliberately avoiding the kindness of others, and so on. Maybe it's because your family didn't provide you with a harmonious environment to grow up in, or because your parents didn't set a good example for you, and you are disappointed in the marital relationship and don't know what to do.

Second, the fear of uncertainty about the future.

The meaning of marriage is to support each other in life, and two people should not only share, but also give. In this process, we should share the joy and pain together. But obviously, you don't have much faith in the future, you don't even know what your life will look like, and you're not sure what your life together will look like.

This uncertainty about the future makes you uneasy about marriage, and you want to know : Is marriage a good decision?

Third, being single for a long time is easy to become addicted.

Everyone has the experience of being single, and there are thousands of ways to entertain in today's society, and many people can find various ways to entertain themselves in the process of being single. Conscientiousness at work and indulgence at work are naturally more in line with the fast-paced lifestyle of today's times. A variety of short-term entertainment methods are more likely to make people addicted.

Some people will feel uncomfortable in life after being single for a long time, not only the rhythm of life has changed, but also the dislike of each other's shortcomings.

Fourth, there is a lack of heart and weakness in dealing with marriage.

It's not that they can't find a suitable marriage partner or they don't have the financial strength, but the most basic house of marriage often means despair for them, our necessities have been rising, and the meager wages are not enough to make ends meet, let alone build a better life after marriage. "Poor couples mourn everything", they are only one economic reason away from marriage. As a result, he was reluctant to be single, and as he got older, marriage changed from a hope to a luxury.

Over time, it is bound to dispel the idea of getting married, rather than boasting about the father chasing the sun, it is better to be single with high quality, after all, whether you are married or not, you have your own advantages and disadvantages, the key is to choose and adjust your mentality.

There are Nansheng girls who can do high, don't be wronged to cater to the world, and be brave to be yourself! There are so many reasons why you don't want to get married, in fact, there are thousands of reasons, they are just excuses, and the real reason is that you haven't met the right person for you! May you be happy!

Why am I reluctant to get married, this is my situation.

One, there are many failures, and there is no enthusiasm.

To say that you don't want to get married is false. Seeing others in pairs, I still have some envy, and I also hope that there will be someone together.

Every time I put a lot of time and effort into it, I failed, and now I start to doubt that I can still get married.

Second, the inferiority complex in the heart.

When I just graduated, with a salary of 2,000, I always felt that 18,000 yuan was a small amount of money.

Now that I'm older, I'm no longer tempered by reality, I've lost my ambitions, and there's no light in my eyes. Looking at such a pitiful salary every day, I feel that it is difficult to support myself, and I have the courage to get married.

Now even if you meet a girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it boldly, for fear of rejection, and for fear that you are not able to take on family responsibilities.

It's still single to save money, nibble on steamed buns, eat a bowl of instant noodles, and the day can pass.

I feel that I have achieved nothing, my income is not high, I have no house or car, not only do I hate it by others, but I hate it.

Third, get used to being single and ascend to this life.

After so many years of being single, I have long been accustomed to living alone. In addition to going to work every day, I basically stay at home, and I usually don't like to talk or communicate with others. It's nice to be alone and quiet.

Once you get married, what you face every day is the woman's chattering and non-stop, and sometimes it's terrible to think about this kind of noisy and unbridled life.

I'm used to being single, it's hard to get along with others, and I don't know how to get along with girls. It's difficult to even communicate, let alone coax girls to be happy.

For my introverted personality. Chasing girls is much more difficult than taking exams.

There is a high probability that no one will want this kind of honest person, this kind of person is very boring, not the type that girls like, so it's good to be alone.