I always miss someone, how can I let go?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-06
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    1. Use time to enrich yourselfWhen people are lonely, they will miss the person in their hearts, and the root of the loneliness is actually because you are too idle. Divert your attention, get busy every day, don't let yourself have too much alone time to immerse yourself in memories, add more hobbies and interests, and dissipate energy.

    Time takes everything, and if you can keep it that way for a while, that person will start to slowly become very vague from your memory. Finally, one day, you will find that you can't even remember his face.

    2. Start a new relationship:There are actually only two ways to forget someone, and that is time and new love. If you still can't forget, it can only mean that the time is not long enough and the new love is not good enough.

    In fact, it takes a certain amount of time to change, and change yourself and habits through the precipitation of time. I used to be unwilling to let go of a person, but one day, you will meet a person, he will make all the people you met before become floating clouds, it's true, I used to think that I would probably not love a second man in my life except for him, but I was wrong, a long life, believe me, when you meet a better person, you will naturally let go of him and forget him.

    In fact, people are animals that change their minds easily, and it is easy to forget old loves when they have a new love. Maybe the reason why the other party left you in the first place is the same, since the other party can resolutely leave you because of a new love, why should you stick to your heart and refuse to start a new relationship for such a person?

    People in love are either crazy or stupid, and no one will listen to these truths. The real redeemer is yourself, no one can save you, you only have to stay up day by day, telling yourself over and over again: it is impossible between us.

    I can get used to you or lose you, it's no big deal. If you figure it out, you will understand that there are many beautiful things in life, and love is only one part of it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You should put your emotions away, try not to let yourself think about that person, go on a trip with your good friends, forget about the relationship, and start over.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, you should keep yourself busy, and reasonably plan your work time and rest time, and let yourself do more hobbies during your rest time, so that you will be relieved after a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The best thing for a person is to let go and not bother no matter how much they miss it. Even if I didn't go to the end, I have a clear conscience, you have your sad past, I have my joys and sorrows, since we met at the wrong time, then sincerely bless us, dressed in their sheepskins, do not disturb each other, and each is well.

    Time has passed, and it will be a long time before we understand that it takes a strong person to bow his head and beg you not to leave me, and how much pain and sadness he endures to completely drive you out of my world.

    We have all sworn that we will never give up, but we have become strangers, we don't care, we like to stay, we hate to leave, now in retrospect how naïve. Unwilling to bow his head, even more unwilling to give at will, unwilling to cater to others, thus missing the beloved ta.

    My best friend once told me that she was used to being lonely, shopping and eating alone and watching movies, I couldn't understand it at one time, but now I understand it. When you get through the loneliest, you will feel that life is nothing more than this, not as sad as you imagined, and you don't need anyone to accompany you. No matter how much you have hoped for someone to love you, in the end, you also think, forget it, I can live a good life alone.

    Before the light shines, we must all gladly accept the embarrassment and difficulty of the moment, and accept the loneliness and occasional helplessness of a person.

    Thinking too much can ruin you. If nothing happens, it is the best revenge. Why prove anything to the unworthy, live better for yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you keep thinking about someone, is it because of love or obsession?

    This estimate is only known to yourself, ask your heart, are you asking for him but not being able to get it or loving and being timid?

    If we came together after a lot of hardships, then why is there such a separation now? Is it because you don't cherish it or is he not really loving enough? Maybe the separation was just a momentary hot-headedness; Maybe the love in the past was just the warmth of each other; Maybe I miss it nowadays, but I just don't get used to it.

    In fact, you should really calm down for a while, think about your love, if you are persistent in love, how can you let him go? How can he trust others to give him happiness? How can he be given the opportunity to step out of his own world?

    How did it cause this difficult time? Since leaving, there must be someone who let go first, but it is never the responsibility of one person!

    If the crazy pursuit is still unwanted, it means that he has his own happiness, or he really has no love for you. In this way, if you have true love for him, you should bless him with all your heart. If someone is already with you, you should not ruin his happiness in the name of love and make it difficult for him to choose.

    If he doesn't have love for you, then you should be relieved that because of his sincerity, you didn't become a spare tire; Because of his openness, you don't need humble love; Because of his refusal, you don't need to grieve yourself for someone who doesn't love you.

    No one is qualified to kidnap someone else's true heart in the name of love! So whether you can't let go or can't let go of your obsession can only be determined by yourself! And whether it's love or obsession, please don't bother each other, leave yourself a little dignity, and don't let your love be hopelessly humble!

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  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's understandable to miss a person, that's because he's relatively good, handsome, and of good quality, which is very normal. It shows that you are also a good person and have the correct three views. So you have to work hard to make yourself better and attract better him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Prove that you are in love with this person or like this person, if you can express it, you can express it, and then try your best to fight for it, if you really can't do it, you can only try to learn to forget, although it is difficult to do, but time is the best medicine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You call it love at first sight, and you fell in love with him once you saw someone, and you are too affectionate, hahahaha.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you can't forget it, you just like him, so you should try to chase her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's okay to go out alone, and don't go to places you've been to together, as much as possible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time washes everything away, and you need to find something to do for yourself to divert your attention.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    On the road of our lives, there are too many people who can only accompany us for a while. Some people get off the bus and we are happy, there are bound to be people who get off the bus and make us sad, and some people have been gone for a long time, but they still remember it in our hearts.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Hello dear. If you are obsessed with a person, it must be because you like it, so if you are very entangled now, find out if he is single now, whether you have a chance, if so, be brave and pursue it.

    If you want to forget, then use work and other ways to make enough time for yourself.

    I always miss someone, how can I let go?

    How to control non-contact.

    Hello dear. If you are obsessed with a person, it must be because you like it, so if you are very entangled now, go and find out if he is single now, whether you have a chance to be smart, if so, be brave and pursue it. If you want to guess and forget, then use work and other ways to make enough time for yourself.

    Work, there are a lot of things to do in life, change your focus and forget about him by doing these things.

    But I can't control it.

    Then why don't you choose to go to him.

    He has no feelings for me anymore.

    Let me regulate myself.

    You can think about how bad he is to you, no more affection for you, and no mercy for you. Force yourself to let him go.

    I can't think of him badly.

    It's easier said than done.

    That's right, but in the end, you have to make your own choices, and maybe you can start a relationship again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. I think if you go to see him. He will definitely hug you, hold you tightly in his arms, and vent all his thoughts for such a long time. At that time, your emotions will not be controlled by you.

    Did you have a crush on him? How long have you known each other? You guys.

    Tell me how old you are?

    I've known each other for more than 10 years, and the exchange started around April last year, when I left with my husband, and for more than a year, he cared about me every day, and I didn't feel teased at that time, but now I always want to talk to him about the early game.

    I think you're getting dependent on him. I'm starting to like him slowly.

    Is he the first person to think about when you are idle in your heart?

    Yes, it would be distressing if he didn't reply to my message.

    You have found spiritual sustenance again, and he must be very good to you. I know how to hurt you. How old are you?

    3-40, but he has a family, and he is a leader, how can I be like this, I can't disgrace him, what should I do.

    It's good to be a confidante.

    And I'm uneducated, I don't understand what he said when I had a round of pants, once he said, I'm hungry and want you, I don't know what it means, I directly replied to the bad number, and it took me a long time before I understood.

    Having a spiritual sustenance, multiple confidants of the opposite sex, and having a family will not have any effect.

    He also has a crush on you, he wants you, that is, he wants to possess you and satisfy you. How are you contacting now?

    I don't think you need to let go of spiritual sustenance, you should cherish the opportunity.

    What do you have to say to me? Sometimes you can't figure it out yourself, and you open your heart to others a little bit.

    But in this case, I will become a bad woman, and I will not dare to see him since he cared about me, and if he ignores me, I will fall asleep all night sadly, and my heart will be distressed.

    I think if you go to see him, it's a shame. He will definitely hug you, hold you tightly in his arms, and vent all his thoughts for such a long time. At that time, your emotions will not be controlled by you.

    How do you want to do it? What's going on in your heart? You can talk to me. Be willing to listen to you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think this situation divides people, and some people will think that I didn't get it, so Chen Jingwen didn't forget it. Some people will think that his ability is limited, so they will be entangled and so on.

    I never forget a person, and when I grew up, I realized that there are many of the following psychological characteristics:

    1. Loneliness: The stove sparrow is spiritually lonely, and the love is deep, and love can achieve a sense of attachment of symbiosis and coexistence, so it is obsessed.

    2. Withdrawn: There is little socialization, not a person who allows others to enter his heart at will, and may also be enthusiastic on the outside and cold on the inside. It is not easy to accept people to come in, so they are not very willing to empathize with other lovers.

    I'd rather guard the ruins of love and mourn myself. Mourning becomes an epitaph, lost, not developed, love can always be beautiful in the heart, become a classic and eternal.

    3. Low self-esteem: I don't trust that I am so beautiful, so good, I don't trust that the world is so big, so moving, and there are so many people worth loving. In the constricted and narrow heart, I love the deep love, the spiritual infatuation, and it is all deep narcissism.

    4. Conservative: Men and women are lonely and conservative, and they can't release their sexual instincts, so they can only keep to the old feelings and conjectures.

    5. The love experience is simple: the more love you see, the less precious it is. I love too little, so I take it as a baby. It would be nice to love a few more manuscripts, love a few more people, and experience more.

    In fact, let go of the old love, take a step forward, find a new person to try, and the feeling of deep love will soon be gone.

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