What to do if you are obsessed with someone?

The best thing for a person is to let go and not bother no matter how much they miss it. Even if I didn't go to the end, I have a clear conscience, you have your sad past, I have my joys and sorrows, since we met at the wrong time, then sincerely bless us, dressed in their sheepskins, do not disturb each other, and each is well.

Time has passed, and it will be a long time before we understand that it takes a strong person to bow his head and beg you not to leave me, and how much pain and sadness he endures to completely drive you out of my world.

We have all sworn that we will never give up, but we have become strangers, we don't care, we like to stay, we hate to leave, now in retrospect how naïve. Unwilling to bow his head, even more unwilling to give at will, unwilling to cater to others, thus missing the beloved ta.

My best friend once told me that she was used to being lonely, shopping and eating alone and watching movies, I couldn't understand it at one time, but now I understand it. When you get through the loneliest, you will feel that life is nothing more than this, not as sad as you imagined, and you don't need anyone to accompany you. No matter how much you have hoped for someone to love you, in the end, you also think, forget it, I can live a good life alone.

Before the light shines, we must all gladly accept the embarrassment and difficulty of the moment, and accept the loneliness and occasional helplessness of a person.

Thinking too much can ruin you. If nothing happens, it is the best revenge. Why prove anything to the unworthy, live better for yourself.

If you keep thinking about someone, is it because of love or obsession?

This estimate is only known to yourself, ask your heart, are you asking for him but not being able to get it or loving and being timid?

If we came together after a lot of hardships, then why is there such a separation now? Is it because you don't cherish it or is he not really loving enough? Maybe the separation was just a momentary hot-headedness; Maybe the love in the past was just the warmth of each other; Maybe I miss it nowadays, but I just don't get used to it.

In fact, you should really calm down for a while, think about your love, if you are persistent in love, how can you let him go? How can he trust others to give him happiness? How can he be given the opportunity to step out of his own world?

How did it cause this difficult time? Since leaving, there must be someone who let go first, but it is never the responsibility of one person!

If the crazy pursuit is still unwanted, it means that he has his own happiness, or he really has no love for you. In this way, if you have true love for him, you should bless him with all your heart. If someone is already with you, you should not ruin his happiness in the name of love and make it difficult for him to choose.

If he doesn't have love for you, then you should be relieved that because of his sincerity, you didn't become a spare tire; Because of his openness, you don't need humble love; Because of his refusal, you don't need to grieve yourself for someone who doesn't love you.

No one is qualified to kidnap someone else's true heart in the name of love! So whether you can't let go or can't let go of your obsession can only be determined by yourself! And whether it's love or obsession, please don't bother each other, leave yourself a little dignity, and don't let your love be hopelessly humble!

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It's understandable to miss a person, that's because he's relatively good, handsome, and of good quality, which is very normal. It shows that you are also a good person and have the correct three views. So you have to work hard to make yourself better and attract better him.

Prove that you are in love with this person or like this person, if you can express it, you can express it, and then try your best to fight for it, if you really can't do it, you can only try to learn to forget, although it is difficult to do, but time is the best medicine.

You call it love at first sight, and you fell in love with him once you saw someone, and you are too affectionate, hahahaha.

Since you can't forget it, you just like him, so you should try to chase her.

It's okay to go out alone, and don't go to places you've been to together, as much as possible.

Time washes everything away, and you need to find something to do for yourself to divert your attention.

On the road of our lives, there are too many people who can only accompany us for a while. Some people get off the bus and we are happy, there are bound to be people who get off the bus and make us sad, and some people have been gone for a long time, but they still remember it in our hearts.

1. Use time to enrich yourselfWhen people are lonely, they will miss the person in their hearts, and the root of the loneliness is actually because you are too idle. Divert your attention, get busy every day, don't let yourself have too much alone time to immerse yourself in memories, add more hobbies and interests, and dissipate energy.

Time takes everything, and if you can keep it that way for a while, that person will start to slowly become very vague from your memory. Finally, one day, you will find that you can't even remember his face.

2. Start a new relationship:There are actually only two ways to forget someone, and that is time and new love. If you still can't forget, it can only mean that the time is not long enough and the new love is not good enough.

In fact, it takes a certain amount of time to change, and change yourself and habits through the precipitation of time. I used to be unwilling to let go of a person, but one day, you will meet a person, he will make all the people you met before become floating clouds, it's true, I used to think that I would probably not love a second man in my life except for him, but I was wrong, a long life, believe me, when you meet a better person, you will naturally let go of him and forget him.

In fact, people are animals that change their minds easily, and it is easy to forget old loves when they have a new love. Maybe the reason why the other party left you in the first place is the same, since the other party can resolutely leave you because of a new love, why should you stick to your heart and refuse to start a new relationship for such a person?

People in love are either crazy or stupid, and no one will listen to these truths. The real redeemer is yourself, no one can save you, you only have to stay up day by day, telling yourself over and over again: it is impossible between us.

I can get used to you or lose you, it's no big deal. If you figure it out, you will understand that there are many beautiful things in life, and love is only one part of it.

You should put your emotions away, try not to let yourself think about that person, go on a trip with your good friends, forget about the relationship, and start over.

First of all, you should keep yourself busy, and reasonably plan your work time and rest time, and let yourself do more hobbies during your rest time, so that you will be relieved after a long time.

Why do we miss the people we loved when we were young?

Probably, love is incomprehensible, and there is no fate, so there are some regrets.

In the end, the person who appeared in our lives like a flint and a lightning bolt could only wave goodbye.

I never felt that the love of my youth should be suffocated to death, and in many people's memories of youth, I was like Xiao Shui in the Thai youth movie "The Little Thing of First Love", trying to become excellent in order to be worthy of the person I liked. The self who was in a crush, for the first time, knew that he wanted to live in front of him like a dog.

A person's youth always has to experience an unforgettable crush. The person you really want to be with him for the rest of your life, the person you know will eventually leave the liquid, the person who you may not remember what he looks like after a few years, but you still miss him and forget it, and the person who loved him when he was in love, will run through the whole youth.

Crush, this youthful and beautiful word, accompanied me throughout my junior high school girlhood. It is a ray of sunshine in my life, warming my youth inch after inch; It is also the gentle drizzle of my youth, which moistens my girlish feelings one after another.

It made me understand the beauty of the beginning of love, like a seed, growing little by little in my heart, taking root and sprouting.

The person who never forgot to make a fuss will still appear in my dreams many years later, and I have fantasized about the scene of reunion with him countless times.

I guess I wouldn't have seen each other even if I had the chance.

Not bothering is the last way I love you.

The heart is you, and the regret is you! I don't regret meeting you, because you are really a ray of light in my heart when I was young, I have loved and have no regrets.

The person hidden in my memories, the person who will still be remembered by me many years later, may you be happy and stable for the rest of your life.