Does he treat me as a confidant of the opposite sex or does he like me?

Personally, I feel that he still likes you, if you don't like it, it won't be so good, and it won't be so meticulous care, those good confidants and friendships between men and women, generally more or less mixed with likes or love, and he sees you with the opposite sex, he will ask who it is, indicating that he minds the opposite sex who plays with you, and wants to explore information about you to others, and he also said that if you have a boyfriend, he can't bother you so much, so I personally think he still likes you, you can make more appointments, and you can also bravely try to confess, there are always two people who take the first step, so that they can have no regrets.

He definitely likes you, but he doesn't know where he is in your heart, and he doesn't dare to confess, for fear of scaring you away.

Men and women don't have a particularly pure friendship directly, and they all have some distractions in it. He treats you as a confidant of the opposite sex, so it is better to upgrade directly to boyfriend and girlfriend, only you are willing?

Most women are single-minded about love, and she believes that a man will hold hands with him and go down, hoping to grow old with him. Most men are the same, but there are also a small number of scumbags who eat in the bowl and look at the pot, even after marriage, they are not at ease, he wants to break up and some things will be hidden from his daughter-in-law, because he has plans to divorce her or live a "real and ruthless" life with her.

If a man hides these 4 behaviors from you, sooner or later you will understand that he has plans to break up with you!

1. Conceal money from you: The problem of money in marriage is basically transparent, as a husband and wife should not be hidden, this is also a sign of mutual trust between the two parties, if his income and expenses do not let you know, and whether he does not ask or pay for the expenses of family life, it can only mean that he has a plan to break up with you, he does not tell you about income and expenses, he no longer cares about you, and there is no need for you to know, or he is saving money in order to break up, and his money is spent on other women, He's going to hide it from you.

2. Contact with other women without hesitation: Love is selfish, and no woman can accept her man hooking up with other women and having frequent contact. A man will avoid frequent contact with other women for the sake of his woman's feelings, but now he has no shy away from abnormal dealings with other women, indicating that he no longer cares about you or has plans to break up with you, so he is not afraid of hurting you by associating with other women, it is possible that he wants to use this method to force you to break up, or it may be that he has not found the right time to have a showdown with you, and the man has this kind of performance to persuade you to let go as soon as possible!

3. He won't point out your shortcomings: don't think it's a good thing, you're perfect in his eyes. No one is perfect, he can't praise you every day when he's with you, but he will point out your shortcomings, because he has you in his heart, so pointing out your shortcomings is to make you do better, it's not that you wear an inappropriate dress yourself, ask him for his opinion, he just "very good, beautiful, okay" to deal with you, and will not say "you don't match well like this, don't wear it like that" and say your shortcomings.

He compliments you like this purely to deal with you, and he will not hesitate to leave you if he has the chance!

Fourth, the night does not go home, and the figure cannot be seen all day long: the husband and wife can sit down and talk, that is, these hours after work and the evening, the loving husband and wife man will go home after work if there are no necessary activities to help cook and clean up the housework, and his wife hugs and sleeps to talk about home, but now he finds various reasons not to return at night, and he can't see people all day long, and even more so he doesn't even find a reason not to go home, which shows that he is deliberately alienating you, deliberately avoiding you, he doesn't want to see you, and the man has this behavior 100% I have plans to break up with you.

People's behavior represents a state of mind or thought, and seeing people's behavior is much more real than listening to what he says, because the mouth can be full of "duplicity", but behavior is a natural expression, which can basically reflect his heart, and he can't hide it if he wants to. He has already made up his mind, so why should you keep it!

It's about treating you as a friend. He likes you, maybe just a friend's like. But if you don't say it's a confession, it's not a relationship, it may be a little ambiguous, but it doesn't seem to be liked, you may like it, but now it's just friends.

I carefully read your story and think that you already like him very much, and he definitely loves you very much, if it was just a confidant of the opposite sex, there would not be such an in-depth communication, so why don't you come together and pierce that layer of window paper when you love each other? After all, it is not easy to find true love once in your life, grasp it well, cherish it, if you can, I really hope you continue like this, I sincerely bless you!

Girls like to behave alone.

1.People who think before going to bed and when they wake up.

2.There is always someone who has room to face.

3.The one in first place.

4.The one who remembers every word he says.

5.As long as he's there, it's a sunny day.

It's like to be completely hit, and this kind of vague liking is also something you should experience at your age, and you don't have to be too clear about emotional things, and then break it when necessary, just like a ripe melon.

You may be wondering if he likes you now, of course he does, a boy's eyes are what his heart wants, and there are many kinds of likes, you are young, time will give you the answer.

I don't think so, there is no confidante to say, only if you like it, you will do so many things, cherish it, you tell him your own likes clearly, let him know that you like him, the other party has been trying to make you fall in love with him, he is waiting for the answer, otherwise he may miss it after graduation.

Blind toss, maybe this is the love on campus, didn't he confess to you? He likes you, but why don't you take a step forward, maybe you don't agree, or maybe you have some concerns.

Then, if you like him, take the initiative, don't miss it, I missed too much when I was on campus. The main reason was that I was too timid at that time, and I was all engaged in ambiguity, and when I finally left the campus, I didn't have a campus romance. Out of society, talked about a few paragraphs, but really only one, if you have a long love experience, you may avoid too much unpleasantness, and when you reach the age of starting a family, you will not choose the wrong person due to the influence of family members or other factors.

Secondly, first love is beautiful, if you can take that step, I believe your campus life will be more interesting. Thank you.

Feelings can be cultivated slowly, isn't it said that love will be born over time.

In fact, the opposite sex confidant and the couple are separated by a thin line. Their relationships are all interchangeable, intimate lovers, that is, confidants of the opposite sex are also lovers.

If you want to know if you have a relationship, it's better for two people to find an opportunity to tell each other what they think in their hearts, don't guess, right?

Yes, he just thinks of you as a confidant, and he doesn't really like you.

At school too! It's not bad to have such a friend! At least I care about you!

But if you don't confess, you probably haven't made up your mind.

The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.

Understanding a person, on the one hand, tests him in many ways in daily life.

It can also be learned from the side of his friends.

Learn about his family situation from his neighbors.

It feels like it, and boys are really unpredictable sometimes.

I don't think it's acceptable.

Friendship between people of the opposite sex is difficult to explain, and sometimes one party endures to suppress the dress code to be a friend, because the other party does not love him or her, so he has to pretend to be just a friend of him. It's hard to say that I don't have an idea in my heart, and I don't have an opportunity to do a substitute one day. Such a confidant or a good friend of the opposite sex, even if he likes the other party, he will not say it, what he is afraid of is that if he says it, the friend will have nothing to do, and he is afraid that the other party will no longer pay attention to himself, so he pretends to be a good friend anytime and anywhere, and once he has the opportunity, he will push the boat down the river and turn positive.

There is also a situation where there are confidants and good friends of the opposite sex, that is, lovers are not very satisfied with each other, so they will look for or meet blue faces outside to make up for the lack of spiritual communication or care in life. If the quarrel with the family is unpleasant, the role of this good friend of the opposite sex outside may be to call out the person who has a drink and chats with him.

Even if one party doesn't have an idea in his heart, the other party may have an idea quietly, and it's easy for things to go wrong at such a time. Because one party has been waiting for the opportunity, and the other party is in a troubled or vulnerable time, and is dissatisfied with the lost orange slippery position at home, so he chatted with his confidant to the emotional place, and felt that this person was better and more sensible, and it was inevitable that he was really moved.

So even if you don't have an idea yourself, do you know what the other person thinks? Those friends of the opposite sex who contact and get along well at any time under the banner of friendship are often a crisis in each other's feelings. Because of their existence, when we quarrel and gamble, when we are weak and tired, they will come out to accompany us, and we who are fragile at that time can withstand their hints and warmth?

Does it stand up to the comparison?

So, when I find out that you have a lot of good friends and confidants of the opposite sex, I will be uneasy, and I will be afraid that when I have a conflict with you, those guys who like you but pretend to be your friends and confidants take advantage of it. Therefore, if you must find a confidant, please don't choose the opposite sex, and please make sure that the other party is quietly liking you. Otherwise, my trust will be discounted and I will become weak.

In the face of love, people are selfish. Unless it's not true love, you will have an indifferent attitude towards the actions of your other half. Especially in the eyes of women, love requires absolute selfishness, and love is not allowed to be mixed with any sand.

But some people say that the highest state of love is selflessness. Are you able to accept that your partner has a confidant of the opposite sex? True love is possessive and selfish.

I believe that many people are negative about this issue. Generally, everyone will take the initiative to keep a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex after having a partner, in order to avoid suspicion, it is also to show respect for the other half and make the other half feel safe. However, it is rare to meet a true friend in life, and some people will be unwilling to give up like this.

On the one hand, in order not to make the subject feel uneasy, and in order to maintain friendship with confidants. Many times, you can only keep in touch with friends quietly and try to avoid seeing each other. It is also normal to chat occasionally through the mobile phone, in order not to let the other half misunderstand, everyone is used to deleting records after chatting, or using a calculator to disguise encrypted chat content.

Besides, true confidants don't need to meet each other often, nor do they need to chat often, and the relationship doesn't need to be deliberately maintained, no matter how long they haven't met, they won't feel strange when they meet or chat again. Everyone needs their own friends, and they should also be given appropriate personal space when getting along with partners, but they can't be completely ignored. In the right space, everyone can do what they want, but only if they respect each other and remain loyal to their relationship.

Some of the friends we make will be of the opposite sex, and they will be called confidants or confidants. ......When we fall in love and get married, whether we will accept that our other half has a confidant of the opposite sex, we need to analyze the emotional state between them, the actual situation of their interactions, and whether there is a realistic impact on their lives.

1. Determine whether you can accept it according to the emotional state of the other half and the confidant of the opposite sex.

For the fact that your other half has a confidant of the opposite sex, the trapped relationship between them is an important factor ...... judge whether you can accept itIf they are just ordinary friends, then they are completely ...... to accept this realityBut if the relationship between them has gone beyond friendship and developed love, they will definitely not accept this situation.

2. Determine whether it is acceptable from the actual situation of the interaction between the other half and the confidant of the opposite sex.

When you congratulate your other half of having a confidant of the opposite sex, the actual state of their relationship is also an important factor in determining whether you can accept it. ......Specifically, if they are in a normal state of interaction, then of course they can accept it. ......But if you find that the relationship between your other half and your confidant of the opposite sex is not ordinary, beyond the relationship between friends, then you will definitely not be able to accept it.

3. From whether one's life has been affected by reality, determine whether you can accept half of the cronyus of the opposite sex.

The most important factor in whether you can finally accept that your other half has a confidant of the opposite sex is to see if your life is affected by reality. ......If the fact that the other half has a confidant of the opposite sex does not affect your life, then you can accept this reality. ......But if your life is affected because your partner has a confidant of the opposite sex, then you will definitely not be able to accept this situation.

Therefore, as to whether you can accept that your other half has a confidant of the opposite sex, you need to conduct a comprehensive analysis from many aspects in order to make a rational choice.