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Hehe, you are still very young, and it is good to have expectations for yourself, which means that you are very motivated! But when your wishes can't be realized immediately, and you find a gap with the people around you, there will be a gap like you in your heart, and what you have to do is to stop comparing with others.
Everyone's growth environment is different, which will lead to material and spiritual disparities between people, so if you want to have a good mood, don't compare yourself with others. It's good to just compare yourself with yourself, and it's good to look at yourself vertically to see if you're improving.
If the success you want has not yet come, then it may be that your efforts have not accumulated enough, so don't deny your ability; It may be that you haven't come across a better opportunity yet. When you are in too much of a hurry, slow down your pace, and maybe you will gain something else. Or set your goals a little lower, take your time and do something, and you will be more depressed.
When you are in a bad mood, you can compare yourself with people who are not as good as yourself, not pride, not contempt, but psychological adjustment to yourself.
Be happy!
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1. This phenomenon is very common in today's society, how many college students do not have a job and do physical work. The main thing is to calm the mind;
2. Work hard, grasp every opportunity, there will always be a day to come;
3. I have no objection to the comparison of peers, but a person's development is related to many factors such as family, society, and education. Think about it all before making a comparison.
4. In short, you must have confidence, as long as you work hard, the return will be worthy of you.
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Maybe you're setting your expectations too high.
As you say"I have always lived in the countryside, and I know that the peasants are very poor, very hard, and very tired! So I studied hard to finally get admitted to university, and when I came to this city that is not very developed and not very backward, I always thought that this would be better"Thinking that when you get to the city, you can climb to the sky in one step and reach the situation of getting ahead or being superior, such a mentality can easily cause a lot of psychological pressure when you are frustrated. Therefore, it is recommended that you can find a place with more leisurely and beautiful scenery to travel, relax your mental pressure, and then re-examine your actual ability and do a good job every day, so that you may find that you are not worse than anyone else.
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People should look a little farther, what they have now will definitely have in the future. He was also earned through hard work, and it is no simpler than your 16-year-old book, and you can't compare the richest businessman with the poorest doctorate. To him is a minority who has no culture and a car and a house, you are different, you have to work hard, your sky must be bigger than his, and bluer!
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University student? What's the use?
Can you tell me?
College students can't go to serve plates?
I'm now a high school graduate.
The job is PR, KTV PR.
What kind of work is this, people who understand it understand it very well.
I won't explain.
Assertive! Have confidence and have everything!
The talent market is more running.
If you like that, you go for an interview.
But you have to think about whether you will or not.
There is no adaptability.
Adaptable. You can do it anywhere.
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If you do your job as a top performer, you will find your value. If you do it best, you'll have it all!
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You have city work blues, it is advisable to see a doctor
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Mainly lack of communication with the family, the words in the heart are not willing to say it, how can there be parents in the world who do not love their children, maybe the way of caring is wrong, you can do a heart-to-heart exchange, the dissatisfaction and expectations to say, it is much better than this stuffy, if your mental pressure tolerance is not large, such suppression will sooner or later cause bad results, so, please let go of yourself, feel with your heart...
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You can leave for a while, but you have to talk to them first, and then weigh the results yourself, and they will understand later.
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Parents are good for themselves no matter what, sometimes you may not be happy when you really leave, when you are alone outside, you may still miss those people who nagged around you before, sometimes you can be objective when you think about the problem, it is recommended to think about the consequences before caring about the process.
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I really don't know about this... I'm sorry...
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Ovulation injections may not work for you.
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Hello, from a medical point of view, there is something wrong with your genes and there are irreversible changes in your genes. It may be due to physical changes caused by the external environment in which you live, and it is recommended to go to a higher professional hospital for examination.
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If a man loves you, you are an angel, if he doesn't love you, you are not an angel, it has nothing to do with the horoscope.
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I don't think you're doing it right.
At the beginning, I was going to get engaged to your ex-boyfriend and then regretted it, which broke your ex-boyfriend's heart too much, and then you went to redeem it, and I felt hopeless. Or take a gamble on your colleague (if it's for the future life) and wait for him to get back and don't put pressure on him.
In fact, I prefer that you be with someone you really like, and not get married for the sake of getting married. Give yourself some time to think about who you like before deciding. If you really like your ex-boyfriend, apologize to him for admitting your mistake. After that, I can only obey the fate of God.
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First of all, you are trying to accept that your colleague and your boyfriend are proposing to break up, which seems to be the wrong thing you are doing (personal opinion).
Well, if you come to your colleague's side to help you cook, you should show your attitude, or tell the truth that you have a boyfriend
Anyway, there is a problem with the handling of this matter
I'm not too superstitious and don't understand fortune
Believe that what is yours is yours, not what you chase and will not be yours, think about whether to redeem or give up
To redeem it, you may have to put a lot of effort into it
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You should actually talk to your girlfriend so that she understands the pure relationship between you and her first.
This classmate of yours is so arrogant, and that's a display of her character.
If she really had any ideas, she would never call you so blatantly.
I won't call you in front of your girlfriend. Actually, girlfriends should understand.
One day, you can also joke with your classmates and say, "When will your big problem change, my girlfriend is jealous."
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I've never heard of "a woman's heart, a needle under the sea"?
Which is important. Always have to say it. It's really going to be good ... Wouldn't advise.
Not many girls will call "good friends of the opposite sex" - dear".
o( o, man, you're very happy
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If it's a good friend, just say it.
Your friends won't mind.
Tell you secretly.
If your friend minds, it means that she feels differently about you.
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Just tell her that your girlfriend doesn't like her like this.
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That girl is more scheming, haha. Your girlfriend isn't her match when it comes to scheming. Strategically it has already lost a move.
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Girls will be afraid that they will like a boy with good conditions.
Because when girls face their love, they will not be confident in themselves, and they will not believe that the person they like will like them.
You will be afraid that after changing the current relationship between good friends, you will feel that she is not good enough, and the two of you are not suitable or something like that, because in this case, you will not be able to return to your current relationship, and you can only separate.
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Hey, I feel uncomfortable after seeing your envoy, I wish you happiness, work hard!
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Be a good friend, and when she needs you, you're picking her up with a hug He may be. 1. People who don't want to fall in love, there are such people, and they plan their lives without boyfriends and husbands.
2, someone is already chasing her, and she also acquiesces, she doesn't want you to join anymore and make things too complicated.
3. I already have a boyfriend, but I don't want to hurt you too much.
4. He is very practical and thinks that your future is not good enough.
5, lesbian···
Very good, first use your true feelings to impress her friend, maybe there are other clues Please forgive my words, is she healthy?
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Maybe there is something in my heart that I haven't let go of yet.
Or, it's still testing you, little girls generally like to play this, constantly testing your endurance, you still have to talk to her in detail or find a friend as a middleman to communicate well.
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Landlord, you are too timid. She cried because the people who loved him didn't know what to love her? Will she stop crying?
Then you'll have to find it. Possible. I mean, there's probably something hard to say. For example: body, family.
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It's normal, don't deliberately worry about it. It's not uncommon for a man to have a female friend with whom he has a good relationship.
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If it were me, I'd break up right away. If I need a reason, it's that this man's heart is not yet fully in me.
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You are a fan of the authorities, and the onlookers can see it very clearly, obviously eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, wanting to step on two boats, and trying to have an ambiguous outside, but they refuse to let go of you in their hands, a very possessive man, if you don't want to get hurt in the end, it's better to dump him as soon as possible, this kind of man has no sense of responsibility, if you look for him for a showdown, he will definitely rely on it, saying that he is just an ordinary friend, saying that you even have to care about him making a friend.
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1, your boyfriend wants to have sex with her! 2, stabilize your side first, and then separate from you when that side is done! 3. Just be an ordinary friend!
Personally, I think (don't spray), 1 may be bigger! I think it's better for you to make it clear to him, otherwise you will always have a hurdle in your heart! Finally, I will send you a word, it should be yours, how is it yours, it shouldn't be yours, and you can't force it!
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The prodigal son doesn't change his money, if he is together, believe him, be kind to him, let him think that you are the best, don't let him feel tired with you, they will break up before, proving that their living habits are very unacceptable. Personal opinion.
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Let's take a look.
1. Yes. Second, at this time, think about how to do it, and shoot directly for the third time, with one move and two breaks! It must not be endured for long.
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After breaking up, you should no longer be in touch, and you have the possibility of reconciliation in this situation. He disagreed, maybe there was something he couldn't think of. Hehehe, I think it should mean that I love you, if I don't love you anymore, there is no need to contact you at all.
You should think about the reasons for the breakup in the first place. If you want to get back together with him, talk to him. Don't give your feelings easily, but don't take it back easily.
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The word heh stands for a polite response, i.e. something of the same nature as "smiling at you is purely polite".
Generally, people who express happiness and friendship will use "hehe"."Haha" or the sinister smile to indicate that you can't be friends when you break up, because you hurt each other too much, you can't be enemies when you break up, because you once loved.
Since you want to get back together, and he doesn't agree, that's a clear rejection of you.
Why do you have to continue to dwell on it, you have wronged yourself like that, and you have disturbed others, it's not worth it!
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Since you're going to say you're stupid, that's what you're looking forward to in that relationship.
If it's really separated, the man won't say anything about the past with the woman... They don't think it's necessary.
The landlord thinks about what happened.,Let you divide it.。。
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I look at it from a male point of view, either he is afraid that you will not be able to find a partner in the future, so he cares about you now, or he just wants to have sex with you.
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Maybe he really just wants to be friends, he doesn't want to give up a friend like you, and generally speaking, it will be extra awkward after breaking up and meeting, (with a few exceptions). Don't dwell too much on this issue, or maintain this last true feeling, if you are persistent enough, then start with a friend and take it slowly, and one day he will be moved by you. I wish you all the best
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Oh, I just don't know what to say, sometimes friends are better than lovers, and some people are only suitable for being friends.
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It's just perfunctory, I don't want to pay attention to you, but I'm embarrassed to ignore you for the sake of face.
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