What should I do if I find out that I have married the wrong husband?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-20
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you really feel that you are having a very painful life, divorce is not a way to go.

    If your husband really loves you and loves you very much, there is no need for you.

    Because this world is really true love always belongs to others, and the true love that I find is always vulnerable, as the saying goes, find someone who loves me, not someone I love. The person who loves me will always take care of you, protect you, take care of you, the person you love will take care of and protect others, and most importantly, they will love others. The people you love will break your heart.

    Aren't we just looking for a companion who can really be by the bedside when we are old? Do you accept marriage after living a flat and happy life?

    In today's murky world, it is wrong to love and be loved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Calm down and think about it, if your husband loves you, but you don't love him, please take your time to discover his advantages and try to love him, because it is not easy to find a person who truly loves himself in this society, I think women are like this, you must find someone who loves you when you get married, don't look for someone you love, because then life will be very hard in the future!

    Now that you have a daughter, you don't want to think about divorce all the time, so calm down and live a good life! Just think it's for my daughter!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Does your husband love you, if he loves you, for the sake of your child, you should discover his good qualities and try to love her again. If it doesn't work, then there is only separation, I suggest that the two walk together, it is fate, or it is better not to separate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, and solve the problem of child support and visitation in the court. It's easy to talk about and disperse, and everyone is happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    They are all married, and they should not be divorced casually. And I don't think it makes much difference who you marry, a good family is hard to come by, as long as there is no domestic violence, I think you still need to be patient to accept it. After a long time, everyone's family feeling will naturally be very strong.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Now that they are married.

    And also has a daughter.

    You shouldn't have easily broken down your own marriage.

    If it's your husband who doesn't love you after marriage.

    You should think about what the problem is.

    If you don't love your husband after marriage.

    You should think more about why you married him in the first place.

    Marriage is something that takes a lifetime to maintain.

    I wish you all happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Giving love can dispel troubles. All afflictions come from being too attached to desires.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let me start by asking: does he love you? Is it usually good for you?

    Again: what do you want? Even if the two are happy after marriage, they are not necessarily happy, and the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt is not as simple as falling in love.

    Besides, you don't love him, why did you choose him in the first place?

    Think about whether you should be more realistic about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Mother is great.

    Bless you. For the sake of their own children. Anything can survive. That's how my mom is.

    Seriously. Now that they are married. The children were born.

    Let's live in peace.

    Just for the sake of the children.

    Aren't you happy to drive to your own children? Is it still painful?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's really the wrong marriage, then leave quickly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Sadly, take responsibility for your own impulses, there is no way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Think about it for the sake of your children.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Women are always like this, and then find the 10% who can be happy, the same effect is 10%, and 80% is even more unlucky.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What should I do if I feel that I have married the wrong person after marriage?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

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  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

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  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you marry the wrong person, you can calm yourself down first, if you are sure that he really can't give you a happy marriage, don't rush to divorce, you can make a plan before the divorce, think about what you want to do next, and think about whether you can bear the consequences after the divorce. In real life, marriage is sometimes an adventure, and many women don't know if the person they spend the rest of their lives with is a good person or not, whether they can give you a happy marriage, and no one can be 100% sure of these before getting married.

    In fact, life is a deceptively simple but complex thing. Married life is full of unexpected situations and variables, and sometimes, it is only when you are actually married that you realize whether the person you want to live with for the rest of your life is a good fit.

    It is said that marriage is a lifelong thing, I am afraid that it is even more so in the hearts of women, after marriage, the marriage is unhappy, most people's first thought is divorce, they think that only divorce and marriage can end all this and have a new beginning.

    When the marriage is irretrievable, the wise woman will not make any decisions impulsively, but will calm herself down, work hard to grow, and become independent day by day. Therefore, divorce is no longer passive for her, but completely active. If the marriage is unhappy, it is useless to complain, and a woman should learn to leave a path for herself.

    If divorce is the final result, then until then, women must maintain the most basic reasons, do not affect men because of their willfulness and prejudice, and do not hurt innocent people just for the sake of temporary pleasure.

    In any case, even if two people get divorced, they still have to move on with their lives. Before the divorce, it is better for women to plan for the days after the divorce or to leave a path for themselves in advance. In this way, you will not fall into chaos and a bad life after divorce because you have no plan, marriage needs to be rational, and divorce is also rational.

    The above is the view of what to do if you marry the wrong person, I hope it can help you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You must stop the loss in time, and you should divorce the other party as soon as possible, because the other party is not the right person at all, so there is no need to insist.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Good morning dear, I'm sorry to hear this news, if Zeqi feels that he has married the wrong person, and his life really can't go on, he can consider divorce, after all, people have a long life, and they can't delay Sun Yuanru for a lifetime because of the change of the child, the child can grow up healthily no matter where he is, and it would be good to care more about it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think if you marry the wrong person, you can choose to divorce. You can choose your life partner again. After all, the road of life is not always easy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you marry the wrong person, you should stop the loss in time, you should choose to divorce in time, you should stay away from each other, and let yourself live your own life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then improve yourself, strengthen yourself, make yourself more and more powerful, more and more powerful, so that you can support yourself and your children, and then divorce him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Marriage is not compromised, if you find that there is no affection between two people, and the other party is not the person you want, you must learn to stop the loss in time, people live in themselves to pursue happiness, in order to live better, do not wronged yourself.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can negotiate a divorce with the other party, fight for custody of the child if you want it, and give the child to the other party if you don't want it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think that if you really don't like him very much at this time, and you don't want to be with him anymore, you should decisively choose to divorce.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    At this time, it mainly depends on what you think, if you are also very satisfied with this husband, then you will live with it, if you are very dissatisfied with this man, then go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Stop loss in time, if you meet someone unladylike, tragic domestic violence, etc., you must flee as soon as possible, handle the divorce, and take police measures if necessary. Don't leave anything to chance.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After all, marrying the wrong person is very serious for a person, if there are no children, you must divorce in time, and it is also very responsible for two people.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When you marry the wrong person, you should stop the loss in time, and when you don't have children, you can decisively end the marriage relationship with the other party, so that you can get rid of this predicament and find a new life.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    At this time, two people can get along for a while, and if they feel that they can't get along, they should divorce in time to prevent both parties from being unhappy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You should end this marriage in time, and if you marry the wrong person, you should deal with it in time, otherwise you will only make yourself more and more miserable.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think I should decisively stop the loss in time and divorce him. Because marriage is a lifelong thing, you can't make do with it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You should choose divorce, because the other party is not the right person for you, and you will not be very happy to live with such a person, so you should stop the loss in time.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You should divorce so that you don't waste each other's time, and the effect is good, so that you are worthy of yourself, and your life will be very good in the future.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You can take a look at whether the problem between two people is serious or not. If it is a conflict that can be reconciled, communicate with the other party to solve it, and if it is an unavoidable problem, you can divorce.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    When I know that I have married the wrong person, I will choose to divorce immediately, because everyone is a self-centered individual, on the premise that I know that I will not be happy, divorce is the best choice, don't be forced to change myself because of face or other people's ideas, because we don't need to satisfy everyone, in this world of wonders, let yourself live a simple and happy life is the most important thing. Of course, if you can't make up your mind then give him a short-term investigation, you can feel happiness at this time and feel that you can continue to live after you have thought about it, then it will be over, so you must make yourself happy, and if you can't do it, you will leave.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Face this question head-on, whether you are marrying the wrong person. What is your own basis?Some are because he doesn't have a good family background, or some material aspect does not meet your expectations, but he loves you, do you think you added it wrong?

    The other is that he is rich enough to meet your material needs, but he doesn't love you, do you think you married the wrong person? What kind of husband do you want in your heart to be satisfied? Measure what the man you have in mind is like.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you don't have children, stop losses in time, and if you have children, you can see that you can't hold on to your children, so give up, and be with the wrong person, it's hard to be happy in this life.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Stop your losses in time unless you can change the status quo.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What should I do when I know that I am marrying the wrong person?

    When you know that you are marrying the wrong person, you must make a decision. Since you have married the wrong person and you already feel it, then hurry up and cut through the mess. If it drags on for too long, it will be a lose-lose situation.

    Since you have decided that you have married the wrong person, then. Maybe in your subconscious, you feel that this man is not what you need, not what you want. You have a lot of opinions about her, a lot of thoughts when he does something?

    You're going to look down on him, you're going to think he's not doing it right. It will be very uncomfortable in your heart, so that your life will become more and more awkward and uncomfortable. How can there be happiness in this way?

    So you have to use your own thoughts to judge this relationship, whether to continue or not? If there is a need to continue, then work hard, if there is no need to continue. Be sure to cut through the mess quickly.

    When it comes to falling in love, both people may be. Show your good side to each other. Maybe there are many dark sides in the heart or flaws in the character.

    Neither side saw it. Once you enter the palace of marriage, once the dust settles, you feel that this relationship has come to an end. Maybe their own faults and shortcomings have been revealed.

    At this time, both sides have shortcomings. But if there is love, both parties will tolerate and slowly adapt to each other. If you adapt well, then the relationship will last a long time.

    If two people can't tolerate each other, then the relationship may die.

    I think the main reason why two people can be far away together is to tolerate each other. If we can all be tolerant of each other, we can. Look at each other with appreciation.

    Then maybe many of his shortcomings will be invisible to us, and we will tolerate them. In this way, the two people continue to develop, if the two people find fault with each other. You find fault with me, I find fault with you.

    Two people will be at war, constantly. You will feel that you have married the wrong person, or that you have married the wrong person. When this problem arises, I feel that I can't tolerate it.

    You should break up or change yourself to fit each other. Only in this way can this relationship continue, otherwise the relationship will easily die. The two of them entered the marriage hall together, and in the absence of children, it is the best way to cut through the mess quickly.

    If you have children, you should tolerate each other, be considerate and forgive each other, tolerate each other, and tolerate each other, no matter how many shortcomings there are. Correct it slowly. Give the child a complete home, so this should be based on your own situation, if you feel that you have married the wrong person, see under what circumstances to see if you can?

    Alleviate this contradiction of this thought. Hope your life gets better and better.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    What if you really find out that you are married to the wrong person, which is very painful, but now the conditions are limited and you can't get a divorce? Today, I would like to give you three suggestions, I hope you can find a little direction after listening.

    The first is that let's give up the idea of changing others, there is a saying that ha, adult banquet people can't be persuaded by others, and it is impossible to change for another person, we can only be persuaded by ourselves, and we can only change for ourselves, and even if we are for ourselves, in fact, it is very painful to change, let's not talk about it, let's talk about women, we all want to become beautiful, but eat less, even if it is difficult to eat less, isn't it? So don't think about letting him change as a big man, I want him to become motivated, I want him to become sophisticated, I want him to know how to be romantic.

    The second, we have energy, just make it to yourself, life, in the end, in fact, count on yourself relatively more reliable, this era is really better for women, of course, we will be better in the future, women want to be strong, opportunities, in fact, now not much less than men, you used to hope that she can make a little more money, hope that he is motivated, and strive to give our family a good life, you want him to know and know, but you find that he can't do it, but I think it doesn't matter, Men can't do it, we women can do it, he can't be motivated, we can be motivated.

    The third point is not to treat love and men as the whole of your life, this can be said to be the most important, your career, your children, your parents, your interests and hobbies, your life dreams, and of course, your love, these are all very important, right? If you can realize that there are so many important components of your life, even if this love is gone, in fact, you will not feel that you have nothing, you are a loser in life, Xiangzi so find a few more fulcrums for your life, this is too important. A woman with a love brain, if you really have to wait until the disaster comes, you will definitely understand that you actually chose a crooked neck tree for yourself.

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