How to live with extremely selfish people

If you can tolerate her, won't you think you're mature? I'm like that, every time I tolerate my wife's little temper, I secretly sigh: how great I am. This is what being a person in this society is like, to be calm and rational.

You can't get along with selfish people. Selfish people tend to think from the center of their own affairs, and if you live with such people, it will be very hard.

I guess you can't "rewrite" her, you can only "insert".

Very selfish people.

When you deal with everything from his point of view, and he never considers your feelings, you will feel that you can't get his understanding and understanding, and over time you will only be disappointed.

Most of these people are a series of chain reactions caused by family education!

They have been spoiled since childhood, have no ability to solve problems, evade when encountering problems, like to blame others and complain. It's okay if you can correct his three views when you get along with such a person, if you can't, stay away as soon as possible, you are not his parents ...... you are also upright

This sentence was said by one of my former classmates, A, who was in charge of the class, and no matter what she did, she was a high-profile and exaggerated posture, never feeling that the world belonged to someone else, and seemed to feel that everything about her was what she deserved. Of course, in high school, it was common for student A to get talk and teach from the homeroom teacher.

Regarding selfish people, we all have them all around, even ourselves, maybe we shouldn't judge too much, but when a person's selfishness violates your bottom line, will you still be safe?

When you order takeout with him, you always take it back silently by yourself, and you tell yourself that it doesn't matter how small things are; When you go shopping with him, you discuss the way you want to go, and the result depends on his mood, and you tell yourself to be more considerate of others; When you're together, you have to accompany ...... in your affairs that she doesn't want to accompany herAfter a long time, when you have done everything that should be done and what should not be done, after losing your balance, after the imbalance on the basis of friendship and reciprocity, you find that you are the only one who adheres to the code, he is selfish, you are angry.

But one day later, will you suddenly find that you have slowly become the "selfish ghost" in your eyes, and what he did to you at that time slowly became you to others.

The ancients had a cloud "Won't you suffer from the cold, but the pines and cypresses have their nature", teaching us not to be influenced by the environment; The political book also teaches us that "the influence of culture on people is imperceptible", telling us that we are close to Zhu Chi and close to ink and black.

In fact, in many cases, people's self-control ability is on the same line, what you see and what you face, slowly affects you and changes you, whether you like it or dislike it or not, in general, when you particularly hate someone or something, then please tell yourself to stay away from this kind of shouting behavior from your heart, after all, when one day you start to be selfish, you will no longer find yourself wrong.

It's important to keep yourself and not be assimilated by selfish people before the doomsday celebrations.

Hello, dear, this question is up to me The more selfish people you are, the more you ask others to be selfless!

If others can't make the slightest concession and accommodation for you, but they only ask you to unilaterally wronged and sacrificed, this kind of person must stay away in time, because if you are close to them, you will never get any gains in addition to suffering losses in your life!

But in addition, don't be the kind of person who is particularly stingy and stingy, everything is too calculating, and it is difficult to achieve any big climate.

People who are difficult to make a profit for the rest of their lives always like to "compete" on these three things. Why do you say that, you can see it!

1.Compete in what you give to others.

Wherever people have what they get, they have to give. People who only know how to get but don't know how to give, are selfish and narrow-minded by nature.

Moreover, everyone walks in society, sometimes you can take the initiative to show favor to others first, and in paying this kind of thing, take the initiative, be generous, and see the other party's reaction.

Generally, people who have normal three views and understand social principles and etiquette will be polite and reciprocal, and they will know that there is something to give back, and the relationship between the two sides will be long; And the kind of people who get cheap and sell well, and like to use moral kidnapping to force others to obediently and infinitely offer the benefits and benefits they want from social relationships according to their own ideas, are hypocrites and real villains, and remember to stay away.

But then again, the kind of person who always stares at the other party's contribution to others, carefully calculates and measures everything, especially cares about whether the other party's contribution is equal to his own side, and especially likes to compete, may be really difficult to make a big difference in this life.

The mind is too narrow, the vision is too shallow, and the energy is not big enough, and the limitations of life are considerable.

2.I don't want to suffer a loss, and I don't know how to back down.

The ancients often said that "suffering losses is blessings", which shows that people living in the world are really inevitable not to suffer losses. When you eat too much, you get used to it.

Once you get used to it, it will become a normal part of life.

If you have to say something beneficial about this self-deceptive concept of life and reputation, it depends on whether you can sum up some lessons, logic, and laws from the losses you have suffered.

If you can do this, you may encounter similar losses in the future, and you may immediately take a detour to avoid the traps set in front of you, and you will not repeat the mistakes of the past.

Why do people highly agree that "suffering is a blessing"? It's not because you encounter something, the price you pay for entanglement with it is far more troublesome than walking away and getting rid of it in time!

People with foresight, vision, and ability will weigh the pros and cons and priorities when something bad happens, and they will know how to give up those things that are not so important, even if they have a certain impact on their mood and interests, and then move to the places they care about and what is especially important to them.

When you reach a certain height, those who are not at the same level as you will no longer be able to find it difficult for you, which is a kind of success that kills two birds with one stone.

And people who are entangled in everything, don't want to suffer losses at all, and don't know how to back down when they encounter broken people and bad things, spend all their time and energy on these aspects, how can they have any spirit to do big things.

I don't think you're being particularly selfish, but you're just thinking a little bit more. You are afraid that after the notes you have compiled are used by others, your grades will improve more than yourself. It's understandable, so let's take a look at my experience.

There are many manifestations of selfishness, the most common of which is not caring for others when eating. When I was in my first relationship, when my boyfriend went to dinner with me, he never took care of me, never asked me what I wanted to eat when he ordered, but would gobble it up as soon as he ordered it.

I remember one time I wanted to eat spicy food, but the other party felt that I couldn't eat spicy food, I wanted to put some chili peppers on my own, and the other party thought I was hypocritical. I know that the other party can't eat spicy food, I should understand, but why don't you buy two servings when you buy food, one is spicy and the other is not spicy.

Later, the two of us also broke up because of eating, and in the end, this person became more and more brotherly and grandson, and he didn't care if I was full or not during the meal. When the two of us eat, we often pay for the AA system, but every time I always can't eat, because after the meal comes, the other party eats half of it, and the remaining half, and the two of us are half of each other, this kind of life makes me feel particularly aggrieved.

Once I went to eat Malatang with the other party, I went to get the soup, but I didn't expect the other party to eat all the dishes, and ate all the dishes of my own happy land, at that moment, I felt that this person was really not suitable for living together, because it was too selfish.

With a selfish person, you may not even have enough to eat, which is not an exaggeration at all, because I have experienced it myself. Therefore, if a person is particularly selfish when eating, don't be with this person, because after being with this person, you can't even solve your stomach.

I think it's mostly up to you.