What should I do if I have someone else in my heart and don t love my husband?

1. If you don't love your husband, there may be a problem from the root of the marriage, and when this problem arises first, you should not choose to get married, because it is very difficult to run a marriage once it begins.

2. Love can make us appreciate and tolerate a man, and we can also pay for a man. A marriage without love at the beginning is like a firecracker without a trigger, although it may be ignited, but it is generally not noticed.

3. It's not your husband's fault that you don't love your husband, it's just that you found someone you don't love to marry, and if you complain about the other party's unfairness because of this. In this case, you can choose to divorce and start a new life.

4. But many people don't want to divorce and want to find a way to maintain their marriage, so pay attention to respecting each other in marriage, don't blame each other, and let go of unrealistic expectations and requirements in the process of respect.

Then you have to figure out your own plans, if you have someone else in your heart, but you don't have further contact with others, if two people already have children, and you don't want to divorce your husband for your children, then decisively remove the people in your heart, treat your children and husband well, if you can no longer continue to live with your husband in the name of husband and wife, want to develop feelings with each other, and further organize the family, then you have to explain to your husband, end this marriage first, and then choose the person in your heart to develop, but the premise is that the children must be arranged, and the other party may have further development with himself, if the other party also has a family, and is not willing to end the marriage for you, then you should think twice.

Your affection for others may only be temporary, so at this time, you have to make the right judgment. If you're sure of everything, then you'll have to break up with your husband. Long-term pain is more severe than short-term pain.

Worse is ......This relationship is not sympathy. If you really don't like your husband, you can choose to divorce him. Without the crystallization of love, divorce is simple; If you have children, the issue of divorce will be more troublesome.

If you have a fundamental problem with your husband, there is no need to defend it! If it's just for the little things, then live it......

If you have someone else who doesn't love your husband in your heart, if you can't fix it with your husband, then you can only let go. But it is recommended that you communicate further with him and adjust well, after all, it is not easy to build a family.

Nothing.

Then don't be together.

Live in the moment. It's good to cherish what should be cherished, no.

Then divorce, otherwise it will be a torment for everyone.

Showdown with him, all the time is not good for anyone.

Then hurry up and divorce, I don't love it anymore, so what are you going to do?

You also said, just contact you and your husband for so long, if your husband gives you a gift one day, you can try it yourself, will you feel it? If you feel it, it means that you are just a temptation to other male compatriots, but if you don't feel it, you can file for divorce with your husband.

A happy life is to have love, although you don't love your husband now, you like others, but have you thought about it, you are still relying on your husband, eating and dressing, and having a complete home.

If you really don't love it, then you can divorce your husband and find it again, don't cuckold him during the marriage.

Hehe, sad, if you don't love him, talk to him, don't do these things behind your back, it's disgusting!

You can find an opportunity to ask your husband if he has any opinions about you, whether he has done something wrong, and if so, he must correct it in time.

At this time, you should pay more attention to your independence, you need to have a certain income, be in a good physical condition, and don't rely too much on others.

If you don't love him, you have to be responsible for your lover, you can think more about his advantages, how good he is for you, and you can also think about the sweet memories you had with him in the past, and then fall in love with him again.

Married. Have a child?

You feel sorry for your husband like this.