The confession failed, but she agreed to be a friend, how to soak slowly?

I am sad for what happened to you, but I am also glad for you. It's easy to be a friend, if the economy allows, you can ask someone to watch a movie, often go out to play, and care about greetings from time to time. I read a passage "When chasing a girl, don't offend the girl's best friend."

You can start with them, find out about her from time to time, and show that you love her very much. Her best friend will always help you say good things when she sees you loving her and caring for her like this. This is 11,000,000 times better than your confession.

Also, before doing this, you must tell the girl that you will wait for her and will love her until ......When she calms down, or when she is hurt, she will find out that you are good. I think she will be friends with you, maybe someone who has love in her heart but can't be together! But you'd better think clearly, if you do so much and she falls in love with someone else like Shen Jiayi, will you be able to let it go?

I chased a girl in high school, and I also promised that I would wait for her to ......But she didn't do anything, the university was separated, I was always single, she also had a boyfriend, and it didn't take long for them to break up, and she probably found that the man didn't love her as much as I did (narcissism). Now there are rumors that she wants to be with me. Good luck!

Since the confession failed, then she agreed to be friends in order to give you a step.

1. Accept it with grace, you can't be a lover or a friend.

It doesn't matter if the confession is rejected, how to maintain your demeanor after the confession is rejected is more important. The first rejection may be because the other party does not know himself well enough, or the other party has already answered to be a sweetheart, then it is best to ask the reason, the first time is inexperienced, and if it doesn't work once, you can do it again. If you really can't see hope, let go as soon as possible, accept the result with grace, and leave a good impression on the other party.

Stalking and angry people are the most annoying, and it is reasonable for such people to confess and be rejected. Whether Kiyosui is a man or a woman, he wants to like his object and will not be too bad. When the confession is rejected, it is certain that it is uncomfortable, and it is okay to cry and go crazy in private, but in front of the other party, you must talk about self-cultivation.

Second, make a humorous joke and quickly change the topic.

A joke is definitely a good way to relieve the awkwardness, and the atmosphere in which a confession is rejected is often awkward for both parties, so it's time to change the subject and talk about other things. But in this process, you must pay attention to the degree of joking, don't let the other party feel that you are playing with your feelings, and respect others is also respect for yourself.

When you are humorous, you can choose to laugh at yourself, but you must not say that the other person is bad. When changing the topic, try to say things that have nothing to do with the relationship, don't talk about the memories of two people, the other party can reject you, which means that the memories between you that you cherish may not be worth mentioning to the other party.

3. Leaving quietly is destined to have no ending, and you can say goodbye to each other.

If you can't get it, and it's very uncomfortable to be friends, then say goodbye to each other, and from then on, everyone will be okay and don't disturb each other. If you know that the other person will not like you, it is impossible for you to get better, and there is no hope at all. Then letting go is the best way, maybe it will be difficult at the time, but over time, it will always be able to pass.

There is no need to feel sorry for being rejected, all the missed and inappropriate in this world is to meet the right person. Can you explain the matter of fate? The twisted melon is not sweet, and the person who is forced will not be happy even if they can be together.

Cherish and cherish yourself, and one day you can meet someone who is happy with you. If it is determined that two people are impossible, then let go in a way that is as polite and personable as possible.

Confession failure does not mean that you are completely defeated and broken up, you can continue to be friends, but you need to make some psychological preparations, and be able to be tolerant, understand each other, and grasp the key points when you fall in love, so as to make the friendship deeper.

First of all, it is necessary to have a tolerant heart, to be friends is also principled, both parties should respect each other, and avoid speaking with spitting stars. Try to understand each other, they must have their own reasons for insisting, sometimes out of a sense of security for themselves, we should make them feel warm, not prejudiced against them, let alone force them to change their original decision.

Second, we should pay attention to grasping the tacit understanding between friends, and learn to discover, promote, and make use of the common interests of both sides. When discussing, keep your eyes open, take as many perspectives into account as possible, listen to each other's ideas, communicate more, understand more, and make the river of friendship deeper.

Finally, learn to replace prejudice with appreciation, and replace love with friendship and respect. Any relationship can go very far, as long as you can be respectful and honest with each other, there will always be a strong friendship. Two friends can enjoy the fun of childhood together, or they can accompany each other for a lifetime and travel all over the world, because friends are the best partners who can walk through life together.

If you fail to confess, you can still be friends, pay attention to the following two points:

1.To be friends is to be "friends".

Why do you say that being friends is just being friends, which means that you are just friends? And it's not that the party who confesses the failure wants to retreat to the relationship of friends to hide, and still return the other party to pursue the behavior, if you tell the other party that you want to be friends with the other party, but you still have this kind of pursuit behavior, the other party will be disgusted with you, and the other party will still feel that you have a strong purpose. Once the other person is disgusted with you, your need to be friends with the other person will be in jeopardy.

Therefore, since you retreat to the relationship of friends, you should not easily cross the line, it is just a friend relationship, not a lover relationship, and it is not a relationship between the pursuer and the pursued.

2.confesses failure and is a friend steadfastly, maybe there will be a chance.

Point 2 is not in conflict with point 1, and it may have a direct correlation between a person's patience and whether or not they have the ability to delay gratification. There is an old saying in China that "you can't eat hot tofu if you're in a hurry". Generally speaking, boys prefer to confess in their relationships, mainly because they are too anxious and delusional to determine the relationship between the two parties through a verbal advancement.

Because the relationship between the two is like filial piety has not reached a certain level, this party and the other party have not experienced enough attraction, and rashly confess that they want the other party to give a choice, then the other party will most likely refuse, because the other party can't hold it, and Sun Manuscript agreed to you so easily, it is actually unsafe for the person who was confessed.