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The husband's inner dislike for his wife can be seen in some daily details, such as killing you for trivial things, not taking you seriously, rarely communicating with you, rejecting your touch, often counting you, not apologizing to you, all-round denial, and picking.
Fourth, love to ignore the answer, always mention divorce.
1. Murder you for trivial things.
If a man dislikes you, then he will murder you for a little thing and be angry with you, and then the woman will feel very sad and scared.
2. Don't take you seriously.
When a man no longer likes you, he doesn't take you seriously, and when you are uncomfortable, he won't take the initiative to care about you, or even pretend not to know.
3. Rarely communicate with you.
I hate to communicate with you, and I basically don't talk to you much except for the way children live and learn.
4. Repel your touch.
When a man hates you, he will reject you, touch him, and when you do something to him, the man will get angry and push you away.
5. Always count you down.
If a man dislikes you, then he will often count you down, no matter what kind of occasion you face, he always has no scruples to say bad things about you, without considering your feelings.
6. I won't apologize to you.
But if he doesn't like you anymore, then he won't apologize to you, and even if he does something wrong, he will think he's right.
7. All-round denial.
When a man dislikes his wife, there is also an obvious manifestation of denying her, and it is an all-round denial. Even if it is the same thing, they just feel that their wives are inferior to others and do worse, even if in the eyes of outsiders, they are not.
8. Pick and choose.
In getting along, I especially like to find fault with you, you are not right, that is not right, there is no right place. Moreover, his attitude is by no means as simple as pointing out the problem, but a disgusted expression, a disgusted tone, and even insults you and kills you.
9. Love to answer and ignore it.
10. Always mention divorce.
A man who keeps shouting divorce from you really doesn't like you anymore, doesn't love you anymore, and even has no feelings for you, and wishes to end the relationship with you as soon as possible.
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In married life, there will inevitably be some problems and frictions between husband and wife. Among them, the husband's dislike of his wife is a relatively common problem. A husband's dislike of his wife may lead to negative emotions such as low self-esteem and frustration, and in severe cases, it may also affect the stability of the marital relationship.
So, what should a husband do when he dislikes his wife?
First of all, the wife needs to analyze the problem rationally and find out what the problem is. The wife should first ask herself, what is the reason why her husband dislikes her? Is it appearance, IQ, housekeeping ability, etc.?
These problems may be misunderstandings in the husband's mind or trivial matters in life, which need to be resolved through communication. In addition, the wife can also find some friends, family, psychologists and others to seek help and advice.
Second, the wife needs to communicate openly with her husband. The wife should sit down with her husband at the appropriate time and have a good talk so that he can talk about his thoughts and dislikes and find a solution to the problem. During the conversation, the wife should remain calm and rational and not react violently because of mood swings.
At the same time, the wife should also try to understand her husband's ideas from his point of view, empathize with him, and find a way to solve the problem.
Thirdly, the wife should try to improve herself. The reason why a husband dislikes his wife is often because of some problems, such as the wife's appearance, housekeeping ability, etc. Then, the wife can make some improvements in these aspects, such as going to the gym to exercise, learning more cooking skills, and so on.
By checking these improvements, you can not only make yourself better, but also let your husband get to know himself again, thus alleviating his dislike.
Finally, wives need to respect themselves. When a husband dislikes her, her wife can easily feel inferior and helpless. However, the wife needs to understand that each person is an individual with his or her own worth and dignity.
Wives need to learn to respect themselves, not to deny themselves because of their husband's dislike, and not to give up their dignity and freedom. At the same time, wives should also stick to their principles and positions and not change their thoughts and behaviors just by pandering to their husbands.
In short, when a husband dislikes his wife, the wife needs to calmly analyze the problem, actively seek solutions, try to improve herself, and maintain her dignity and independence. Through these efforts, wives can alleviate their husbands' feelings of disgust and also improve their own quality of life and happiness. Of course, in this process, both husband and wife need to have a tolerant and understanding heart in order to get through the difficult times in their married life together.
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Make a change. There are many reasons why a man dislikes his wife, such as being sloppy, not dressing up, and not having the financial ability to ,......And so on, are the reasons why men dislike their wives. Wives can make changes, such as being financially independent, working hard, and improving themselves to make themselves better.
That way you can get out of trouble.
First of all, let's talk about sloppy and don't dress up! After many women get married, they don't pay much attention to dressing themselves. Because he felt that he didn't need to beautify himself if he was married, he dressed casually and didn't pay attention to matching.
This is the wrong idea. Because a good image will make the other party appreciate you, and a sloppy appearance will make the other party hate you even more. Both men and women appreciate beautiful things, and they will dislike ugly things, so even if you are married, you must pay attention to the liquid will dress yourself, so that your husband can love you more and not peek at the wild flowers outside.
Next, let's talk about financial ability, women need to have financial ability at all times. Because financial ability makes a person more confident and does not have to rely on others. If you don't have financial means, then you will live a passive life.
For example, a friend I know is a stay-at-home mother with no financial income, and every month Tan Chunwu has to ask her husband for food, not only to keep her voice down, but also to quarrel with her husband. If she has the financial means, do she still have to ask for it in a low voice? Therefore, women must have financial means.
Even after having children, you need to have financial ability, because the stronger the financial ability, the more confident you will be.
So how can you have financial means?
That is work, if you have children to bring, you can do a side hustle, it can also increase your income and make yourself more confident. If you have confidence, you don't need to rely on men. I am not afraid that my husband will dislike me.
For example, a friend I know takes his work very seriously, and in order to maintain his financial ability, he also went to work when he was pregnant, and only asked for leave when he was born. After giving birth, I went to work again before the confinement was full. It can be seen how hard she works.
Her husband naturally listened to her, and never disliked her, because she said everything in the family, the money was in her hands, and her salary was quite high. That's why it's so important to have financial means.
In short, a man dislikes his wife, and his wife can make a change. There are many reasons why a man dislikes his wife, such as being sloppy, not dressing up, and not having the financial ability to ,......And so on, are the reasons why men dislike their wives. Wives can make changes, such as being financially independent, working hard, and improving themselves to make themselves better.
That way you can get out of trouble.
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