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We often say that marriage is the tomb of love, maybe it is true that some people's marriages will not become like this, after all, marriage and love are completely different definitions. Love is only a matter between two people, but marriage is different, it also involves two families, including all kinds of trivial things in life, marriage is to operate with heart to experience true happiness. Generally, there are several types of situations between husband and wife, and most of this marriage is irreparable.
When two people inevitably have disputes in life, a better solution at this time is for two people to calm down and solve the difficulties well, if you can't do this, then at least give each other some private space, but you also need to have the concept of solving problems, rather than blindly getting angry, impulsively play missing, which is completely naïve.
Two people in a marriage should be inseparable, have enough respect for each other, and must tolerate everything about each other in order for this kind of marriage to last. If you want the other party to look foreign in the marriage and make the other party ugly in public, then such a marriage will end eventually, and after all, the real marriage hopes that the other party will live well.
It is normal for couples with bad feelings to quarrel, but for those who no longer want to continue this marriage, there is nothing in this marriage that they can be nostalgic for, so they often say something very excessive, and even involve the other party's parents. And most of the phenomena after the quarrel are all cold violence, because there is no need to go to resolve the misunderstanding.
Sex is a very important element of maintaining a marriage, and if there is no sex between husband and wife, there is one less way to communicate feelings between two people, which is also not conducive to married life, and only those who are tired of the other party do not want to have sex with each other. This kind of marriage can be said to have come to an end long ago.
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Husbands and wives cannot always share with each other. Husbands and wives often have conflicts and have never resolved them.
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Not caring for each other, not understanding, not accommodating, often arguing, or using cold violence towards each other, this is a sign that the marriage has come to an end.
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Often quarrels, often go home with cold violence, the time is very late, often cold wars, deceive each other, if there are these manifestations of the marriage of the above two people, you will come to an end.
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If the husband and wife come to an end, it depends on how bad the relationship between the two people is, if they are in a bad state for a long time, there is almost no good time, and a very fixed and bad marriage impression has been formed, indicating that the relationship has been completely consumed. If there is a problem, but there are good times, it means that it is just blocked, and there may be room for recovery.
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Spy on each other, look for 'stubble', and make excuses for disintegration.
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Disgust, no common language, reluctance to communicate, want to divorce.
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The progress of the times has made us all mobile phone families! Naturally, we can't immediately complain about the way we deal with our mobile phones, after all, mobile phones do bring great convenience to our daily life. However, if a person comes back from work and still stares at his mobile phone to watch endlessly, he doesn't know how to communicate with you if there are things or problems.
When he chooses to ignore or pretend not to hear you, it's time for you to reflect on your married life! You have to figure out whether the mobile phone is more important to him than you in his eyes, consider your position in this family and his heart, and make a decision.
My best friend recently complained to me that she couldn't bear her husband anymore, and she would rather wander outside than go back to that home, and didn't want to look at that person more. The sake is very simple:
Both of them work, both have time to rest, but laundry, cooking, cleaning and hygiene, every housework is done by herself, and she is just a husband who doesn't help, not only despise her labor income, but will feel that it is what she should do, and sometimes she will be harsh on her to do it badly. Gradually, what the good girlfriend thinks is: don't worry so much about the husband and wife together, do a little more for yourself, pay a little more, nothing is nothing, as long as the husband is good to her, it is worth it to see that she pays, but the final outcome makes her collapse!
May I wonder, what reason do you have to keep such a marriage again?
People have feelings, and two people together must want to be affirmed, motivated, cared about, and concerned by the other party. In the past 100 years, they have been repaired in the same boat, and they have been repaired for thousands of years to sleep together, and it is not easy for two people to be together. However, after getting married, if two people are chatting together or mentioning some problems, and the other party ignores them and only leaves them perfunctory, they are actually keeping a guard against this marriage!
When two people have such a perfunctory thing, it shows that the other party's heart is no longer in you, and the heart is not there, how long can the home last?
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Two people have no common topic together, often quarrel, often cold war, do not communicate when they encounter problems, and complain to each other.
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If the couple rarely communicates with each other, has no topics for communication, and has little space to get along, it means that the marriage is coming to an end.
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Always find fault with each other A good marriage is the art of learning to be tolerant, while a bad marriage is constantly finding fault with each other. No matter what the other person does, you see not the advantages but the disadvantages.
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If your current mode of getting along is that you have a big quarrel every three days and a small quarrel every two days, even if it is a very daily thing, you can turn it into the beginning of a quarrel, and you will never live together calmly again, and this is okay.
Every quarrel will be brought up, and then the result of the divorce will be obtained, and I can't go for divorce immediately. Married life must be ordinary, after all, two people have to live an ordinary life together, not this kind of strong quarrel. Sometimes quarrels may be able to warm up the emotions of two people, so they can talk about the problem and vent their emotions, but the quarrels every day are abnormal, and it is difficult to persist in life.
The two of them rarely talk, and there is no main communication, and most of the time they are on their mobile phones, immersed in their own little world, and they are reluctant to come to this home. There are also very few common topics, and the only thing you can talk about together is children, as if only children are left between two people to keep, and in other cases it is like 2 passers-by.
That kind of married life in name only,No matter how you will not be happy,Although for the sake of the baby can be understood,But people always have to live for themselves once,If you are really unhappy,Maybe letting go is also a choice。
Nowadays, you can't even do three meals a day, home is already a home, the real home is all a warm harbor, no matter how tired you return home, you think it is very reassuring.
And your home today is only a vacant room, without a trace of ambient temperature, and the hotel is no different, if the home is not like a home, then your married life will not be too happy, happiness is only the surface, the real experience is only you yourself clearest. There is such a long time in this life, you can get used to life, but you can't let yourself be angry all the time, and that kind of life is just marginal hardship for yourself.
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Husband and wife never communicate in marriage, there are many contradictions that are not resolved, they always quarrel, they are entered into the marriage by a third party, and they no longer share and look at each other is always unpleasant, because they will blame each other for a little thing, they will never self-reflect, there is no body language, when there are these performances, it proves that the relationship between husband and wife is about to come to an end.
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Two people will become reticent, do not know how to communicate effectively, two people are particularly cold, deliberately keep a safe distance from each other, and will be very impatient to speak.
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Two people will be very indifferent to each other, they can't communicate and won't communicate, they often quarrel, and after the quarrel, they will have a cold war, and they will look at each other unpleasantly.
The first sign is that two people have no common language and never speak together, the second sign is that they are separated from each other and are not in the same room, the third sign is that they each live their own days and do not give money to each other, and the fourth sign is that the two people are already as plain as water, as if there is no other party, which means that your marriage has existed in name only.
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