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This issue needs to be analyzed objectively, and parents really want their children to do what they want, so that they feel at ease. However, it should also be based on the specific situation, in the case of immature conditions, parents should not be too anxious about their children's careers, parents' expectations or parents' anxiety, or influence the actions of their children, too detailed, not urgent, not helpful, and even have a negative effect, because their good intentions invisibly cause unnecessary pressure on their children, which is not good in this regard (I am telling parents that there is a bad side to doing this), and sometimes it even backfires. In fact, the current social situation is very different from before, children sometimes encounter unsolvable difficulties, they will arrange their life plans according to specific conditions, career success is naturally a major event in their life, but in the case of specific conditions do not allow, they can only do what they can do first.
If you are strongly prevented from falling in love by your parents, you should strengthen communication with them, put your own difficulties in telling them, and tell them all about your current situation and your future plans. I believe that your parents will eventually cooperate with you, and I wish you happiness!
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As long as they reach the legal age, they can fall in love legitimately, but there is also a reason for their parents' worries and hindrances, they must be people who have come over and know what should be necessary in life. Also understand that there are some things that you don't have. One is to have a self-inadequacy communication with the parents to see what the parents are worried about.
If it makes sense, then correctly examine your own shortcomings and correct them. The second is to listen to the opinions of parents, talk about how parents made choices in this regard, talk about what they considered in love or marriage in the way of consultation, and then talk about what you think now. Why is there such an idea, etc.
Love is the process that life should go through, and it is also the basis of a good marriage, I believe that with the correct communication with parents, parents will understand the child's heart, will give some answers, and help, and the child takes the initiative to communicate with the parents, will make parents think that you respect them, so they will also choose to respect some of the child's opinions.
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Try to tell the children that they should study first and find their own careers, and then consider these personal feelings, and then decide whether to communicate with the other parent or not, hoping to help you.
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20 is not small, it's normal to be in love!
Wouldn't it be nice to start falling in love at the age of 20 and get married two or three years later?
Such a big person knows what he is doing, and he knows what responsibilities he has ......If parents interfere, it seems a bit unreasonable!
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Let's not be too utilitarian. You finish your last meal, you're hungry, and then you're going to eat again, you can't say, you're still hungry, I'm not going to eat. When you fall in love, how can you talk about it once. You say yes.
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The 20s are also a period of youth rebellion, and now the society is not too young at the age of 20, the child likes to follow him, forcing him will have an impact on him, and the woman's parents will communicate with each other, I think, they will also accept it.
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Let it be, 20-year-old people are not small, and if they are strictly controlled, they will resist even more... It's time to fall in love.,Just tell him to be responsible for doing things.,Don't do things that you can't pay for yourself.。。。
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For your child, it's best to inform the other parent. If it can be the best in the future, then the two sides will not be too ugly, otherwise she will hide it from them at that time. On the one hand, let's find out what her parents think. I hope to adopt.
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When you decide that there is no such shop in this village!!
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I don't think it's right, there is no conflict between starting a business and falling in love, on the contrary, what can be handled well will do both of these things very well, try it?
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I can't tell, I want to start a business, but it's not that I don't want to fall in love, I just don't want to want to do it for the time being, I want to fight by myself, and I don't want to be swayed by emotions.
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I feel like I can't talk about it.
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It doesn't make sense. Love depends on fate, opportunity, and whether you take the initiative. There is no necessary connection with entrepreneurship.
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It's a kind of happiness to be able to work hard with the girl you love the most... Maybe she'll be able to give you encouragement when you're down.
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People's energy is limited, and it is difficult to start a business, and people are needed to support him.
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Definitely, impossible, think about it, how long is it until you get married, you are only 15, the married woman is at least 20 years old, and she has to wait for five years, these five years are not long, not short, he may change his mind, he may be tired of you, maybe you will find a lot of inappropriate places for each other, you may go your separate ways after graduation, and then it will be a long-distance relationship, how long do you think it can last?
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I'm a girl, I'll be 28 in two months, but I don't want to fall in love yet, let alone get married, I always feel that I haven't grown up, no different from 18 years old, I like to watch idol dramas, I like to watch cartoons! The job and income are stable, so I'm happy with my current life and don't want to change anything (and I haven't met anyone I like)!But the problem is, the people around are urging!
I envy those celebrities, who don't have to get married or get married late in their lives, and still live a chic life! And ordinary people are not! Do you have to get married and have children when you are old?
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Almost all people get married when they grow up, and there are exceptions.
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The impact of single parenthood is different for everyone, but it definitely has an impact, for example, in terms of a person's personality, living with his mother for a long time, his personality is less masculine than a man, and it is inevitable that there are only two people in the family for a long time, and it is not possible to have a backbone in a family without a father.
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Any influence is based on the innate intrinsic cause. The acquired external cause is supplementary. Single-parent families have a far less impact on children than people think.
You lost your father at the age of 15 and are psychologically mature. The effect is negligible: You think all the time that you are a single parent, and your children will give yourself negative psychological cues. There are too many word limits.
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I find that you are aware of the impact that single-parent families have on your way of looking at love and marriage, so I think it's not about what we say, but about how you can figure out how to solve the problem after you understand what the problem is, and the impact will vary from person to person. How do you know that a child in a two-parent family must be normal, right?
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If you are old enough to fall in love, why not care about the girl's father as if he were your father.
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Grow up, one is the age group! I think it's about twenty years old! Another thing I think is in terms of experience, the more you have experienced, the more you will naturally grow up and mature!
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