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People who think too much and think too complicated usually have the following personality traits:
2.Overthinking: This type of person often regrets that he should not have done it in the first place, and that he should have done it, and thus fell into negative emotions and could not extricate himself.
3.Lack of purpose: This kind of person usually does not have a strong sense of purpose, and even if they set a goal for themselves, they are easily attracted by other things in the middle.
4.Fragile personality: This type of person is easily moved and easily instigated. The tear point is low, the psychological defense line is weaker, more fragile, and easy to collapse.
5.Critical thinking: This kind of person is more suspicious, has a critical thinking that ordinary people do not have, is good at questioning common sense, and is not willing to follow the rules.
6.Strong empathy: This kind of person has a heavier emotional thinking, and it is easy to fall into negative emotions and find it difficult to extricate themselves.
7.People-pleasing personality: This kind of person puts others before himself and does not dare to say "no" to others easily. Accustomed to pleasing others, good at thinking from the perspective of others, thinking too much, lest you take care of yourself.
In conclusion, people who think too much and think too complicated are not necessarily people with character defects, they may just need to manage their emotions and thinking better.
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Thinking too much, thinking about everything is complicated, so that people's personality is basically introverted, they don't like to talk too much, and they think too much in their heads. Extroverts love to talk and think less, introverts don't like to talk, love to think about simple things complicated, and think too much about the bad mentality. Think about it, don't think about it, don't think about it.
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People who think too much and think too complicated, this type of person is generally more introverted.
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Generally, people who think too much are either indecisive, or have anxiety disorders and have a weak personality. There are also some people who have some social problems or difficulties or hindrances due to some major changes, and they tend to become very hesitant to think about some issues.
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Introverted people have a more delicate mind and a rich imagination.
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People who think too much, such people are generally cautious.
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I am such a person, and it is also because there are such people around me, who are affected, and in the final analysis, they are affected by the environment.
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People who think too much are more likely to be anxious and easily affected by the emotions of others.
Moderate thought and planning are necessary when dealing with problems, but if you spend too much time thinking about it, it is likely to cause more pain. When something goes wrong, the mood is already affected, and concentrating on the unpleasant things for a long time will only make the mood worse and more anxious.
If you find yourself overthinking, tell yourself to stop. You also have to realize that it's useless to think like this, and you must jump out. You can replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts, and try to let positive images take over your mind by portraying and imagining things going for the better.
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In fact, as long as you accept that the scope of human control is limited, it is fine.
Man has a desired range of control and a realistic range of control. No matter how much a person wants to control, his experience and ability are limited, so there is a limit to the range of control. Let's draw two circles between the range we want to control and the range we can actually control.
If the actual control range is completely within the desired control range, and the desired control range is only a little larger than the actual control range, this is good and healthy.
If you want to control much more than you actually do, it can make people uneasy, suspicious, and frustrated.
If you want the scope of control to be completely non-overlapping with the actual scope of control, people are crazy.
I think it should be.
You want the scope of control to be much larger than you actually are.
Secondly, your life is limited and you need to weigh the trade-offs, and you didn't have much of a trade-off about the scope of control before. There are some things that you can control, but you can give up control of this range in order to reach more important goals.
There are some things that you can't control at all, and if you have to control them, then it's against nature. For example, you can never control other people's thoughts.
You give up some control, and instead you have more control over the core goal. This is wisdom.
Suspicious people are often insecure and intolerant of other people's coldness and arguments. However, as the saying goes, "No one says behind anyone, and no one says anything in front of him."
In the workplace, it is very normal to be suspected and discussed, especially after a promotion. Therefore, for some rumors or doubts in the workplace, you should treat them correctly, suggest that you should not be bothered by other people's gossip, and do not be too careful, so as to relieve yourself. In addition, you can also use facts to dispel the suspicion of the other party, such as when you are suspected of your ability to work, you can dispel the suspicion of others with excellent work performance.
Everyone has low self-esteem, and the inferiority complex mentioned here means that if people want to improve, they must jump out of the status quo at that time, and if they want to change the environment at that time, they must get rid of the inferiority complex in that situation. If you stay in this state of inferiority complex for a long time, people will develop feelings of tension and anxiety. Psychologist Adler explained that inferiority complex is a kind of inferiority complex produced by people, which is a kind of feeling for self, and is a complex emotional and psychological state formed because he has not achieved the expected goal or failed to satisfy his potential desires.
The reason for this psychology is the irrational judgment of oneself.
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Suspicious people will have some extreme personalities, and it is best to stay away from them when getting along with this kind of person, because it may endanger life, and getting along will be dull, so that he feels that you have no sense of existence.
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Suspicious people are very cautious in doing things, and it is difficult to reveal their hearts to others, and if you want to get along with this kind of person, you must give the other party a certain sense of security, so that he can trust himself.
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A person thinks more, in fact, it means that he is a more thoughtful person, this kind of person generally has some unique ideas about things, so that his style of doing things will become more and more serious, more and more careful, this kind of person attaches more importance to life, and also attaches great importance to their own quality of life, so they have some different personalities in life, and also have some different ideas of their own. A person thinks more, so the person who thinks more carefully, so there will be a lot of ideas in life, and there will be a lot of novel inventions, this kind of person should do his own things completely, so that he can make his career and life better and better.
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This kind of person will probably live a very careful life, if you want to get along with this kind of person, we must be sincere, do not deceive them.
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Some people think too much because they have the ability to take into account the overall situation and consider it comprehensively, some people think too much because they have too many eyes, and some people are simply full of food and support.
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Some people believe that human nature is inherently good, so they always think that the world is beautiful and there are very few bad people. And some people have seen too much evil, so they firmly believe that the world is the inherent evil of human nature, and they are not afraid to speculate on others with the worst thoughts. SoZodiac signsWho are some of them who always think of people as complicated?
Taurus: Believe that human nature is inherently evil.
Human nature is inherently evil and human nature is inherently good, two completely different points of view. Taurus will choose the latter, they have always insisted on the inherently evil of human nature, and many people will expose their true selves in the face of great interests. Peacetime is nothing more than a disguise, because it does not involve harming one's own interests.
But when it comes to themselves, many people become extremely vicious.
Leo: Protect yourself.
Leo is a very defensive person, as long as they are new to each other, they will think of each other in a complicated way, thinking that the other person may have some plans. In fact, the reason why Leo thinks this way is to protect himself from harm. As the saying goes, people's hearts are unpredictable, and many times people who look kind can also do cruel things.
So without knowing each other, Leo will still think badly.
Scorpio : Someone has hurt you.
Scorpios only need to be hurt once, and they will not trust the other person. This is also the reason why they are always suspicious of people. Because Scorpio has been hurt, he knows that his blind trust and thinking too simple of others are harming himself.
So when they have been hurt, they will think very complicated about the people who are close to them, so that they will not be blinded.
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Dear landlord, I'm glad to answer your questions True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), and worry about him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, and when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), and you will be happy when you see it.
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Although it is said that people have no long-term worries, but people who often think too much about their lives are not too ideal, and secondly, they have too much free time.
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There are many kinds of thinking too much, there is a lack of concentration and thinking too much about everything, this kind of creativity is relatively strong, and there is inspiration anytime and anywhere.
Some have a high IQ, because they can see more, so they think more.
Some are insecure, afraid of losing a little thing, and feel how the other person is.
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The living environment from childhood, the family relationship mode.
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People always think:
From simple to complex.
From low to high, count this level.
It's the law of nature!
Man cannot be divorced from nature.
People are more eager to be strong.
So I learned to evolve and think in adaptation.
So the simple becomes more complicated
I don't know that I was also conquered when I conquered his potato brothers
I didn't know that paramecium, a single-celled organism, could also enjoy itself!
Gradually, I forgot the complicated reasons
So the crowd of people
So the greedy people
So people with low self-esteem (in order to cover themselves).
It's getting more and more complicated!
So there is hypocrisy in the opinion of the landlord
In fact, hypocrisy is not terrible.
What is terrible is to run away from hypocrisy
Just listen with your heart.
Maybe he is very good at covering up and hypocritical enough, but he must believe that only people with a heart can do things with a heart!
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