Can we only tolerate people who are calculating?

If there are such people around, it will be very uncomfortable

But such a person is generally a person who is very afraid of losing He doesn't mean to be careful, but he can't control himself, he always wants to hold on to everything, he is afraid that loss will bring more loss, and he can't grasp the scale well Such people are generally more sensitive, not only materially, but also spiritually

Actually, it's a very poor person, isn't it?

I used to be such a person, even to the point of being harsh I think when I first entered the college dormitory, I must have disgusted my sisters, but I was so slow that I didn't notice it

Therefore, if it is inevitable to get along with such a person for a long time, it is better to treat him sincerely, and even find more advantages in him It's not impossible, right, because everyone has advantages, isn't it?

When a person perceives the kindness of others, he or she will unconsciously become cute

If it is a loved one, there is only tolerance; If it's a stranger, learn to be more calculating than he is.

If it is a loved one, there is only tolerance;

You are unkind, I am unjust, you still take care to show him, let him know this feeling.

yes, what else? Despise it and stay away.

It's better to stay away from that kind of person, because there's nothing to be nostalgic about.

Helpless!! I hate this kind of person the most!

The eye of the heart is as small as the eye of a needle.

I want to be flat when I see it!!

He is annoyed when he looks at this kind of person.

See why he cares.

In life, we often encounter some people who care too much about small interests and ignore relative losses. In the face of this kind of person, my way of dealing with it is as follows:

1.Communicate rationally. First of all, it is necessary to rationally analyze the possible drawbacks of this behavior, and communicate with them, so that they can understand the pros and cons, and look at the problem from a more comprehensive and objective perspective. If they can realize that their behavior is inappropriate, then the problem is solved.

2.Put yourself in their shoes. If rational analysis and communication are ineffective, then we can put ourselves in their shoes and understand why they are overly concerned about small interests.

It may be that life is too stressful, and the financial situation is not good, and you need to be concerned about expenses all the time. Such an understanding can keep our emotions from being overly angry or contemptuous.

3.Avoid connivance and warn. We still can't condone some behavior that is too vexatious.

Clear warnings can be given to let them know that this behavior is not socially acceptable and that they may be punished more severely if continued. The intensity of the warning should be appropriate and not excessive.

4.Maintain your own positive energy. No matter what kind of people and things we face, the first thing we need to do is to maintain our positive energy and sanity.

Don't let other people's negative emotions and behaviors affect our standard of judging things. Use our own values to the world, and use our own reason and emotions to perceive others.

It is inevitable that you will encounter all kinds of blind people in life. But the only thing we can control is our emotions and attitudes. Understand the world with reason and love, and infect and change the world with positive energy.

Life is enriched by meeting different people, and we must learn to tolerate and influence. This is a process of mutual understanding and mutual training, and finally reaching the realm of common progress in life.

We meet and understand each other in this pluralistic society, and we have the power to change. Maintain your original intention and dye the world with love and reason, this is something that everyone can do, and it is also the most urgent need of this era.

For people who are too calculating, here are a few things to try:

1.Understand their psychology: Careful people tend to be especially sensitive to details, and they may have overly demanding demands that everything be perfect. Understanding their psychological state of failure can reveal the reasons behind their actions and develop a better response plan.

2.Patient contact: When dealing with people who are scheming, you need to be patient and stay gentle and rational, try to suppress negative emotions and complaints, and actively seek solutions to problems.

3.Give enough information: Careful people usually care about every detail in order to make a better choice. Therefore, if you work with such people or colleagues, giving them enough details can help them make better decisions.

4.Point out bad influences: When their calculations start to affect other people or projects, point them out appropriately and make them aware that their actions will have a bad impact on those around them.

5.Practical rationalization: Use clear communication at the right time to try to rationalize details that make what they thought was a problem less important.

In short, understanding that people are clever and communicating properly is the key to reducing their impact.

Summary. Hello, classmates! The meaning of the pound and the pound: that is, seriously, the scale is the fairest, if the person is the one who should be careful, should not be careful, should be treated calmly, this scale must be grasped well, in order to find the most right!

Just take care of it.

Hello, classmates! The meaning of the pound and the pound: that is, seriously, the scale is the fairest, if the person is the one who should be careful, should not be careful, should be treated calmly, this scale must be grasped well, in order to find the most right!

Pound and pound: Pound and pound meaning: clear and subtle; By extension, trivial.

Think about the little things. Now it is a metaphor for overthinking the trivial or trivial. Idiom source:

The Book of Poetry Zhou Song Zhijing": "Since he has become healthy, there are four directions, and he is bright." ”

Jin Jin: Describe the discernment, and by extension, trivial and small.

Calculating: Paying too much attention to things that don't matter.

From]: "The Book of Poetry, Zhou Song, Zhijing": "Since he has become healthy, there are four directions, and he is bright." ”

Example]: As for the "bitterness" in the dream, according to my amateur opinion, after all, it is the "bitterness" in the dream, and it is not necessary.

Do you first look at what it means to be careful, and then conclude that you have behaved like this? If there is, it will be changed, and if it is not, it will be encouraged. But I think that in the real world, real people, there are some things that must be "taken care of", and brothers have to settle accounts, don't they?

Also, don't care too much about other people's opinions, you are who you are, and because of this, you appear unique, as the so-called "go your own way, let others say go." (But only if the road is legal.)

No one can do everything As long as not all your classmates say that, you can do it Friends must be graded Good friends don't need too many Brothers 2-3 is enough! Don't talk about it, but keep it in mind! So, don't worry too much about it.

It's just a trivial matter, so don't talk about it, so that your classmates won't say that you are careful.

You ask this question, and football proves that you are a careful eye and care about what other people think.

Everything should be considered for gain and loss.

A lot of people say that, and that's probably the case.

[Explanation]: Jin Jin: Describe the clear inspection, and extend it to trivial and small. Ignore only the inconsequential.

From]: "The Book of Poetry, Zhou Song, Zhijing": "Since he has become healthy, there are four directions, and he is bright." ”

Example]: As for the "bitterness" in the dream, according to my amateur opinion, after all, it is the "bitterness" in the dream, and it is not necessary. (Zhu Ziqing, "Talking Dreams").

synonyms]: Baht must be compared.

Antonyms]: magnanimous, uncaring.

Grammar]: more formal; as a predicate, a definite; Derogatory.

Jin Jin: Describe the discernment, and by extension, trivial and small. Refers to being overly concerned about things that don't matter.

Pronunciation: jīn jīn jì jiào

Source: "The Book of Poetry, Zhou Song, Zhijing": "Since he has become healthy, there are four directions, and he is clear." ”

Explanation: Jin Jin: Describe the discernment, and by extension, trivial and small. Refers to being overly concerned about things that don't matter.

Usage: more formal; as a predicate, a definite; Derogatory.

Example: Lu Xun's "Hesitation Brothers": "I really don't understand why my own brothers are like this, isn't it the same horizontally and vertically? ”

synonyms]: Baht must be compared.

Antonyms]: magnanimous, uncaring.

Afterword: Brothers divide up and fight for spoons; Buying and selling on the board.

Lantern riddle: scales; Weightlifting competitions.

Getting along with others is based on friendship. When people get along with each other, we inevitably have contradictions and conflicts that we don't anticipate. When getting along with friends, family, society, etc., so as to avoid scheming with other people's verbal quarrels, I will introduce my own experience and methods!

1. When there is a small conflict with others, you should first stand in the perspective of others and deeply experience how others feel?

2. When you have a conflict with others, the responsibility lies with yourself and no longer with others, even if others think that you are wrong, you can't spit dirty words or even say something that hurts the self-esteem of others, which is very immoral, Confucius stressed; "Benevolence", "Etiquette". I'm sure you'll understand!

3. When the fault lies with others, due to the conflict at that time, both parties are very excited, so they should be calm and calm, and wait until the mood calms down, and then communicate with each other.

4. When encountering some trivial things, there is no need to take it to heart, there is no meaning, there is no need to "care", sometimes people need tolerance, sometimes they just need silence.

To sum up the above, friend, will you still "care"? I don't know if what I said is what you want? You didn't make it clear! So just by feeling! I don't know if that's right! Hehe! Hope you do!

Weighing and scheming are entangled.

What's the matter? Do you want me to explain the word?