My pregnant husband doesn t take care of me, has he changed his mind?

Updated on healthy 2024-07-04
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Yes. You have his flesh and blood in your belly, I don't care about you, it's too cold-blooded if you don't even take care of the child, you are a father in vain, a husband in vain, it is estimated that his heart is no longer here with you, it is recommended to make plans as soon as possible.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can think about it in other ways, maybe he will take care of you in other ways, if you are really not at ease, you can sit down with him and talk to see the other person's attitude.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You can't think like this, some men won't take care of women, if he has never taken care of you, then he is used to it, and he has not changed his mind.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, don't be angry and cold, it's not good for the fetus, and then communicate with your husband, why he doesn't take good care of you who are pregnant, maybe he has a reason, maybe he has a bad job recently, and there are a lot of troubles, so he didn't pay attention to take care of you, so that you feel sensitive. If there is anything that husband and wife can't say, if there are any contradictions, they can sit down and talk about it together, and the problems will be piled up in their hearts to make the relationship between the two people crack. Maybe he is busy with how to make money, after all, there is a little life coming, raising a child is not easy, he may be busy to give you and the unborn child a better life and ignore you a little, originally this pregnant woman is more sensitive, hoping to get a particularly good care, maybe your husband just a little bit of neglect of you, you feel uncomfortable, this you have to reflect on yourself.

    If you obviously feel that your husband has a problem, he just doesn't want to take care of you who is pregnant, and only cares about eating and having fun, then you don't have to be cold, no matter what, don't get along with yourself, you take care of yourself, there will be a child with you in the future, will take care of you, think more about the child, you have a cute little life in your belly growing up, so that you won't feel so cold, there is nothing that can't be overcome.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Empathize, sisters hug one! But I want to use the identity of a person who has come before to tell you that you should tell him more about your thoughts, tell him what kind of special care you need during pregnancy, and don't imagine that he is an obstetrician and gynecologist who will know how to take care of a pregnant woman, he is really not, men are tenacious people.

    Women during pregnancy will be particularly sensitive, will be infinitely amplified because of a little thing, and then secretly sad, professional knowledge will say that this is because of some physiological changes in pregnant women, resulting in some psychological imbalance! When I first found out I was pregnant, he quickly found out, but he didn't give me any special care.

    In the early stages of pregnancy, I had a cold and throat inflammation, and I didn't dare to take medicine indiscriminately, so I had to endure it. Coupled with severe morning sickness, it really feels like life is worse than death every day. But what about him, playing games, football, and dinner, I was very cold at that time, why didn't he want to think about the sick pregnant wife he left at home.

    I felt terrible, what would I get in exchange for such a dedication? Will it be that after the child is born, he will also take care of the child at home, and he will be at ease outside? Will it be that in the future, when I work day and night for the child, he will continue to play his games like a shopkeeper?

    Will he say that I deserve it when I become a yellow-faced woman in the future?

    A little bit of something really happens to a pregnant woman, and she can spread her mind and fantasize about a whole lot of miserable worlds. People can't stand it, and I'm even more so, so after coming and going, I got angry and asked him: What kind of existence am I in his heart.

    He was so confused by my question that he didn't know what I was talking about.

    After calming down, I told all my chills and anxieties, and he realized his dereliction of duty, and only then did he begin to pay attention to some precautions during pregnancy and learn to give me some special care. Then you are the same, as a pregnant woman, don't fantasize about yourself, if you have an idea, just say it, communication is definitely the best solution.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Not all men can be as careful as dust, and some men are born with the kind of people who are rough and leafy, who can't take care of people and don't know how to look at their eyes. I don't even know why it's upset. You've said that he doesn't take good care of you, not that he doesn't take care of you at all.

    When you think he is not active enough, you can command him appropriately, say what he wants to eat, say that his son wants to eat, and when he wants to rest, say that his son is sleepy. Regardless of whether a son or daughter is born in the future, he should first cultivate him with the cognition of being a father.

    It is not easy for a woman to conceive for ten months, she will crave the care and love of others more than usual, you can rely on him as much as possible, and if he is not willing to do it, you can pretend that you want to do it yourself, and you have to show that you are working hard. A man with a conscience will be a little soft-hearted. Instead of secretly hiding and being unhappy, don't make a big fuss and be angry with yourself.

    When you are pregnant, your resistance is poor and you are prone to illness, in fact, no matter how others take care of you, there will be times when you are dissatisfied, when your body has negative energy, how can your mood be better. The more you do this, the more you have to find something to do that makes you happy, such as taking him along to buy some baby supplies, even if it is convenient to buy online or someone to accompany you, change the goal to let him accompany you personally. There are some things that he is more involved in, so he will naturally take care of you a little more.

    Maybe he's just comparing"Mune"Don't think about the reasons why he doesn't love you enough and doesn't care enough about you. If you want to relieve your bad mood, you are already pregnant with his child, and no matter how bad the relationship is, you can't embarrass yourself and your baby.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Me too, but I'm just as happy, because my husband will leave us as a last resort, and if he doesn't go out and stays with us all the time, where will he get the income.

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