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Many women are shouting about self-discipline, they hope to change their image through self-discipline, some hope to improve their comprehensive ability and charm through self-discipline, but for women, the real high-level self-discipline should be to give up, only when women have the ability to let go, there is the highest self-discipline.
The most direct manifestation of detachment is to clean up your space, you can do a regular cleaning, discard what you don't use, and reorganize what you still need, in this way, the environment you live in will be refreshed, which will increase your motivation, not when cleaning things up, you can also have some memories and reflections on the past, if you find yourself a very sloppy person when cleaning up, try to make changes, if you are hesitant to clean up, throw away or donate things you don't need, if a woman wants to be self-disciplined, You have to learn to give up, and the first step in giving up is to give up your material life, not to miss what you need.
Emotional manifestations should not dwell on the past, should not live in the present, but only look to the future, many women have a common problem, and that is that they want to miss the past, when a woman first finds out about a relationship, she usually likes to compare herself to her recent love experience, or when she breaks up, she still misses each other, since women are always more sensitive and indecisive, women have to be self-disciplined, and they have to learn to let go of unnecessary feelings, you know, due to not being together in the end, This means that the fate of two people has not yet come, and there is no need to be too nostalgic for the past, and when you meet a new relationship, there is no need to compare it with the past, because there can be no two completely similar loves in the world, you just need to enjoy the love of the moment.
Women with real strength have achieved "refusal"! For women, the highest level of self-discipline is to give up, if a woman can learn to give up, then your own living space will be quieter, your own life will have more happy times, this will make your mind clearer, women can be nostalgic, but not outdated. If you are always swayed by the past, you may often be sentimental, and out of ten unhappy things, there are nine things that a woman must always look at one or two, live in the moment, look forward to and live out what she truly enjoys.
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Knowing the meaning, that is, a woman in this man, if the man does not cherish herself, she must be able to give up and leave the other party decisively, there should be no involvement, and there should be no concern.
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In fact, the meaning of this is to let people be able to afford to let go, and not to be entangled in the past, everything goes naturally, so that life is more meaningful.
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In fact, it is to be able to afford to put it down, and for those who have no meaning in life and exist, they should also let go and choose to forget as soon as possible.
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Know, that is, when necessary, the relationship that should be broken should be broken, what should be abandoned should be discarded, and when it is time to divorce, do not hesitate.
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1. "Breaking away" is a kind of life attitude, which means cutting off and abandoning those things that are not necessary, inappropriate, and outdated, and cutting off attachment to them, so that you can live a simple and refreshing life after "breaking away".
2, "Breaking Away" comes from Eiko Yamashita of Japan.
He is the author of the book "Breaking Away".
The book mainly tells about the concept introduced by Eiko Yamashita, a Japanese miscellaneous goods management consultant: cutting off means not buying and not charging what you don't need. Giving up is the same as disposing of useless things that are piled up at home.
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