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In recent years, renunciation has always been a concept sought after by people, but do you really know what Sakura sells to disconnect from?
In the book "Breaking Away", Eiko Yamashita clarifies the threefold meaning of breaking away for us. Breaking away from the reality is not only discarding the old things, it also has the three meanings of "cutting off" material desires, "abandoning" old things, and getting rid of "leaving" obsessions, and more directly, it means not to easily start things, let go of things that are not needed, and achieve the circulation and metabolism of people, things, and things. Its ultimate goal is to awaken the breath of life in the long river full of a sense of isolation.
The first part delves into the reasons why we can't let go.
The catfish trapped in the mouth of the silt of the sink: It is difficult to break - material surplus, consumer society, preferential discount products, ** products emerge in an endless stream, and salesmen flicker. Can't give it up:
It's so wasteful, it's really troublesome, and I can't give up this idea because I always use it. If our life is a tank where catfish live, then that's how the sink becomes congested.
We live in an age where "things seep into our living space at will".
The main reasons why I like to stock up and can't give it up: 1The flood of goods in a consumer-oriented society is the physical cause of over-manufacturing and over-rapid circulation. 2.Insufficient consideration of living space. 3.Values of the last era.
The deep-seated reason for not tidying up Qi Kai is a stubborn "material axis" thinking.
When we complain that we can't find things, that our homes are too narrow, it's actually a microcosm of material excess. The real reason behind this is that the "material axis" thinking refers to the fact that when we are confronted with "matter", we start from whether this thing can be used or not, rather than from whether we need it or not. This mindset has led us to store a lot of things that we can use but don't need.
We are depressed because of excessive anxiety.
The first step in renunciation is the awareness of internal self-reflection, the removal of the consciousness of self-blame, and the listening of the inner voice.
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117. Happiness, the first step to success, starts from changing yourself.
118、.In the cycle of life, the four seasons alternate, there are not only the bright spring light of the purple and red, the grass grows and the warbler flies, but also the cold winter when the silver is wrapped in ten thousand trees and withered, and all creatures adjust their way of life with the rotation of the seasons.
119、.In the spring of life, we can fully enjoy the warm spring breeze and warm sunshine.
120、.When the objective environment cannot be changed, change your own concept and learn to be flexible, so that you can walk out of a road to success in a desperate situation.
121、.Life is like a river that does not turn and meander in order to overcome the lofty mountains and mountains, gather hundreds of rivers, and become a great current. The true meaning of life is to realize, not to pursue, to face the real environment, to know how to turn and grow, rather than to hit and avoid.
122、.The mountains are silent, they have their own majestic self, the flowing water is not stopped, and they are smart and calm, and they are upright and upright, which is the characteristic of the mountain; When it meets a stone, it is divided, and when it meets a waterfall, it is the personality of water. Water can pass through stones, and mountains can block water.
The mountains have the wonderfulness of the mountains, the water has the beauty of the water, and the mountains are surrounded by water, and the water surrounds the mountains, which is the beautiful scenery of the world.
123. There is no need to be demanding of the United States, the gap in life is where the light comes in.
124. If you constantly strive for perfection and deeply blame yourself for doing wrong or not meeting the standards of perfection, then you will live with guilt for the rest of your life.
125、.People who are overly demanding of perfection are often accompanied by great anxiety, frustration and depression.
126、.Leave a way for your heart to spread, don't hate yourself for being imperfect, and don't blame yourself for your momentary mistakes.
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