No job, no income, should I continue to be with him or should we go our separate ways? 5

Your essence is that you want to have a husband who loves you and loves you, but your fault is that you can't support him. You're working hard, but he's endlessly addicted to the Internet. As long as he goes out to apply for a local job, it is not difficult to find, the key is that you are reluctant to let him out.

To take the liberty of saying it, are you looking for a significant other who you can rely on, or do you have a son of your age? If this state of affairs continues, I don't think it will do you both any good, and your life will only get harder and harder in the future.

You're going to have to force him.

You tell him, three months, give you three months, you have to find a job, even if it's to set up a stall, you have to find something to do.

Can't sit idle all day and play games.

If he gets a job after three months, you can continue. If you can't find it, break up.

Be formal and firm when you say it.

If he really tries to do it, you can give him another chance after three months.

If he hasn't worked hard for the past three months, it will be like that for the rest of his life, and it will be useless for you to persuade and force.

Then you really have to leave him for a while, and when you leave him, you give him some more time, ask him to work hard, and you will come back when he is done. If it doesn't work anymore, let's take this opportunity to separate.

I can't help but go on like this. Didn't save him.

Long-distance relationship is very uncomfortable, every day can only rely on ** to maintain this relationship, if you don't fight, people who don't have firm beliefs are easy to break up, I personally think it's better to be together...

This varies depending on the personality of the person, some people think that distance will produce beauty, but some people think that distance will give the junior a chance, so there is no sense of security. But more often than not, they will choose to give up for each other and be together. So if you don't want to give up, you can only say that your personality is more selfish, and everything is suitable is the most important thing.

There is no perfect thing, each has its own good, but you are too entangled in this matter.

No one can say anything about feelings, but if you are together every day, you will be awkward, and the distance will produce beauty, so that each other will have more concern in your hearts, but it depends on whether you really love each other.

The relationship will become weaker and weaker, and even deteriorate.

The key between two people is to understand each other, and they don't care if they are together all the time, and their sincerity to others is to give, not to ask or take.

The long-distance relationship is unstable and easy to crack.

Then divorce and live alone.

If that's really the case, but I don't want to leave, I want to go to work, I don't want to stay every day, because I see that you are too tired, but I am playing every day, if I go to work and have my own children, I will not go to work, take care of the children at home, and go to work more or less without your money, just do it, because you get up very early every day, at half past five, looking at me distressed, I want to go to work because I want to finish this year, and I will be with you next year.

Don't want a boy like this.

There are thousands of sons and daughters of China, and they are replaced.

It's okay to relax your heart and be a friend.

It's nothing, just do your own thing, just be friends3

Divide! Sooner or later you won't be able to take it anymore!

You can be blunt with him about your concerns and demands, and first of all, both of you can try to make concessions and see if you can improve the situation after all, you count him as a friend

There are too many such people in life, learn to tolerate it, whether it is pretending to be forced or not, as long as it doesn't hurt you.

You can hate it in your heart, don't show it, what he does is his business, you just know it in your heart, after all, you are together, you are in the same field, it is inconvenient to be alone, bear it if you can, at least until you establish a new and reliable circle of friends.

Pretend to be forced by others and ignore him, pretend to be forced to yourself, and even beat him if he violates your bottom line in some places, and beat him hard at once.

Since they are friends, character flaws can be endured or run-in, and no one is perfect.

Each goes his own way, and each has a different way.

If you love him, you will be with him, but you don't have to be together all the time, Tianchang is a vertical party in the world; Wouldn't it be better to still love each other! (The main thing is to check the physical strength and test whether he has loved you or not).

There is no fate, maybe he has a moment of self-esteem, and he will find you again tomorrow.

Love should be like this in the end, bless each other, even if they can't be together, I hope each other will have a good life, and it will not be in vain for the two to truly love each other.

A good attitude is to treat yourself well, and arranging yourself is the best explanation to your relatives, and I wish you peace and happiness.

If you want to open a point, I also just broke up.

People here can't help, so it's better to calm down and think about it.

Although his father is against it for no reason, your boyfriend's character will not be very bad, and he will be very sympathetic to your thoughts after reading your story.

But you can see that you do think too highly of yourself.

If you love your boyfriend, you have to understand his feelings, and you have to know what he is thinking in his heart.

Because I'm also a woman, I also live in my house.

But for this, I never mentioned my word, because I was afraid that he would have low self-esteem, and after marriage, I can't mention that the house is yours, because many similar words will lead to divorce, it's not that I'm talking about you, if you really love him, you have to help him build confidence, otherwise, he will not be able to raise his head for the rest of his life.

Actually, I think his father was thinking about this too, right?

If you don't love him very much, it's better to find another love, otherwise your heart will be unbalanced for a lifetime, in fact, you don't have to complain that he is not as good as you, if you find someone else, he may also find an excellent one.

Hehe, I'm sure many people will tell you to break up with him, because from your perspective and ideas, he is indeed very wrong and very useless.

But that's just your point of view, and of course, you can't say it from his point of view, because you're not him, you don't know what he thinks, you don't know why he's the way he is, you don't know what the outcome of your wait looks like, you don't know what kind of decision to make.

Problems and things that have been going on for a long time make you subconsciously not know what to do about this matter now.

If it were me, I would make up my mind, I would tell him, let him see this article you are posting now, and then he would say, this is the last hope, (I don't want to look forward to the unknown light in the dark, because my time has reached a situation where I can't wait).

Of course, it's your business, you should remove the rest of your article and show him, which can be regarded as giving yourself and him one last chance. It can also be seen that he is really in his heart.

It's a waste of time to wait like this, and it's even more unpleasant to break up for no reason because you can't wait, and I'm sure if you break up with him without saying anything now, he may still blame you a little. Even if it's a breakup, you have to let him know clearly, and if he thinks your opinion is wrong, he will definitely tell you his opinion after reading it.

Let your family get out of the house, pay for the wedding, give them a little bride price, and don't forget to decorate the house and buy some furniture by the way.

People are very affordable now, and at this time it is the woman who is vulnerable.

His family is asking for it.

How can he get married if he has no money??

Let your house and everything be out Then recruit him a son-in-law and it's over, you directly say this to your mother in ** Hell if you want to fart.

Personally, I think that if something goes wrong, it's the responsibility of two people.

First of all, you are really putting pressure on him, for example, you often say "I", your salary is so high, can you not tell him that you have that much salary? If you are weak, it is better for a woman to be weak, and if she is strong, she will suffer a loss. It's just that it's good to pretend that it's okay, and you can't make up your mind, so let him help you get the idea, etc.

Secondly, I feel that he is more cowardly, and I personally think that if he loves you enough and wants to be with you, he will definitely do his father's ideological work.

I suggest you talk to his mom and dad privately about what his dad doesn't like you or because of him. If he doesn't do it, you do it yourself.

Your happiness is in your hands!

You're 26 years old, and women can't afford to wait any longer!!

Men are like this, if the woman is stronger than himself, he will feel that he is under a lot of pressure, he is very useless, he is eating soft rice, although you don't mind, but you will still hurt him intentionally or unintentionally.

This is also the reason why many strong women can't find a partner.

In fact, one sentence is good: a woman is virtuous if she is not talented. Since you are very good in your career, you can listen to his opinions more in the family, think more about him, and be a little bird.

Since I have been with him for six years, I should actually consider marrying him, why is he dragging it, or because you are better than him, he can't get over it psychologically, communicate with him more. There is a notion that men are stronger than women and it is natural that women are stronger than men, and it is 、、. that women are stronger than men

In fact, you can buy a book on this subject to take a look, the above is more comprehensive, and there are many solutions.

Hehe, I suggest that you cut through the mess quickly, really.

I've been in your situation, but I'm luckier than that, we've only been talking for half a year, really, if you really come together with him against all odds.

You're going to have a lot of fights in the future.

People talk about persuasion and don't persuade them to leave

But I think it's for your happiness.

When you're together, you're going to let him everywhere, and in their house, you don't have any status at all, even though you're on better terms than him

You're going to be miserable, you're going to be very aggrieved

Really, what's on your mind, can you talk to me, hehe, I'm 24 years younger than you, but I'm married, hehe

I've been in love a lot, hehe, I've had a lot of experience, Sissy

This kind of thing looks uncomfortable, a good relationship at this time has produced some variables, life always gives people a lot of problems, I hope you can firmly move forward together, don't give up!

My suggestion:1Hide your income, don't tell him how much money your family spent to buy a house, don't think that you have to be worthy of you, you can tell him that this is money borrowed from your family, and hope that we will work together to return it to the family when the economy is better.

2.His family's affairs, you can not think about it first, as long as he likes you and really wants to marry you, what are you afraid of?

3.Focus on doing his mother's work, this is the point.

After reading it, I was very emotional, to be honest, I can understand you very well, and I can understand your boyfriend very well.

From your description, it can be seen that you are very good, whether it is from the economic conditions, work ability, personal charm, and persistence in feelings. Whether by secular standards or by the eyes of an aesthete, I understand your troubles.

I also understand your boyfriend, I can feel that he actually loves you very much, and that's the root of his behavior, I think, you can understand why I say that.

In fact, you are a very assertive person, you may really be a fan of the authorities, you just came to the Internet to ask for help, heh, I don't know if I can help you, I think you should be more sophisticated than me, more mature than me, however, I have a suggestion.

You find a suitable time to talk to your boyfriend's mother in person, spread it out. Oh, you decide for yourself whether you want to discuss the specific content of the discussion with your parents, and I think they can also help you a lot.

I think now you mainly calm down first, in the face of such a relationship, impulsiveness or willfulness will not solve any problems, it will only bring regrets.

If I can help you, please tell me and wish you happiness and happiness.

The best way to do this is to be honest with each other.

If you really can't open your mouth, you can play some tricks.

For example, if you write down your thoughts in a diary, and one day you 'accidentally' find out.

Of course you don't know there's such a thing.

I believe that your painstaking efforts will be understood.

Judging from the supplementary question.

You should learn more about the situation from your boyfriend's mother, if you don't know anything, it will be very bad for you.

In case your boyfriend doesn't do anything about it even though he knows what you're thinking and what's going on.

It's better to let it go.

Is there something else in the man's family?

Why can't I find such a good wife?

You're going to have a hard time doing that.

Figure out the cause as soon as possible.

If you really can't do it, just give up.

Although you will be very sad, if you insist on going your own way, it will be more painful in the future, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

Maybe he's just a passerby in your life.

Try to try harder.

If not, forget it.

The biggest problem at present is that you are no longer a level of people, whether it is from the family, work, or salary, he is not a man who can take it and let it go, even if he has a low salary now, but he can work hard, young people nowadays value feelings, as long as the two of them are good, right, but what do you think he has paid for your relationship? Is it to say good to him in front of his father, or to show himself in front of your parents? Or is it actively working in his work?

He didn't do anything, just blindly got angry and lost his temper, he was covering himself, landlord, separate, this is the best way for you.

My former boyfriend was like this, I accommodated him everywhere, but in the end it was still wrong, forget it, why is it so tiring to be a woman? Besides, such a man has no responsibility at all, and you will do everything by yourself in the future, and carry it yourself, how tired a woman is

hehe, dear, I wish you happiness !