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I think in real life, no one should marry the person they hate, because marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is better to live alone with the person you hate every day, without feelings and communication.
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Normally, this would not be the case.
If you just don't like it, you might be able to get married.
But they all hate each other.
How could he agree to get married.
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Love but not can be, is the normal state of life, women should remember, at any time, do not love humblely, do not make yourself appear cheap, you have to learn to love yourself, only those who understand you are worthy of the rest of your life, one day, the person who loves you will appear by your side.
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Very little! Unless it is an arranged marriage, it is possible to marry someone you don't like, but now there are no arranged marriages.
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In reality, there are also people who marry people they hate, and that is arranged by their parents and agreed by their parents, and such a marriage is very tragic.
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In real life, there are individuals who hate getting married, because people's life ideas and methods, hate people, but have other advantages, such as having a background and conditions, which are economic conditions
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This is really there, maybe because of the relationship of interests, this can't be said to be nothing, or it may be that you have to compromise like this when you're older!
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In reality, of course, some people marry someone they hate, and generally they marry someone they hate, either because they have their own hardships or because they have ulterior motives. Otherwise, no one wants to marry someone they hate.
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Yes, and there are many people of this type, and you are not the only one
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I would choose to marry someone I don't like, and marrying someone I don't like has the following characteristics.
First, the division of labor is clear, and there are not many contradictions.
It is precisely because there is no affection between two people, so women will have no expectations for their husbands, in fact, many conflicts in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women will have a lot of strange requirements if they blindly ask to be loved.
So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.
Second, the self-satisfaction of emotional value.
Women often think about whether their other half loves them or not, and she feels happy when she feels loved, and feels sad on the contrary.
In fact, emotional value is the most useless thing, the sun will not rise because you are depressed, and the night will not come a little later because you are happy today.
So what's the difference between being happy and unhappy?
Perhaps the most important thing is to achieve a marriage relationship where 1 plus 1 is greater than 2, when you pin your happiness on yourself, you will get it.
For example, for the wife, the husband's flowers on Valentine's Day are nothing to look forward to, she thinks that the flowers she bought cost 100 yuan, and the husband bought them is also worth 100 yuan, so there is no difference between what she buys and what her husband buys, and at this time her happiness can be self-satisfied, and she will become a stronger person.
Third, men are more likely to succeed.
A man's character should be neither humble nor arrogant. I'm good to you, you're good to me, and I treat it like a treasure. I'm good to you, you're not good to me, I'm abandoning it and looking for the next one.
There will always be women who will appreciate you. Then, you get married, have children, work hard, and make the family better.
You were born to your parents, and you have been poor for decades, but you can't be soft-boned. Soft bones never end well.
When you marry someone you don't like, you don't need to meet his bizarre demands, you can concentrate more on your work, you don't need to have all kinds of messy holidays, you don't have to face your wife's changing emotions.
Love is short-lived, hormone secretion is also temporary, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so choosing to marry a person you don't like, and choosing a more suitable person to marry can reflect the value of marriage greatly.
So I will choose to marry someone I don't like, the best result is that the person you like is also the right person for you, if not, maybe choose a suitable marriage partner is happier.
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The reason is that if the two people do not run in well after marriage, then the relationship will become weaker and weaker, and there will be a lot of contradictions, in which case they will get tired of each other, so it is very important to run in after marriage.
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Love is happy and sweet, and each of us hopes that we can tie the knot with the person we like the most and spend a wonderful life together. ......But in real life, it is very difficult to find an ideal partner, and many times the people we meet are not bad in all aspects, but we don't like him. Whether you can marry such a person or not, different people have different choices.
Personally, I think that this issue should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Specifically, it includes three aspects: a marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy, the person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and love at first sight is hard to find.
1. A marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy. Therefore, if you don't like the other person, you can't marry them.
The most important factor in marriage is the relationship between each other. ......Only a deeply affectionate marriage can have a happy state and truly reap the blessings of a lifetime. If there is a lack of affection between two people, the marriage is destined to be unhappy.
And for people you don't like, you will definitely not have feelings for each other, so of course you can't marry such a person.
2. The person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and of course such a person can't marry him.
The state that suits oneself refers to the state that is suitable for one's own conditions in all aspects and meets one's own needs. ......Therefore, the person who suits you must be the person you like, which is the primary condition. ......If he doesn't like that person, he will definitely not be suitable for him, and it is impossible for the two of them to be together, and it is impossible for him to marry such a person.
3. Love at first sight is hard to come by, so you can't decide everything simply by liking it or not.
Love at first sight, although romantic, is an unattainable thing after all, and for most people, this situation is basically unavoidable. ......Therefore, you should have a realistic attitude on the issue of marriage, and you can't just make decisions based on personal feelings, let alone simply use whether you like it or not as a criterion. You should conduct a comprehensive analysis and make a rational decision, so that you can really find someone who suits you, and this kind of marriage can make you the happiest.
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First of all, it is irresponsible to marry someone you don't like, and get married in a hurry; And after getting married, if the other party doesn't love you very much, there will be a lot of conflicts between you. Psychologically, you can't get over the hurdles, and if you marry someone you don't like, you will find that nothing is pleasing to the eye, even if the other party does well enough, but you will still find faults. Because after getting married, it is no longer a simple love, but a real life to face; For example, firewood, rice, oil and salt, the life of two, having children, and the monthly living expenses of the family, etc.
If you are not a very good man, or if your parents are not supportive, you will be very tired, and you will end up picking bones in each egg and breaking up. After getting married, it involves two people sharing a bed and empathy, so would you sleep in the same bed with someone you don't like all night? If you sleep separately, then this marriage will not be established, and you can love and become unloved, and you can not love and become love.
There are many people who are still relatively happy. Because they have a sense of responsibility, they know that when they enter the besieged city, they should take responsibility. Although they have no emotional foundation, they value their families very much.
Feelings are slowly cultivated between a porridge and a meal, and such feelings are not vigorous, but a kind of trickle. Plain but welcoming. And some people married someone they didn't like, but they barely lived for the sake of their children, while some people had already separated from their wives and found their true love.
Therefore, marriage is the most reluctant thing in a person's life, you must find someone you like and love yourself, two people have the same temperament and thoughts, even if the days are hard, but two people can think in one place, and work hard in one place.
As the old saying goes: husband and wife are concentric, its benefits are broken gold, as long as two people have a heart, everything will be solved, there is no difficulty in anything, two people respect each other and support each other, ups and downs, truly achieve the blessing and enjoy the hardships together, such days are bitter and sweet, so find a person you love, or love you for a lifetime. There are also many people who do not make it to the end.
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The end result is all bad. Because two people who have no feelings are together. There is a lack of trust, a lack of understanding, a lack of communication, and their relationship is not good, so the results are all bad.
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When I married someone I didn't like, I think the end result was basically relatively flat. If you hadn't been divorced, I think you should have a better life, although the relationship is relatively plain, but it is reasonable. If there is any contradiction, I think the other party is more accommodating to you.
So it's okay.
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Personally, I don't think necessarily, after marrying someone you don't like, maybe it's good to develop the other party slowly, and you're good to you, maybe it's the kind of person who gets married first and then falls in love, and there is another kind of person who you don't like after marriage, so there are many contradictions, and finally they part ways.
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If you marry someone you don't like, you may be indifferent at first, or even have no topic, but in the end, after a long time, if you understand each other, the relationship will get better and better, so the result is also good.
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I got married to someone I didn't like, and I still quarreled in the first few years There are a lot of things I was also disappointed But then I slowly lived and felt that I was arguing and arguing and arguing, but I couldn't be separated, and I suddenly found that the person in front of me was right, and I was very tolerant of myself There are a lot of touches in my heart.
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If you marry someone you don't like, you may end up regretting it, feeling that it is not the person you want, and you may be moved by the fact that your partner is very good to you. There will also be such a feeling.
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I won't tell you if you can.
What I'm going to tell you is that some people may face a dilemma: not getting married, or marrying someone they don't like.
Instead: choose one of the people you like and those you don't like.
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There are two sides to everything, after being with someone you don't like, after time of running-in and cultivation, there will also be a spark of love, but some people will close themselves and are unwilling to accept other feelings, so let's talk about it.
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Only if you marry the person you like will you have a good outcome in the end.
If you marry someone you didn't like at the beginning, then the final result must be bad and will bring a lot of harm to both parties.
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Most people are not very good, because they always look down on that person in their hearts and don't like that person very much, and many times they will not tolerate each other when conflicts break out.
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Most of them are unhappy, because if you don't like him, it may be that they have incompatible personalities and different values, and there will be many contradictions in living together with such people.
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People who married someone they didn't like at the beginning, in fact, most of them lived quite well in the end, only a few lived a life that was not what they imagined.
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Generally speaking, the results are good, because feelings will arise after getting along for a long time.
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Keep an eye on the minimap, and when you get near the grass, put a skill on the grass to see if there's anyone.
Yes, because liking doesn't have much to do with being fat or thin. Sometimes because you like it, the other party's shortcomings will also be praised by your heart.
These are all necessary stages of life to learn to endure.