Some guys have a hard time finding a partner, what do you think is the reason?

Updated on society 2024-07-16
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Some boys are difficult to find a partner, maybe he doesn't want to find a partner, or he finds a partner in the wrong way, many boys are waiting for fate to come, but if you don't go out to meet more people, how can fate come?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's very introverted in terms of personality.,I don't like to take the initiative to contact others.,The mouth is relatively stupid.,I won't prepare some romantic surprises.,So I can't find a partner at all.。

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you have a bad personality or a particularly straightforward personality, you will meet a straight man in life. Many girls simply can't accept this kind of character.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    One thing we have to admit is that some boys are born to like women, and one of the main reasons why many boys find it easy to find a partner. Many people may think that a boy who recruits girls must be very good-looking, but in real life, there is often a certain deviation from what we imagined, why do you say that? We can take a look, are the boys who recruit girls really handsome in real life?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The reason why contemporary young men are not easy to find a partner is not because they are not good enough, but because women are independent, and it seems that men's economic advantages are no longer obvious.

    The rise of women's independence stems from the two modern world wars.

    Europe was originally like China, where men worked to support their families, and women raised their husbands and children, but the war brought about the death of a large number of young and middle-aged men, and a large number of jobs in society were lacking, and women also went out of the house and went to work. It is equivalent to the original man earning 10,000 yuan, and the woman taking care of the children at home, the income gap between the two is 10,000, and now the man earns 10,000, the woman earns 8,000, and the income gap between the two is 2,000.

    In fact, modern women are unable to balance work and family, especially when children are young, they basically need the help of the elderly at home. Although women no longer need to be tied to the family and can go to the post to make money, it is true that many women's work ability is not inferior to that of men, but there will still be the idea of male superiority and inferiority in their bones, that is, they must find a man who is much better than themselves to be considered a good match. This puts many ordinary young men in a difficult situation, and their abilities are not good enough in the eyes of women of the same age.

    The second reason is the amplification effect of the network, which will put those who are rich and handsome, have a house and a car with an annual salary.

    The repeated rendering of millions of such images makes women have the illusion that high-quality men are everywhere, and naturally they look down on young men with ordinary conditions. The third reason is the misallocation of resources, a large number of young people enter the city, but due to the requirement for men to buy a house and get married, a large number of young men can only leave the city and return to their hometowns, while a large number of young women can continue to stay in the city because they have no pressure to buy a house, which makes the difference in the number of men and women who are already 30 million worse worse.

    Although women will definitely be better in principle under other same conditions, they will not look at others just because the conditions are good, the most important thing is that the man's character cares about and loves himself, if he can see your efforts and diligence, I think even if you have nothing, he will still never give up.

    What women fear most is that they can't see hope. Therefore, if a man wants to get love, he must first make himself excellent and self-motivated, and a hard-working man will naturally attract love that belongs to him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If a boy is self-motivated, willing to work hard, down-to-earth and hard-working, this is not a worry about finding a partner. Unless he is a person who eats and drinks together, has nothing to do all day long, and hangs his son, how can such a man have a girl who likes it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is because the ratio of men to women is very unbalanced nowadays, and the number of boys is particularly high, so it is difficult for boys to find a match.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because girls are now financially independent, and the requirements for finding a boyfriend are relatively high, many boys can't find a partner.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Such a man has three specific manifestations.

    First, the response is enthusiastic and the chat is positive.

    Whether in life or on the Internet, a married woman has a good impression of you, she will often find ways to contact you, willing to talk to you about the joy of life, chat and respond more positively, and will not be as deliberately reserved as unmarried girls. does not refuse to flirt with you, but also flirts with you, chatting about some men and women, which is a hint signal that I want to be slept with by you.

    Two: Shh

    Married women like you, most of them will be more active, care about your every move, and be willing to listen to your feelings. often shush the cold and ask for warmth, say some considerate words, and even take the initiative to help you, and do not account for the gains and losses, indicating that the heart has accepted you and wants to try to steal food with you.

    Many years ago, I was just like you, I couldn't flirt with my sister, my emotional intelligence was not high, and I missed a lot of good opportunities. Later, after systematically studying in the "Alpine Love Network", I completely became a love saint, and I strongly recommend everyone to take a look. Even if you are not tall, handsome or rich, as long as you master the correct flirting skills, you can still make girls like you.

    Three: ambiguous words and actions.

    A married woman is moved and will say intimate and coquettish words to you, giving people an ambiguous feeling, which is obviously attracting you. Dressing up in a unique feminine way, making physical contact, being very close to you, and speaking softly are all signals to you. Or send you your own ** private photos in the online chat, and say some intimate words, all of which are tugging at your heartstrings.

    Therefore, when we are in contact with a married woman, you only need to pay attention to whether her language and behavior are ambiguous, whether she is subtly closing the distance between you, and you can be sure of her hints.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    One is an extroverted personality who can speak well.

    Falling in love itself is also a process of taking the initiative to communicate with others and others. This requires a boy to have an outgoing personality, good language skills, high emotional intelligence, affinity, and be able to speak and please girls.

    The second is that the external image is very flattering.

    To give an example, when girls see male stars such as Lu Han, Li Yifeng, and Zhang Han, they will generally blush and scream. These male stars are tall, have good temperament, and are dignified, so they are naturally very popular with girls. Therefore, if a boy has a good external image, it is easier to attract the attention of girls, then it is easier to get the favor and love of girls, so it is relatively easy for them to fall in love.

    The third is that the individual himself is relatively good, and he can make money with his own career.

    Some boys are super scholars in college, and after graduation, they can work in a good unit, or start a business with their own strength, and then have their own careers and make money.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because of the excellence, these boys are easier to find a partner, and at the same time, he is better at communicating, and the interaction between friends and friends is very large, so these boys are easier to find a partner.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because some boys are more handsome, and the family economy is better, especially he is excellent, and he is a person who is good at communicating with friends, so it is so easy for her to find a partner.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's because these boys are more realistic, but they are not picky, as long as they have good morals, good personalities, can live a good life, and can make money, so it is easy to find a partner.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Looking for a partner depends on its appearance conditions, personality, as well as conversation and family background, personal strength is comprehensive, if all aspects are better, then it is easy for these boys to find a partner.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Fate is determined, and things are man-made. There are many times when we don't meet what we like, not that we don't have this fate. It should be said that fate has not arrived.

    There is also a possibility, and that is when we are choosing a mate. There will also be its own selection criteria and requirements. Because we have a certain positioning.

    So we don't easily choose someone who is not suitable for us. Because our requirements can be high. So some people are discouraged.

    Because he knows. He doesn't live up to your standards. We're left alone.

    And some people. He just needs to like it. Nothing else.

    He also doesn't care about the other party's conditions, the family background of the unit. So he found it naturally. Or maybe it's the girl he likes.

    It's a girl who doesn't have too many requirements. Very simple. So they became.

    But if such a girl wants to walk with you. Maybe you won't be able to get him into the eyes of the law. You don't have to be able to match it yet.

    That's why the fate of people and people is so wonderful. You'll meet it slowly.

    In the vast sea of people, we will eventually meet the person who understands us. I am fortunate to have gained, but I have lost my life. I wait. Same as I thought, so be it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The reason why it is so easy for some boys to find a partner is mainly because these boys have better conditions, higher jobs and incomes, and good looks, and more importantly, they are cheerful, generous and humorous, so they are naturally more popular with girls.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The reason why it is so easy for some boys to find a partner is not because their personal conditions can attract girls, but because of their strong family background (including those with good economic conditions and social status), it is the absolute advantage that some boys are easy to find a partner.

    There is also the fact that boys belong to the kind of personal ability, or belong to Kochi or belong to personal economic income, which are very easy to be favored by girls.

    Of course, because they are handsome, have a good natural foundation, and have superior natural conditions, they will also make boys become fragrant and sweet in the eyes of girls.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's easier for boys to find a partner. There are only two reasons.

    On the one hand, boys are better. Talkative and well-behaved, and very good at talking.

    On the other hand, this boy's family is relatively superior. Spending money is more generous, and such a man is very good at winning the hearts of girls.

    One possibility is that the boy is very capable and has a very good job position. The girl is interested in the boy's potential stock.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    As for most boys, as long as he has a sweet, a little bit, a little diligent, and likes to communicate with people, then even if the boy is not very rich, there are girls who like him. If a Namu man. No matter how rich and talented you are, it is difficult to attract girls.

    It's not hard to say, it's not easy to say, it's not easy. As for most boys, as long as he has a sweet, a little bit, a little diligent, and likes to communicate with people, then even if the boy is not very rich, there are girls who like him. If a Namu man.

    No matter how rich and talented you are, it is difficult to attract girls.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello! In fact, there are indeed some, it's easy for boys to find a partner, but it's difficult for a boy to find a partner, it's easy to find a boy, I think first of all, it's handsome, and his own conditions are good, and his mouth will speak, and he will chat, so it's easy for them to find a partner, and it's difficult to find a partner on the contrary.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, I think it is easier for some boys to find a partner, because they may be better and have a better appearance. Emotional intelligence is relatively high, so many times what is said can attract the attention of girls, but I think that looking for a partner is to marry and live for a lifetime in the future, and you can't fall in love with him temporarily just because you can look good and have some money with him, whether it is a boy or a girl, you must take it seriously in love, and you can't treat love as child's play. Otherwise, it is not only oneself that is harmed, but also others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Boys who are easy to find a partner are generally very powerful. Whether it is economic, appearance, or height, they all have certain advantages. It's more important to be good at expressing yourself.

    Be able to express what you want to express. Such boys are relatively easy to find a lot of partners.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because some men have strong abilities, can work in a good unit, or start a business with their own strength, and then have their own business, they can also make money, this kind of excellent boys are naturally very popular with modern girls, their love will be very easy, and often will be chased by girls upside down, they are naturally easy to fall in love!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Some boys have better conditions, and they can talk flatteringly, they will make girls happy, and they are easy to win the love of girls, so it is easier to find a partner!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    These boys are very good at talking, and their emotional intelligence is also very good, they can take care of their other half, and they will give them a sufficient sense of security, so it is especially easy to find a partner, and I personally think that as long as they are good enough, finding a partner is not a problem.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think maybe this boy is very handsome, the family conditions are relatively good, and the work is better, and then he feels more stable, down-to-earth, and sincere to girls, if once you are his girlfriend, she will not have too much intimate behavior with other friends of the opposite sex, such boys are very attractive to girls.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Kiss. Hello, it's easy for a boy to find a partner, either he is very handsome, has a physique that attracts girls, and he doesn't have to worry about finding a girlfriend, or he is rich, and other girls want to send it to him as a girlfriend, if there are no both, then it is only possible that this boy has a high emotional intelligence, especially how to behave in the world, will coax girls to be happy, and has a cheerful personality and is easy to get along with, so it is easy for him to find a partner.

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