Why is it so hard to find a girlfriend?

<>Our company is a network company, the largest department in the office is the technical department, sitting next to my position is a programming ape, although he is 2 years older than me, but now he is still single, in addition to his company there are several programming apes or singles, as for why they are so difficult to find a girlfriend, the main reason is the office environment and personality problems.

More than ninety percent of our company's employees are men, only a few girls, but they are all masters, want to start from the company's resources, near the water is not realistic, if I didn't have a girlfriend before I entered the company, I'm afraid I still play with them now. If you don't find a suitable one in the company, some people will look outside, and it is also possible to find a girlfriend from some outdoor interest gatherings, original class reunions or introductions from friends and relatives, but at this time, personality problems have a great impact.

Let's talk about the program ape next to my position, when I went to the fast food restaurant with him for lunch, we were originally sitting together at a four-person table, the two of us were talking and laughing at the beginning, the fast food restaurant location is less and you need to sit on the table, when he sat opposite a strange girl, his face turned red all of a sudden, he kept eating with his head down, and he didn't dare to raise his head to look at others, I was embarrassed to reply when I talked to him, I felt like I had never seen a woman, how could I chase my girlfriend with such a character?

Company party, after everyone eats, according to the convention, they will sing K, and a few of their single program apes will always be the audience in the K room, and they will only sit in it and listen to everyone sing, and they can't even be called if the boss asks them to sing a song, the company's party is like this, not to mention some strange outdoor parties, they must be even more unable to let go. Maybe I haven't participated in these outdoor parties at all, and I don't even have the opportunity to meet new friends, let alone find a girlfriend, whether it's at work or at home, I deal with ** all day long, as if these ** are their girlfriends.

In fact, I think it is difficult for ordinary programmers to find girlfriends, because their range of friends is relatively different, and many of their colleagues are male colleagues, so it is difficult to have time to have girlfriends.

Mainly because programmers are busy with their work, and their work is boring, so they are more introverted and will not take the initiative to talk to others, even if the salary is particularly high, girls are particularly boring with him, so no one wants to be with them.

It's because these programmers are often busy and don't have much time to find a girlfriend, and most of the girlfriends want the other party to be with them, but programmers generally don't spend too much time with their girlfriends.

The main reason is because boys are too straight men, and in many cases, they may regard work as more important than their girlfriends, and they are very busy and have no time to spend with their girlfriends, so they will never be found.

Programmers work long hours, often leave early and return late, have no time to meet the people around them, and can't spend time with girlfriends. In addition, their lives are monotonous, and it can often feel boring to be with them.

The reason is that they are very busy, they have to work overtime every day, and all their time is dedicated to work, so they can't find a girlfriend.

There is such a programmer brother around, but it is a maternal fetal solo, Why can't I find a girlfriend, first of all, a big point is that I am too straight and don't understand romance, you must know that girls nowadays like romantic boys, for the programmers who face every day, they may only have **, which may be the biggest reason why they can't find a girlfriend, but there are only a few such programmers, and there are still many programmers who understand romance.

Environmental reasons. Programmers' colleagues are generally male, and they work long hours and don't have time to find a girlfriend.

The daily work is very boring, and there is no time to contact their girlfriends on this computer all day, so it is difficult for these people to find girlfriends.

I think it's a bit far-fetched to say no. As the saying goes, time is like water in a sponge, if you squeeze it, there will always be. The key depends on whether the individual has the heart to find it.

In fact, programmers are usually very busy, so they can take advantage of the fact that the project is not very urgent, go to make friends or participate in blind date shows, etc., so that their lives will be enriched.

Of course, programmers also have time. There is personal time for any job, and it's up to you how you use it. I think the job as a programmer is still good, and the job pays a lot. Finding a girlfriend is certainly not a problem.

Does Yu Yuan have time to find a girlfriend? Programmers have time to find a girlfriend, because this is looking for a girlfriend, whether you are a programmer or not? Or is it something else, is it all a thing?

So the rain has nothing to do with finding a girlfriend, usually after going out to make some people and things, and also make a girlfriend, in general, there is no time, but I think you should create time to find a girlfriend, because this is a lifelong event of a person.

Of course, as long as you want to find it, there is time to find a girlfriend.

Programmers aren't actually that busy, but sometimes they spend a lot of time debugging.

Of course there is time. Work is work after all, and it can't replace love no matter what.

As long as the company is big enough, there are enough friends, and you are bold enough. There is no shortage of girlfriends. O&M, operations, products, customer service, and testing in the same company. There are a lot of young ladies.

There must be. It depends on how the time is arranged. No matter how busy you are at work, you must also distinguish between work and life, and you can't mix them.

The programmer's time is indeed a bit busy, but if you want to find a girlfriend, I don't think it will be delayed, as long as he can find a time, he can find a girlfriend.

After all, programmers are now paid so high, it's still easy to find a girlfriend, earn so much money, don't find a girlfriend, don't let your girlfriend spend, what do you earn him?

It's all up to you.

Functional positions are different, and not all programmers work 996 hours.

Because they are very busy with their work, they don't have time to spend with their girlfriends at all, which will cause their girlfriends to be dissatisfied, and the programmers are generally not very good-looking, so they can't find a girlfriend.

Although programmers have high salaries, it is difficult to find girlfriends because programmers have little contact with the opposite sex, and programmers are generally science and engineering men with low emotional intelligence.

Because programmers don't have much free time and can't spend time with their girlfriends, 996 is unattainable for programmers.

It's because programmers work in the company every day, and even after work, they work overtime in the company, so they don't have time to find a partner.

The general impression is that programmers are unkempt, work long hours, and have a monotonous and uninteresting life, so many girls will not have a good impression of such boys.

Because they generally don't coax girls' moves, they are relatively wooden, and girls don't like them very much.

Work tired, less spare time, simple life, hard work!