Do you think that long term and comfortable relationships between people depend on commonality and a

People can maintain a good friendship relationship or other relationships, to a certain extent, it can be said that they have a certain ability to attract each other, or have common characteristics or habits, so that they can not have great contradictions in daily communication, but also allow them to get some happiness in each other's communication, today let us discuss together Do you think that people want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship with each other by commonality and attraction?

How do we understand that long-term and comfortable relationships between people depend on commonality and attraction? Commonality means that the two of you should have common habits, or the three views should be very similar, that is, to a certain extent, you must have something that you like each other, so that you can have a topic to talk about with each other, and you will not feel bored in your daily life, and you can talk to each other very happily when facing each other.

When there is commonality and attraction between you, then you can establish a long-term relationship, and because the commonality and attraction between you can provide you with a better level of comfort, and also make you more relaxed when you get along, instead of being so nervous as you usually do at work, with good friends, especially when you are with friends who are similar to the three views and attractive, and have commonality, you can often relax yourself, and you can also confide in some of your own voices, so that he can understand you. It can also allow him to comfort you and help you, so when you want to find a long-term and comfortable relationship, you must consider the two related factors, so that the friendship and love between the two of you can go longer and have a stronger foundation.

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Yes. Commonality can make two people more compatible, attract can maintain long-term freshness, and can also make the relationship between two people more stable.

Yes, if you want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship, it does depend on commonality and attraction, so that the two can go on forever.

Personally, I think so, if you want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship, you need to rely on commonality and attraction, so that two people can get along for a long time.

If you want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship between people, you must rely on commonality and attraction rather than oppression, and moral touch, you must learn to let go of yourself and learn to accept different people with different values.

If you want to maintain a good relationship with people for a long time, you must know the size of your relationship with others, and understand them when you get along with them. Today, let's talk about how to get along with them so that both parties can feel comfortable, and we yearn for this feeling.

Know how to get along with people

We have all been together for a long time, we will have a deep understanding of others, and sometimes it is inevitable that we will not accept some habits of others, so we will show various dissatisfaction in the process of getting along. But in fact, no one is perfect, each of us is not perfect, we must know how to tolerate some habits and customs of others in life, do not interfere too much in the living habits of others, but when others need help, lend a helping hand and love each other. Many times, if others don't want to talk to you about what is in your heart, don't force others to tell you, so that you seem to be very gossipy and feel like you're joking about other people's pain, in short, when others need you, you stand up, and when he needs personal space, you consciously withdraw from the field of others.

Understanding the behavior of others

People can get along comfortably, because of a person's understanding of another person, most of the time, it is difficult for us to find their own confidant, as the so-called bosom friend is difficult to find, if we can have more empathy ability, when others do something difficult to complain to others, maybe we can be appreciated by others by expressing understanding. Sometimes we feel very lonely in the midst of a busy crowd, that is because most people do not understand the true thoughts of a person's heart, loneliness comes from the heart, when there is a person who understands us, we are no longer alone. But there are not many people who really understand us, only our shadow accompanies us, so in the process of getting along with others, being able to understand the difficulty and dilemma of others will make people relaxed and willing to tell you what they think.

Someone understands our thoughts, so no matter how far away we are, we can't stop the fact that we become friends, but even if the people around us are crowded, they may not be our confidants.

Between people, it depends on the word sincerity. You are honest with me, and I return you sincerely; If you bend your will, I will retract my original enthusiasm. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke analyzed, true love is priceless, and we will stay together for a long time.

If people want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship, they need to rely on sincerity to maintain, and the two should not have too much scheming when getting along, so as to ensure that the two are always in a comfortable state when they get along.

Personally, I think that if we want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship with each other, then we need to trust each other more, and enough trust can also give each other a sense of security.

If you want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship between people, you must trust each other in your relationship.

Treat each other with respect. Leave a certain amount of space for each other, so that both parties can be very comfortable and no serious problems will occur.

Summary. 'In order to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship between people, commonality is more important than attraction, because if you want to maintain a long-term relationship, you can only be comfortable and not tired if you have a common hobby or a common topic with each other.

If you want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship between people, you rely on commonality and attraction.

In order to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship between people, commonality is more important than attraction, because if you want to maintain a long-term relationship, you can only be comfortable and not tired if you have a common hobby or a common topic with each other.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Because people have common interests, common hobbies, and common topics, they can naturally walk together very comfortably and maintain a long-term relationship.

The more you try to please someone, the more likely that person is to make your heart ache.

Expectation is the root of all heartache, it is naïve to talk to you for a few days and like him, life will wake you up one slap after another, and one day you will understand that people want to maintain a long-term and comfortable relationship, relying on commonality and attraction.

—From Netease Cloud** "Attract" hot comment.

In fact, everyone can find that our memories are selectively fixed in the places that we feel are the most beautiful, those sufferings, those things that life is unsatisfactory and once felt that the whole person will be swallowed up.

It's not like that when I think about it now, no matter what, I have to go on with the best smile and the most beautiful memory.

Because there are so many unpredictable beauties in the future, maybe Lin Shen sees the deer, the sea blue sees the whale, and wakes up to see you.

From Netease Cloud** "Room" hot comment.

After a long time, you will understand that people will grow, trees will bloom, and all this cannot be stopped.

The person who made you love so much that you lost your arrogance no longer appears in the wind that blows in the night, in the drunken wine, in the cigarette, in the disordered dreams.

Netease Cloud** "Proud Cold" hot review.

The biggest regret is that I can't even say it in person, maybe something that can be solved with a hug is a stranger without any explanation.

Xue Zhiqian's "Regret" NetEase Cloud Hot Comment.

Time is the best span in this world.

Let the misery pale and let the persistent choose to leave.

Then after the vicissitudes of life, you will understand.

Everything is fate, and nothing is up to anyone. ​

—NetEase Cloud** hot comment "Even Names with Surnames".

Text: Chen Sanqi.

Chen Shu roared at his girlfriend who was hurt by love in "Who Said I Can't Get Married", "One day you have to understand that between people, long-term and comfortable relationships rely on commonality and attraction, rather than blind dedication and moral self-touching", even if I haven't watched this drama, my memory of this classic line is still very deep;

When the love first opened, I actually thought that as long as I worked hard enough, I paid enough, I would be treated kindly, but this is not the case, Fan Xiangyan said in "Wonderful Sayings" "You have to admit that there are some people in the world, even if you chase barefoot, you can't catch up", and then I understood that people are different, there is no person who has to be together, and there is no person who has to be together, when you know yourself well enough, you will know who you are comfortable with

In the recent hit TV series "Little Shede", Tian Yulan is the one who desperately pays for her son but backfires, Ziyou was forced to become depressed, and there was a stress reaction when she saw her mother, there are too many tragedies like this in real life, girls put their life's expectations on their children after becoming mothers, and completely lost themselves, children have been burdened too much since birth, and the oppression of parents who have completely lost their minds will only make the parent-child relationship fall apart

Intimacy is like holding a handful of sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the more it leaks, and in the end you will be empty-handed

Therefore, when we truly believe that the connection between us depends on commonality and attraction, we will focus on cultivating our own life, doing our best, and making ourselves as happy as possible to finish this life happily

Relying on mutual trust between each other, comparing hearts to hearts, and understanding each other, the most important thing for two people to get along with each other is to be honest with each other under the premise of equality.

Of course, it is trust, two people must trust each other, and then don't hide anything, you must treat each other with sincerity.

Rely on maintaining proportions with each other. Don't interfere with each other too much, but ask about each other's privacy.