Is it wrong for me to be angry in such a situation 10

According to what you said, I think your boyfriend cares about you at all, he should care about your feelings if he cares about you, your relationship has always been centered on him, you have lost yourself, you say something like that, every girl will be angry, this is what your boyfriend should explain and coax your boyfriend, but your boyfriend has that attitude. Although you say that your boyfriend is handsome, but your own person is not bad, there are also 1.68 meters, why do you die begging for Bai Lai's kind of flowery man, there are still a lot of handsome guys outside, the woman is 1.68 meters tall, beautiful, very sought-after, the man is handsome and flowers, even if he gets married, he has to be at ease all the time, why find guilt for himself, break up and break up, although he looks for it, he will miss you at that time. As a person who has come to tell you, it's good for a man to find a good look, as long as it's good for you, the family conditions are better, and the person is smart, so he will hold you in his heart, so that a woman can live happily, find a boyfriend like that, you have to hold him in your hand, tomorrow is worried, people will be haggard, not to mention love or something, no matter how vigorous love is married, it will become weaker, and it will be consumed by the trivial things of life, and the rest is feelings, I don't know if you can listen to it, but it is true.

I don't think you're making a fuss about it, and it's uncomfortable for you to be any man like that. You don't care. But you're overdoing it.

You have your mind, though. Sorry I can't give you advice. Maybe I'm looking at this from a man's point of view.

If a man wants to steal, is it useful for you to take care of women, you should be in charge of your man.

I can say with certainty that your man has already split his legs, and he is the ** woman!

So girl, be sober, either take care of your man ruthlessly, or let your man chop you until he doesn't want you.

Anyway, is it worth it to make yourself so cheap for such a man?!

There are a lot of good men waiting for you, whatever you want.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself; It's not worth it to be born for someone else when you're angry. Take a look at **, there will be insights, don't look at romance.

Why be at home, woman. First of all, you have to have a job of your own, so that people will not look down on you. Don't steam steamed buns to fight for breath.

There are many good men in the world, does he really love you?

Yesterday, my colleague Tian Tian needed the promotion table of the 10 comrades in the unit, and I found their respective tables from the files of these 10 people, took them to her, and arranged them in the order of the list she provided.

Unfortunately, none of these forms are stamped. I told her, and she said upload it and try it. After a while, he came to me and said:

If the upload is unsuccessful, it must be stamped. I said, "What then?"

She came to get the files of these comrades and said, "I'll look for it again." It turned out that she wanted to find it herself, alas, what a serious little girl.

I said, "I didn't see any stamps when I put it in." She was unwilling and took all three boxes of files.

Although she only needed 10 people, the files of the 10 people were packed in three boxes, each containing the files of 10 people. The serial number has been numbered, the order is arranged, and it is easy to find.

In the afternoon, I needed to find another piece of information, so I opened the file box and found that the original neat files had become a mess.

The materials in the archives, each person's information is independent, and they are held in small clips. Now the serial numbers are messed up, and they are no longer arranged in the order of the serial numbers, and some of the small folders of the files are gone.

I'm a little angry, no, it should be angry.

I don't know what to do with this, but if I say to her, "Beauty, this material should be put in order." However, she finally used it this time, and the next time she used it, she didn't know that it was the Year of the Monkey, so this time, I went to someone to talk about it, and it seemed that I was too calculating.

This approach obviously doesn't work.

So what do I do? I thought, feeling uncomfortable.

So I asked myself three soul questions.

1. It is said that "being angry is to punish oneself for the mistakes of others", is this sentence correct? It stands to reason that it is a mistake made by others, others have done wrong, and they have not done anything wrong, so there is no need for us to be angry, so why do we have to be angry when we face other people's mistakes many times? In this way, it seems that there is a common tendency to punish oneself for the mistakes of others.

So this statement is true.

However, whoever makes a mistake corrects it has nothing to do with others. So this statement is not true. Because the fault is someone else's fault, and it is someone else who is punished.

So what are you angry about? If you're angry, it's your problem. Think of it this way, that's who is angry and who has a problem.

2. I think maybe some people will not be angry in the face of such a thing, if this is the case, then that is my problem.

3. So, I ask myself, should I be angry, why should I be angry? Mine is very simple, it is that your inner child feels that he is not respected, that he is not seen. Yes, you can look inside when you are angry:

Hey, I'm emotional in the face of this, and I'm angry now because he doesn't respect the fruits of my labor. I felt disrespected. When you think about it like this, your mind will gradually calm down a lot.

Every emotion is an angel who guards you. I learned Vipassana today, and I want to be more aware of myself from now on.