Marriage with Children 10, Marriage between Parents and Children

Divorce of parents can indeed have a negative impact on children. Especially at the stage of children. Because when children are socializing.

For example, at school or in front of friends. To be known by others that there is no father or mother. When they are in the face of other people.

That feeling of inferiority. Or too different. Alternative feelings have a certain impact on their personality development.

However, couples who quarrel every day can also have an impact on children. The child's mind is not mature. Especially when parents are noisy in front of them. They may think that their parents will fight because of themselves. Of course, it will have an impact on them in the future.

But whether you are divorced or not. They all hope that both parents can think about their children. It's not good, it's just a matter of looking at your own feelings.

If you really can't get along and need a divorce. Please explain to an infant. Let them know that it's not his problem.

And those who are willing to fight for their children without divorce hope that they will try not to quarrel in front of their children.

Let's not say anything about leaving a shadow on their hearts.

Even if you are divorced, the shadow of a single-parent family on your children is very large.

It's not good for the child to quarrel all the time, or it's better to divorce, after the divorce, the two people should be nice to the child, if the man is awarded the woman, she can come to see the child for a week, and it's good for both parties to be good for the child.

My parents have been arguing since I was a kid until now, and I wish they had left when they were young. It's not good for kids at all!

A few days ago, I met a few classmates who talked about their marriage, and one classmate said that now that I think about my parents, every sentence makes sense. He was young and frivolous, completely disobedient to his parents, looking for a partner like a butterfly among flowers, swaying, and later his father forced him to marry the daughter of an old friend on the grounds of driving him out of the house and breaking off relations. He wandered outside for three days and finally gave in.

Later, she successfully gave birth to a high-IQ daughter, and half of her life was smooth, with a bumper harvest in her career and family. "After all, they have eaten more than twenty years more than us." He said with emotion.

And the love of parents for their children is selfless, and his height determines that he sees more clearly than you. ”

Yes. Another classmate said, "But parents should also pay attention to the method." She said that she was looking for the object that her parents didn't like at that time, and she didn't know what she meant at first, but her mother was so angry that she rushed to the boy with a broken mouth and scolded, and even poked the boy's nose with an umbrella in a hurry, making him bloody, and the boy endured it silently at the time, and denied the fact of being beaten when facing his mother's questioning.

So she felt that the boy was too pitiful, and she was considerate and touching, and finally she was forced by her mother to go to the boy and become his wife. Although she was quite happy later, if it weren't for her mother's excesses, she wouldn't have been so hasty, and she might have seen something else better.

Therefore, in fact, it is very difficult to encounter things, and parents must understand their children and know how to adapt to them. (soft or hard or both soft and hard). The problem is that the IQ and EQ of parents are not necessarily higher than that of children, and most of the time parents' judgment does not convince children at all.

In their eyes, there is a generation gap between you and them, and you are the eliminated generation, just like when we looked at our parents.

May our loved ones be lucky, or rather, we will be lucky, so that they will not go down the unusual and worrying path.

Being a parent is not simple, it is a university question. There is no right answer.

Your situation is indeed very difficult, and your feelings are completely understandable. The marriage seems to make you unhappy and causes a lot of stress. Before deciding whether or not to divorce, you may want to consider seeking professional marriage counselling to see if your issues can be resolved through communication and understanding.

At the same time, you also need to consider your feelings and needs, and whether you feel respected and fulfilled in this marriage. Sometimes, leaving an unhealthy old bond with a healthy Guan friend may be the best option. In the end, it's a decision that only you can make, and you need to consider all factors, including your emotional state, your values, and your expectations for the future.

Wouldn't a person be happier?

If you don't have children, it's not difficult for you to remarry.

Can't conceive? Whose problem it is.

Summary. Hello, I'll answer your questions! From your description, you probably mean that you want to ask your child about marriage, right?

I think we can do it like this: first of all, the attitude should be gentle, marriage is still the child's own choice in the final analysis, let's not use a reproachful and urging tone, which can easily cause the child's disgust; Secondly, the question should be appropriate, let's not stay at the appearance that the child is not married, but to ask the child what he thinks about marriage, what kind of object he wants to find, and which point he values more, such a question is more simple and efficient, and it can also guide the child to express his needs directly; Finally, we should be open-minded, after all, it is our own children, and it is good for them to be happy, so we don't have to impose our ideas on our children

Hello, I'll answer your questions! From your description, you probably mean that you want to ask your child about marriage, right? I think we can do this:

First of all, the attitude should be gentle, marriage is still the child's own choice in the final analysis, let's not use a reproachful and urging tone, which can easily cause the child's disgust; Secondly, the question should be appropriate, let's not stay on the appearance that the child is not married, but to ask the child what he thinks about marriage, what kind of object he wants to find, and which point he values more, such a question is more simple and efficient, and it can also lead the state to infiltrate the child to express his needs directly; In the end, Zhiji guessed, the idea should be open-minded, after all, it is your own child, it is good to have a happy life, we don't have to impose our own ideas on the child

Those are some of my thoughts

Legal analysis: Children are the crystallization of a couple's love, and having a child shed will make a family more lively, but children are not the whole of marriage, and it turns out that couples with children are also unhappy. Couples who get married and don't have children can live happily, and I don't think children have much to do with the happiness of their marriage.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1063:The following property is the personal property of one of the husband and wife

1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties;

2) Compensation or compensation received by one party for personal injury;

3) Property that is determined in a will or gift contract to belong to only one party;

4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side;

5) The property of the party that should belong to him.

Article 1062 The following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of their marital relationship shall be the joint property of the husband and wife and shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife

1) Wages, bonuses, and remuneration for labor services;

2) Income from production, operation and investment;

3) income from intellectual property rights;

4) Inherited or donated property, except as provided for in item 3 of Article 1063 of this Law;

5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.