People who don t listen to their parents are emotional

Not necessarily, there is no regularity. I didn't listen to my mother, but I grew up very affectionate and treated my mother very well. The key is to look at your own character.

Can you know your age and the purpose of asking this question? It's not about privacy! I'm sure the previous ones won't help you much, but if you can't say it, I'd suggest you look for books on psychology

If you don't mind, talk to me alone! Actually, I've been dealing with my relationship with my mother, and I think I'm a little rebellious But I also think she's a bit old-fashioned and often quarrels Can't I just say that I don't care about feelings, and I still love her psychologically Thinking about the problem has to start from both sides If you want to solve your problem, it's best to be bold and find someone who is willing to listen to you! Or find a psychiatrist and analyze your relationship with your "loved ones."

Psychology of each other! Then prescribe the right medicine! The essential! －－

It's possible, why are children obedient? Isn't it because he is sensible and serves you? On the contrary, my son argues with me every day, and he is half angry, and I wonder if he will be angry with me when he grows up! Don't talk about heavy feelings.

References"I'm sure the previous ones won't help you much".

Sympathy. I think there are two kinds of obedience. One is that there is no self-viability. Dependence and fear of parents.

One is to have a good relationship with parents. Voluntary obedience.

If it's the former. It is estimated that when you grow up, obedience is directly proportional to feelings.

And what you call heavy feelings. It refers to family affection. Camaraderie. Love?

The question is too vague.

There's no necessary connection to this, it can only mean that I was obedient and obedient when I was a child.

It is the environment in which you live that has a great impact on your personality and personality.

No one in my family cares about me, and I don't really understand them when I do things myself, but when it comes to big things, I put my relatives at home first.

For me, my family is the most important, followed by friends and classmates, and I can't rank in love.

Environmental impact and character! Obedience doesn't necessarily mean affection!

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For example, if you are a girl, then your parents want you to marry a man with experience, the so-called economic ability refers to a man who has a house, a car and money, and more importantly, a man with good character, who will take care of his family and can take care of you.

If you are a man then your parents will want you to marry a virtuous woman, the so-called virtuous means that you can take care of the whole family up and down, so that you can work outside with peace of mind, will not use the small things at home to work, for your parents, she can treat like her own parents, for your children, she can be dedicated to raising them. These are all beautiful and harmonious pictures that parents want to see.

You can listen to your parents' words, but not necessarily all of them! Free love and blind dates, in fact, each has its own benefits. Free love pays more attention to the feelings that two people give each other, respects personal wishes, and reflects the individual's grasp and understanding of their own lives, so they may be willing to fall in love freely from the bottom of their hearts, after all, only their own feelings are the most important.

Blind date, more from the family, property, education level and other aspects that can be seen and touched, to make judgments, more attention to the objective conditions are suitable for themselves. For marriage, it is actually a comprehensive embodiment of subjective and objective conditions. Although there can be love in families with different objective conditions, after marriage, in the face of many things such as family economy, relatives and friends, the way to deal with them is often different, which brings great difficulty in adapting, which is not conducive to the stability of marriage and the upbringing of children.

For feelings, of course, not all should listen to their parents. But most of the parents' opinions are very pertinent, after all, they are your dearest and dearest people, and they will never harm you.

I think what you need to do is to think calmly about your parents' opinions, because sometimes we young people tend to be too impulsive. Feelings are related to a lifetime of happiness, and you can't be rash, let alone child's play.

People have very different personalities when it comes to dealing with this aspect of feelings. Everyone will have a different way of dealing with it. It's just that even if it goes with the flow or is man-made, it's all because the feelings are too unpredictable, so there will be these two ways of dealing with it.

No matter which way it is, I am waiting for the relationship I want, whether I can have a satisfactory ending. Of course, if you really love very much, you still strive for the scene that is most in line with the pursuit of feelings! Of course, the opinion of parents is also important, because parents ultimately want their children to have a better life.

When I was a child, I consciously listened to all of them, and I didn't listen to them during the rebellious period, and I understood the good intentions of my parents during the mature period, and I listened to them if I understood, in short, it was better to listen to my parents, because I pity the hearts of parents all over the world, you don't want to listen, and you still pretend to listen on the surface