Abnormal feelings Is it love

She doesn't seem to know who she likes.

Neither of them did she want to let go.

It's not fair to you.

Keep it up as good friends.

Don't do deviant things.

She seems to be very hesitant, she doesn't know who to choose, and she doesn't want to let go of either, you better explain everything clearly to her, it's not a matter if it goes on like this, it's up to her own choice.

The two of them should have a good talk.

If you keep going, you won't know the outcome.

On the contrary, he stepped deeper and deeper.

Agree with the upstairs.

That person wants to have the best of both worlds

She's definitely dependent on you. Don't be in a hurry.

You should find a girlfriend, then she will react naturally.

It seems that you are a very introverted person!

If you want to go on it, you should ask her.

He's very conflicted right now, if he cares, give her time, okay?

As an ordinary person, I think that the emotional view of "whoever loves me, I will love whom" is very problematic and risky. My main observations are as follows:

1.Ignore your own needs and values: love is mutual, and should not be just a choice and catering for one party. If you just want to get the love of the other person, without considering your own needs and values, you can lead yourself to an unfortunate situation.

2.Emotional instability: If a lover is chosen based only on momentary feelings, rather than on deep understanding and shared values, then emotions can easily become unstable due to external influences. In this case, the durability and stability of the relationship will be affected.

3.It can lead to harm: If a burner's emotional outlook is simply "I love whoever loves me", then he or she may be indifferent to his partner's feelings and needs, and only consider his own feelings and needs.

In this case, it is easy to cause harm to the partner and cause the relationship to break down.

Therefore, I think that the emotional view of "whoever loves me, I will love whomever I love" is very problematic. In a relationship, we should focus on the needs and values of both parties, respect and understand each other in order to achieve a stable and lasting relationship.

Luo Zijun fell in love with his best friend's fiancé, and seemed to love so forbearance, looking so distressed with half a hug from his fist. He Han, the "perfect man", took all the responsibility on himself, and had close contact with Luo Zijun again and again behind his fiancée. It's ......Is it love?

It's ......Called we didn't do anything to be sorry for you? Being an older person is an acceptance of incompetence.

Xiao A once met a senior brother, who was exactly the type she liked, with dimples when she smiled, the mantissa of the mobile phone was 4444, and the license plate number was 250. He said, I dare to use what others dare not use, and I do not dare to use what others taboo. Ah, what a transcendent man.

So she developed an endless crush on him. But the brother told her that he had a girlfriend. He said you're my type too, but the timing is so unfortunate.

At that time, Xiao A's infatuation with his senior brother was so obsessed with Jing Lunzhi that even Wei Tong Qingbo's name was his name. But all this, he didn't know. She never took the initiative to contact him, nor did she take the initiative to dial his **.

She admonishes herself that no matter how much you like him, he is not yours. Later, the senior brother got married, and she said goodbye to him in her heart. Before his wedding, he said something to Xiao A, which made Xiao A remember deeply.

He said that in front of his fiancée, he cried and called his ex-girlfriend for a long time, and after he hung up, he broke the film and didn't remember anything the next day. Xiao A asked him if his fiancée wasn't angry? He said:

Senior sister, in this world, not all feelings are love. Love is transformable. Those traces of love will remain in our hearts.

That's enough. His fiancée loves him enough to accept his vulnerability in that moment, his farewell to the past, and his transformation of the love into friendship.

The generation of feelings is uncontrollable, but our behavior towards feelings is controllable.

What true love is supreme and love is the greatest, it is all an excuse made by selfish people for their uncontrolled behavior.

Love is precious, but is such a deep friendship precious?

There is nothing wrong with people who love each other, but what is wrong with the girlfriends who have been deceived and betrayed?

Even if Luo Zijun gets his love, every day after that, he will feel guilty about his girlfriend.

Restrain your heart that is about to move, since it is called "stupid" to move, it is stupid to move.

The other half, who is far away from his best friend, is an adult, and is the most basic loyalty to himself and his friends.

Love debts are difficult to repay, and friendship is also love.

As a small animal with complex feelings, people have a lot of feelings and feelings. Because in the process of getting along and getting to know people, you will meet different people. Many people will have different feelings when they treat different people.

This is very important for a person to have feelings, if they have a particularly serious cognitive impairment for feelings. Then I think we should see a psychologist as soon as possible, because this is a kind of mental illness in social psychology, called emotional cognitive disorder.

However, the vast majority of people have an understanding and grasp of feelings and feelings, and can judge their feelings. But what we need to understand is that there are some feelings that are right and some feelings that are not. We need to create a correct view of feelings.

Because a correct view of feelings is beneficial to oneself. Only with the right view of emotions can we judge right and wrong on time and not hurt ourselves when facing people or the world.

In particular, some people do not have the ability to correctly distinguish between right and wrong in their feelings. When they don't have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, they often suffer emotional setbacks or hurts. In their later love lives, they were afraid of retreating, causing serious psychological shadows.

Therefore, it is crucial for a person to have the right emotional outlook. So what is the correct view of feelings?

I think that for people who know, they have the ability to distinguish between the wrong and the wrong, and have the right feelings. For example, when we make friends, we can clearly recognize whether the character of this friend is good or bad. If a person is a good friend and can talk to him in his own life, then the right emotion for him is friendship.

If this friend's personality is not very good, everyone needs to choose not to have a deep relationship with him at this time. Socialize less, so that everyone can not be hurt in this relationship.

Suddenly good for you. The feelings of such a ruler are indeed very wild and abnormal. The other party is hiding something in his heart, and he is afraid that he will be discovered by you or that he will feel ashamed of you, so he will suddenly be very good to you.

When encountering such a situation, you should be vigilant, understand what the other party thinks, and then solve such problems.

Two people are together, but they don't have each other in their hearts, and then they still hail that there will be ambiguous objects, and they will be with other people. I won't like my object very much.,When Zhao Slow doesn't take into account the feelings of the object.,Do whatever you want.。

In the emotional life, in addition to being a person who loves each other, they are also an independent individual, and those feelings that are extremely possessive and controlling are very unspeakable. Love is a process of mutual penetration and fulfillment of each other.

For the relationship, I quietly accept the things that are not scum, you can choose to accept it, you can also choose to give up, I regret the things that I can't accept, we don't have to accept it, and there is no need to bear it

In a relationship, if the other person ignores you, then the relationship is abnormal. It also proves that he does not love you wholeheartedly.

If it's just a unilateral relationship, of course, the banquet is not normal, and the normal relationship of Luyin is paid by both parties, and the feelings of inferiority are also abnormal, too inferior feelings, there is no way for two people to be harmonious together.

If you are in love, only one person pays the scum out, or if you are so angry and quarrel with only one person bowing your head, this is a bit abnormal, this person is humble in the relationship, not a normal love.

The feelings of the unrighteous things are not very happy in the relationship, the two people are undefeated and know how to tolerate, and the two people do not have the correct concept of feelings. Because such a relationship will not be happy.

The person who can really use the other party's traces to make a group of joys, sorrows and sorrows for himself, take the other party's posture as his own feelings, and take the other party as the center everywhere should be the real Hu Qingzheng's feelings.

It makes people feel that the abnormal relationship is that the two people don't have too much of a joint dress between each other, although they have a reputation, but the two people are not really together.

I think love without an emotional foundation is abnormal, I don't think this kind of relationship should be maintained, such a relationship cannot last long.

Possessive, right? Possessiveness is so strong that it is suffocating, or you don't care about the feelings of others, you don't know how to keep an eye on the person you love, maybe you don't know how to love him at all, there are many, many aspects of love, and many examples can be cited.

Love and affection are not exactly the same thing, but there is a certain connection between them.

Emotion is an emotional state, which is the emotional response of human beings when they are in contact with external things, including joy, anger, sadness, happiness and other emotions.

Love, on the other hand, is a special state of affection, which refers to a deep, emotional attachment and emotional exchange.

Love can be a form of affection, but not all emotional judgments can be called love.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people really have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But Qingwan, whether she loves or is loved, is so sad and boring, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so much, and things can only pass by for her.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did.

Love is just a marriage test, and feelings are consumables that must be consumed every day for a lifetime! It is also the main necessity for the maintenance of the marriage of two people.