How do I get it right, how can I get him to deal with his mistakes right?

This shows that you care about him very much, emotional matters others can just put forward opinions, not necessarily suitable for you, but one point, the basis of feelings is mutual trust and tolerance will not change, I think, you should communicate more, he may also be afraid that you will be too careful to deliberately hide something from you, two people have a good talk, I hope you can be in a better mood now, I wish you both happiness.

In fact, men are a little distracted, he doesn't dare to do anything, he knows what he does, don't worry, it's okay. Be confident and believe in your husband!!

Your sanity and self-confidence have been hit the hardest on this issue.

Seeing everything, I feel that you are loving your husband and do not want to lose this family.

What a careful eye, this word, used here, is even more ambiguous.

You're a very sensible woman who knows how to express yourself Hey, such a good woman, why do people always know how to cherish it until they lose it?

Sit back and let it be.

I'm sure it will be fine!!

When others keep denying themselves, there will be a little frustration. Under normal circumstances, when faced with other people's denial, we often have two reactions, one is to agree with his statement, I seem to be such a person, and then I am very frustrated and hurt; The second is to fight back against him immediately, and then feel very angry. But if a person keeps denying you, the first reaction is more likely to be frustrated and hurt.

So how do you deal with this negativity? First, stay away from the kind of people who keep denying you. Second, if you can't stay away, but you can not agree with him, although you will be a little angry, but you will not take it as a serious nonsense, so it is easy for your mood to return to normal.

This is the role of recognition, whether the other party fires you with a real cannonball that can break your bones, or just a bluff squib, you just don't accept it, and he can help you, this is very important, because whether others will criticize you, whether they will attack you, what kind of attitude they hold towards you, these are all out of your control, but how you view other people's words and deeds, whether you agree or disagree with other people's views, this point can be controlled. Nietzsche said: Everything that can't kill me will make me stronger.

The so-called growth is to crush them little by little and then internalize them into the heart. When others deny you, you have to believe in yourself and don't care what others say, what others say is just a representation of your own thoughts. If you are given advice, you may or may not accept it.

For example, Xiao Chen of the company assigned today's tasks to his new employee, and a colleague next to him came over and said to the new employee, are you okay? Can you do this "three or year words"?

Obviously, he was denying her ability, thinking that she was not very skilled as a newcomer, and he used this negative words to talk to her. If it were you, how would we face the denial of you, what kind of mentality should we look at it, and how to deal with this negative emotion.

According to my experience and analysis, this person is likely to be a fragile and stubborn person with a fragile heart who behaves irrationally, is a perfectionist, and has unshakable beliefs that drive them to achieve their goals. Your blocking of his number and denying him will hurt his fragile heart, and he will see his failure as a denial of himself, so he will become more stubborn and may do things that you don't expect because he behaves unreasonably.

My suggestion is that your indifference to him has caused a tangle in his heart, strengthened his convictions, and made his thoughts and actions more and more unreasonable. So don't bury him, apologize to him for blocking him before, being indifferent to him, turning a blind eye to him, and explain your distress; In addition, you should show appreciation for his persistence, praise him for being a good man, very strong, very trustworthy, talk about his merits in life, and what makes him outstanding, so that his heart can be more peaceful; Finally, if he can do things calmly and not get into the horns, he will be more mature and perfect.

Don't tell him what kind of boy you like, say that he is not suitable, that will hurt him, he will think that his ability is not enough and feel inferior, tremble, and want to prove his ability to you right away. Don't talk to him about emotional things, and don't mention your attitude towards emotions with him. You have to recognize him, understand his inner hardships and entanglements, care more about his life, and keep a proper distance from him, so that it will not hurt his heart, and after talking to you, he will realize his impulsiveness and rudeness, and will not continue to have such unconventional and terrifying thoughts and behaviors.

Be honest with others.