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It's up to you Now the marriage is not in the era arranged by your parents Communicate well with your parents Talk about the advantages of your boyfriend The opposition of the family is nothing more than the fear that you will not be happy with him.
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In the past, I might have insisted on my own approach, but now that I have grown up and looked back, I realized that the original saying has its own truth, "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you." ”
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It depends on your own determination, if you really love your boyfriend, then as long as you insist on communicating well with your parents, your parents will definitely agree in the end.
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I'm the same as you, my family doesn't agree, it's all up to you, as long as you are sincere to him, and he is sincere to you, you will insist on going with him, and your family will agree after a long time. I wish you happiness! As long as you are happy, be happy, if he is genuinely good to you, don't break up with him because of his family.
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My family also disagreed with me and my boyfriend being together, did a lot of ideological work, I finally chose to leave my boyfriend, and now I have been separated for 2 months, and we still love each other. I regret it, so if you really want to be together, don't break up easily because of your family's objections, you have to seek your family's consent.
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The family will intuitively judge whether you should agree to associate with him through material things, that is because the family does not understand him, and can only intuitively judge which parents hope that their baby daughter will marry a good family in the future, not be bullied, and have no worries about food and clothing, especially in this era of soaring prices. Therefore, you need to mediate well and let your family know that he can give you happiness. My family didn't approve of me and my boyfriend at first, but now my mother says that as long as I'm happy, it's fine, in fact, I think your parents are like this, they want you to marry well.
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To wait is to waste youth.
Let's elope
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The family must hope that you will find someone who is good for you, material conditions, character and the like, the first choice is to determine that your boyfriend is the object you are willing to work hard for him and the family, and then communicate with the family, talk about his good, it is best for you to work hard, so that the family feels that you can be together.
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The time has come to test you, those who can stand the test will be very happy in the future, and those who can't stand the test will be divided, and my wife and I are very happy now. If two people want to finally come together, they must believe in each other, understand each other, and then persevere!
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Don't worry, communicate more with your family, and also establish a channel for you to communicate with your family.
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My girlfriend's house is too. Whining.
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Know why. Is it because of his character, or because of his family background. People say that bystanders are clear, if it's because of character, then listen to them.
Be worthy of the person you love and cherish the beautiful love! Think of a way to deal with the money again! Problems at home, stick to your own ideas, they will eventually understand you, and they will eventually support you, because after all, it is not reasonable for parents to do so! Go for it!
First of all, you must be able to understand the hard work of your parents who are reluctant to let you suffer, and secondly, they think that you are young and vigorous, and many things do not think about the future, and if you don't separate the two of you now, you will definitely regret it later. Of course, this is just some speculation about the psychology of your parents, I think marriage is a matter of two families, you can't escape, you can't do irrational things like elopement, try to let your boyfriend move them, let your parents feel that he has the ability to give you happiness, and at the same time you must be patient and persuasive, not impulsive... Which parents don't love their children, slowly they will accept it, and parents will not be hard-hearted, they are afraid that you will not have a good life, think about it, even if they ask your boyfriend's family for money, it is not because they are greedy for money, and the money will not be for your little two to support your family in the future! >>>More
Have a good discussion with your parents and tell them why you want to leave your job. Try to get their consent, and if you can't get their consent, you can secretly quit your job and wait until you find a new job before telling your parents.
If you are confident in yourself, buy something to visit her parents and let them know how reliable and honest you are. You can't rush this kind of thing, take your time, and your parents will always agree.
That's up to you.
Let's make sure he broke up or not. >>>More