I still don t dare to say it, not that I don t dare, but I don t want to

If only I had to say it, first.

1. You have to tell your parents the truth, which is a must, because they are your closest relatives and "managers". No one can hurt their parents.

Clause. 2. If your parents object, try to persuade them and avoid disputes and contradictions.

Clause. 3. If you really love each other, you also have to look at the performance of your current boyfriend. It is manifested in work, in the treatment of you, and in the current reality, (such as the house). and treat your parents if they oppose the reaction and so on.

Clause. Fourth, there is a way to solve everything and a process (time) to solve the problem, if the process is too long, it will not work. So.

You] [think about it. The principle is that love is important, but it does not hurt family affection. On the premise that family affection is important, you should explain it to your parents with your heart.

Love is important, but love also needs reality. For example, today's shampoo always has to be bought with money, if not, then no matter how heavyweight love is, it will be trapped and ruined by reality.

Clause. 5. In fact, your fate is in your own hands. It's definitely in your hands, don't look any other way.

In other words, your decision depends on how much effort and effort you put into your decision. Know that there is a purpose to achieve, such as convincing your parents, or that you and your boyfriend are trying to have a house of their own, etc. It's all about hard work.

Efforts include many aspects, in fact, just a little, face the reality, do it... Fight for it with your heart.

Clause. Sixth, I have finished my words.

Bless you.

In reality, there are always unsatisfactory problems of one kind or another, which is normal The problems you are facing now are the most common problems in China today, and the widening gap between the rich and the poor has made these problems even more prominent

Your troubles show that you love your boyfriend very much, but you don't want your parents to make you sad and hesitate between love and affection

In fact, the parents of time are the same, and they all hope that their children can live happily Like your parents, the reason why you want to find a rich husband is nothing more than to want you to be happy in your future life?

You fall in love with a rich man who has no money This is your luck My hometown has another saying: There are no more than three generations of poverty, and no more than three generations of wealth!

What does that mean? That is to say, wealth and money are not an equal relationship, wealth is created, your boyfriend is hardworking and simple, this is his wealth!

But in order to avoid the impact of hope and reality on your parents too much, it is recommended that you let your boyfriend contact your parents a few times in an ordinary friend relationship, and leave a good image of your parents, and then have a showdown with your parents when the time is ripe, that will be a good choice!

You just need to remember this, it is your husband who will accompany you through the second half of your life in the future, not your parents, that's enough, you must also find a breakthrough with your parents on this key issue, you say that he is very able to endure hardships, which shows that he may have his own house in the future, it is only a matter of time, you are happy with him, if your parents really love you, then they will not hand you over to a person you don't love at all to be wronged, you should know that rich people are spending!!

Silly girl, I think you still don't love deeply enough, when you really love someone, you will find that your determination has never been so firm, you can't deny that you will also consider your parents' thoughts in your heart, right, are you also intentionally or unintentionally using money as a standard to measure your future husband? Ask yourself, if you really love, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome, believe me, the future days are still your husband with you, if you choose according to your parents' wishes, can they be responsible for your future happiness? I'm also a person from the past, and now my parents have completely agreed to my marriage with my boyfriend, and he is still very good to me, isn't this a rainbow after the storm?

Now that you have made up your mind, don't be afraid, no one can help you with this kind of thing, just like you said that many people encourage you and help you with ideas, but you still can't face your parents.

Let's talk to your boyfriend.

Every time I had an argument with the old Liang Shen Ting Gong, my in-laws would get involved and protect his son, and the whole family would accuse me of being an oak hermit. It's unbearable to say that you can't live a good life.

It's not that I don't dare to get a divorce, it's that I don't want to. I don't want my children to live in a single-parent family, humiliated and wronged. There are many examples of this around me, biological and non-biological, they are the same on the surface. But the actual actions for children are very different.

It's not that I don't dare, it's that I don't want to. I feel sorry for my husband. He was not born to him, and in that family, in order to take care of the overall situation, in order to repay the favor, he had to do as he was told.

During the period of filial piety during the epidemic, others were idle and had nothing to do, but his hands were blistering when he worked, and he had to endure it. I asked him why?

He said that in order not to quarrel, in order to make their old couple happy, he was fine. My eyes were wet with tears, and I didn't know if it was a joy in the midst of suffering. At home, when you are tired from work, you come back either to rest or to play games.

I take care of both children alone, so why is it different when I return to their house?

We don't quarrel for a year and a half, and once we quarrel, it's because of his parents. I don't dare to say how good I am, but at least I have my bottom line and principles for being a person and doing things. I can't hear it in front of my in-laws, and I can speak well. That's probably why they don't like me.

But then again, I'm not RMB, so there's no need to be liked by everyone. I just want to be myself, take care of my children, and live an ordinary life. Am I at fault?

If you can't get used to it, you can not watch it, and if you can't get used to it, you can not listen to it. Why do you have to get involved? Why?

In order to let your son provide for you in old age, but you are not yet in the time to provide for the elderly. You are able-bodied, healthy, able to walk and walk. In order to make your son honor you, your son is still in debt, and he still has 2 children to raise, but he has the heart but is powerless!

Your hurtful words, like a brand, hurt my heart. Don't think I'm afraid to leave this home, just because I have concerns.

Born as a human being, on the road of growth, there are always acres of feet of words that you want to say but dare not say.

1 .Crush.

I believe that in the process of growing up as a teenager, you, like me, are facing the person you like, and the deer in your heart is knocking and knocking. I remember that my favorite thing to read at that time was "The Troubles of Young Werther", in which "I feel comfortable only where you are, and I am willing to endure hardships or enjoy in front of you." "Ignorant love flows in the bottom of my heart, facing the person in my heart, I can only say some miscellaneous nonsense on the surface, quietly hide the fiery love in my heart, and the sweet words that I want to say but dare not say can only be let go in the endless vast universe.

2 .Workplace.

To be updated.

What does it mean to dare not say what you want to say, and not dare to do what you want to do.

Hello dear, in fact, like this situation, there are many reasons why you are introverted when you want to say something, you always think about a lot of things, and always think of things as the worst regret situation, so most of them will not do or say this again, in fact, you don't care about his thoughts, you are for yourself and Liang live. In fact, like this situation, there are many reasons why you are introverted, you always think a lot of things when you want to say something, and always think of things in the worst case, so most of them will not do or say it again, in fact, you don't care what others think, you live for yourself.