At what stage of your life did you develop deep self doubt?

In a lot of small things, and I know what the cause of self-doubt is: doing things according to feeling can easily lead to self-doubt.

For example, in order to write ***, I once copied more than 300 writing topics in the mind map, and then selected some of these topics that I had the desire to write and felt. At that time, I was satisfied with the topics I picked out and was confident that I could write well, so I thought a lot about those topics for writing. <>

But I still haven't escaped the fate of "giving up halfway", and I often find that the topics I carefully selected the day before are no longer interesting and boring when I look at them the next day.

At this time, I will face a dilemma: on the one hand, you have "lost interest" in which topics you have "lost interest" and have no feeling to write anymore; On the other hand, you've already invested a lot of time and thought, and it's a shame to waste it.

If you don't expect the result of your writing to be satisfactory to you, but you can do it all over again, and the situation is not necessarily more optimistic than it is now, should you give up or continue?

Giving up, this is halfway, I will doubt that I can't do anything well, and I often have a sense of powerlessness of "how can I be so bad"; Going on, this is moving forward in pain, and I will think about why my writing skills are so poor, if I can't write according to my feelings, then what I'm currently producing is just word garbage? I wonder what I'm doing is what it means.

Giving up and continuing are two stoppers in a test tube, and every time I do something that is important to me, I tend to be locked in a narrow tube by these two stoppers, and I can't extricate myself from it.

A friend in a dormitory plays with his phone and looks at the computer every day, and I go to the study hall every day. They said I was still in high school and that I should enjoy my college years when I was in college.

It is not possible to say which stage is specific, but the feeling should be distributed at any given moment. Obviously, I work hard, but I always don't do as well as others, so I have to doubt myself.

found that I couldn't get out of college because I didn't let me fall in love in high school. My mother in college has lifted the ban on engaging in objects, and she is also working hard, and she is still single for more than a year.

Glasses have been with me since elementary school, and now glasses eight. My hair was just passed the Air Force recruitment physical examination yesterday.

When I was in high school, I didn't fall in love and didn't go to an Internet café, but I studied hard every day. I went to a senior year of high school and was admitted to university. Then I found that the high school in the same dormitory didn't seem to study much, and they were all fresh graduates.

The first place in the class has been steadily for three years, going to the Internet café every day, engaging in objects, and sleeping in class. By the way, he is now at Xi'an Jiaotong University!

When you are young and ignorant! I often think about where I came from, who I am and so on. But now these problems are still unsolvable.

When I was about to graduate, I wrote ** to the teacher, and I took it and was brushed back once, asking to change the format and the teacher didn't have a fixed format, until it was about to be finalized, and the school adjusted the new format, and I was really a little skeptical about life during that time.

When I experience a lot of people, the sudden death of a loved one, the work is not going well and is criticized by the leader, I work hard alone, I wait for the bus to go home very late in winter, and I am still alone when I get home, no one can tell me about the good and the bad, I feel that the people of the world can understand me, and I dare not tell my parents when I am not satisfied, for fear that they will worry. I experienced being alone a lot of the time, and I learned to comfort myself. Feel sorry for yourself.

You may wonder what is the meaning of life? Is it just to live to live? For the sake of parents?

When can I feel alive for myself.

It's just that when you don't get the return you want after you work hard, you feel doubtful about life.

Once I was hungry and almost fainted, on the way to school at noon, I was illuminated by the sun for a while, after closing my eyes and slowly recovering, there were ten yuan on the ground in front of me, and people came and went around me, as if no one noticed, I picked up the ten yuan, bought food for myself, and survived, at that moment, it was like the system was afraid that I would not be able to live and forcibly continue my life.

The person who has tried all kinds of methods to force himself to believe, this person keeps telling you to believe him, and then after believing it, he is thrown away casually, at this time I really doubt life.

In my sophomore year, the girl I liked had a fight with her boyfriend and dragged herself to drink. When they came out, they were all drunk and staggered. It just so happened that her boyfriend was looking for her, watching her make a lot of noise, until it quieted down.

Then her boyfriend told me to get out, and I really wanted to pay tribute to him for moving bricks a few times, but she didn't look at me. What else can I do? I don't even know how to get there.

Soon after, I received a message from her saying that I was her best friend in life. The mobile phone made a parabola and threw it into the river, and since then, the campus is so small, I have avoided her for more than half a year.

The final results just came out, very unexpected, I thought about the last subject more than ten days ago, I thought to myself that this time I finally took the test, I didn't dare to ask for anything, at least the average 85 should be no problem, but at the moment I saw that the results were really mixed, who ever wanted to take the best test was Mao? Others, not at all as expected, I don't know which link went wrong, this is really unexpected, maybe I am not suitable for studying, or not suitable for college at all, forget it, just when my expectations are simply in a dream, sleep, I hope this is a dream.

When we encounter difficulties and setbacks that are difficult to resolve in our work and life, when we learn from various news** that the wicked are in charge, the good are bullied, and fairness and justice cannot be served, when we know that our own body suffers from an unavoidable disease or will be disabled for life due to injury or illness, when we have paid all our physical, mental, emotional and painstaking efforts for love and love, but in exchange for indifference, disdain and even betrayal...We will consciously or unconsciously have doubts about life. In the long river of the universe, no matter how long or short life is, whether it is brilliant or ordinary, whether it is rich or poor, it is actually a short-lived one, and fame and fortune are fleeting. Although some people are worth more than 100 million, they may not live a healthy, chic and happy life.

And although some people are mediocre and ordinary, they are open-minded, optimistic and kind, and still live chic, happy and happy. As long as there is love in the heart, life will be bathed in sunshine.

I don't like to study, I drop out of school early, I don't have any skills, I move bricks at the construction site, and I doubt your life.

When I started my business, I was most suspicious of myself, and when I quit my job, I felt that I had no direction and doubted my ability. However, I also believe in a sentence, persistence is not necessarily success, persistence itself is a kind of success, when self-doubt arises, it is also the time when you make the fastest progress, you will have a deeper understanding of yourself, more and more clearly understand yourself.

The trough period of life The most embarrassing time Ask yourself more than once Have doubts about your behavior and ability, life is a long way There will be different changes in psychology at each stage of growth Learn to sum up experience Reflection is insufficient Make a summary of yourself at each stage (based on the month) to find out the shortcomings Make yourself more mature In order to have a higher room for improvement Don't care about gains and losses There must be losses and gains that complement each other Sometimes what you get is even more valuable than money.

No matter whether you succeed or fail in life, don't give up your nature, be a good person, we don't need to talk about being a useful person to the country, but at least you don't want to become a moth and a burden to the country, endanger the interests of the country and the nation, be honest and trustworthy in the face of society or family and friends, and show up with a positive attitude instead of becoming a negative teaching material.

When I was in elementary school, I came across a question that I still can't solve. That's inch, the rural soil pit is tight on the stove, and a casserole is placed on the stove at night, and I have a special urinal in the middle of the night, and I break myself for the special urinal in the middle of the night. After another half a month, my father went to the commune supply and marketing cooperative, ten miles away, and bought another pot for my use, at that time my family raised a few litters of rabbits, and there were eight rabbits and my special urinal next to each other.

On the fifth night, the urinal rang and shattered again in the night, and eight rabbits were killed! This year, I have been unable to solve the mystery for more than 50 years! True, my father is still alive now, and he can't understand it!

The thing I have always been most incomprehensible about my speech is the "memory gap". Hardly anyone else has had a similar experience other than myself. In classrooms, dormitories, taxis, etc., I was playing with my phone, coding words, chasing new things, and other things.

This can happen in any situation and situation: I can't remember if I said what I just wanted to say.

There are many scientific hypotheses and explanations for déjà vu, but the one that impressed me the most was last summer, when déjà vu itself became déjà vu. The event was my birthday (the day after that, I remember it more clearly. On August 21st, I passed by my alma mater with my friend M, and I looked at the gate of the school that looked like it had been completely remodeled

Do you feel that the school gate has been renovated?

I remember when my baby was four months old, I suddenly opened my eyes in the middle of the night and saw my husband lying down on his side, and I kicked him to the side, because if he lay down, he just pressed the child. The child slept in the middle of us (it is not recommended for the baby to sleep in a large bed, it should be in a crib), and if I didn't open my eyes, maybe the baby would have been injured or worse. This is the most coincidental thing I've ever experienced so far.

A friend borrowed money from me, borrowed many times and I borrowed, he had no money to play cards, and bought a new mobile phone, he had no money to lend money to his ex-girlfriend, and others didn't pay me back a little money, and I was chilled after a long time, although it did pay back after a long time, and I didn't have much contact.

Once I was hungry and almost fainted, on the way to school at noon, I was illuminated by the sun for a while, after closing my eyes and slowly recovering, there were ten yuan on the ground in front of me, and people came and went around me, as if no one noticed, I picked up the ten yuan, bought food for myself, and survived, at that moment, it was like the system was afraid that I would not be able to live and forcibly continue my life.

I met at an amusement park a few days after breaking up with my ex-boyfriend. I talked about my ex-boyfriend for nearly three years in high school, and I always agreed to go to the amusement park together after the college entrance examination, but I didn't say which one was in the past. After the college entrance examination, I was separated because of various things, and I agreed to do a lot of things together, and I didn't do it, so I was separated, which was a little regrettable, and I wasn't very sad.

However, the moment I met him in the amusement park, I was still in tears.

I was a good friend from childhood to adulthood, we went to the same company to interview for work, and he began to slowly frame me for personal interests in the workplace, and my first reaction after knowing it was not angry, but chilling, and I began to suspect that I had been getting along with someone for more than ten years.

A person can fail once, twice, and such results are normal, after all, only a few succeed. After I failed once or twice, I was still full of confidence, and I overcame all the obstacles along the way. If failure also has the law of 28, then I am the denominator, and in this way I finished the first half of my life in a failed way.

I'm starting to wonder about life, am I a fool? Am I doomed to achieve nothing? I've worked hard, but why is it still a Mathildian life that awaits me?

At least I'm still alive, I'm a Q again. In the first half of my life, my goal was the top of the mountain, and now my goal is the horizon, and I don't know if I can reach it, but I still set off.

I am looking at the mountain high in this mountain, the business change failed, the previous business was tired, I thought I made little money, and I turned to others. When the family saw it, they sat and ate empty, and they had no way out. As the children grow up and soon go to college, the family's expenses continue to increase.

Anyway, I'm skeptical about life. I suspect that if I don't leave my hometown, I will end up with my wife separated and begging on the streets. At that time, I thought that even if I begged for food, I would go outside to beg for food, and I would never be embarrassed in my hometown.

It happened that he went to relatives during the Spring Festival and said that the place where he worked needed people. As soon as the Spring Festival passed, I left my wife and children with tears in my eyes and went out to beg for a living. I've been here for more than 10 years.

One person is outside, and two people and places are born. All the environment has never been a bully, and those who have just come will definitely suffer. How many grievances, how many hardships.

There is no one who has wandered out there who does not know. But I have no way out, my family is waiting for me to earn money to support, no matter how hard and tired I am, I have to endure it. With my refusal to admit defeat, I can bear hardships and stand hard work, from adapting to the environment to being able to change the environment later.

I went from being a newcomer to an old employee and being treated with the respect I deserved.

The college entrance examination is a zero-sum game, and behind the zero-sum game is a kind of screening. Screening is destined to have levels and eliminations, and then there will be competition rules and modes. When a person feels that the college entrance examination plays a very important role in his life, he will bet as much as he has to compete for it, improve his position as much as possible, and obtain a higher grade, this pattern can be called death mode.

Because they believe that a higher grade is always better than a lower grade, even if it is only one level higher. So, when enough people use death mode to participate in this competition, this screening competition becomes an extreme performance scene of involution, where everyone cuts their heads and squeezes up, so all the rules that can be exploited will be fully used. For example, college entrance examination immigration.

When this mode of death becomes the only option for all contestants, there is only one culture of involution throughout the country. This kind of culture firmly believes in the bones that I have scored three or five points more than you, so I must have a brighter future than you, at least my future brightness will be three or five percentage points higher than yours. So I went to the university and still made choices and did things with this unique way of looking at problems cultivated by involution culture.

Cultivating a perfect student's mindset and feeling that as long as he achieves A, he will definitely get B. Until one day I found out that the world was not linear, and it turned out that not every field has a clear and visible set of fair rules to involute you. So he began to doubt life, and the bigger and longer the blow he encountered, the stronger the number and depth of doubt about life, and finally in the middle of the night, he blew himself up.

I just don't know if there will be rebirth after the self-explosion.