When you break up with your boyfriend of 4 years, how do you deal with him and others?

Since the breakup is over, it naturally has its reasons to face it bravely.

Of course, it's a smile, but it's crying.

If you still care about him, say anything, and if you are tired of him, turn a blind eye. His other people, hehe, even him, you can be calm, what are the other people.

There is nothing that you don't face, it's you together, it's not because they're together, what's there, hehe, if you're unhappy, you'll be separated, hehe, it's not good to force yourself, it's uncomfortable.

Self-confidence is to face, and vice versa. Change the environment.

Upright, neither humble nor resistant.

I don't know what to say, but I want to say that my girlfriend and I are very much in love, and sometimes we quarrel, and it is very strong. We are also reluctant to give up with each other, and we will tolerate it. Not being self-motivated is the worst, and it doesn't matter if your temper is good or bad.

For a situation like yours, you don't want to leave each other, then have a good time, try your best to make him active, such as a reward, if you can achieve a goal, reward. There is also a family, as long as you can live happily and get along well, you don't have to worry about it. To emphasize, if you are reluctant to leave, then you should try your best to make him work hard, remember:

You are in love, don't choose to break up without hesitation for some reason, do you think that this way you can live easily? It is not so easy to fall in love, face all difficulties bravely, don't imagine that love is romantic, and both parties need to work together to break through obstacles. Work hard, I believe you can get through it, don't break up at every turn!!

Remember!! Wishing you all happiness!!

I think it doesn't matter if a man is poor, it doesn't matter if he's not handsome, but if he's not self-motivated, it's a big problem. It's not easy for you to be in love for four years, and it's a pity if you give up like this, no matter who you are. He is not motivated now, maybe because he is not mature enough, but with you by his side and you give him motivation, it is possible for him to suddenly find that he should be motivated.

I remember that there is such a sentence, a good husband is not found, it is all cultivated by himself. What a man ultimately becomes depends largely on his wife. Liu Bang was like this back then, and Lu Pheasant made him an emperor.

Of course, this is just my opinion, and the final decision is up to you.

Blessings

Long pain is better than short pain Every marriage will involve family problems If you only talk about not getting married, then you can continue Like you said, if you don't like his complicated family, don't get married and break up happily.

Those who wear couple's clothes are not necessarily couples, and two people who love each other may not necessarily be together in the end.

Now that you have broken up, those good and bad things are only your future memories, and you also said that he is not self-motivated and has a bad temper, so what else do you have to let go, a man can do without anything, but he must not be self-motivated.

If you get along with him now, will he be motivated all at once? What is the future of being with an unmotivated person, those sweet words can't be eaten as food, nor can they be used as card swipes, so you better figure it out for yourself.

If you break up, you can also turn from a friend to a stranger, since you can't bear him, you let time be your antidote.

If you get married, you will be finished, and you will be angry. Think for yourself.

Men have tears and don't flick, in fact, men's tears are very precious, if he really sheds tears for you, no matter what the result is, it is certain that he must have you in his heart, maybe it really is, there is a kind of love called breakup, fate, and your feelings are everything, I wish you to be happy together, and it is also happy to break up in time, without mutual complaints and hatred.

Look at your problem, maybe I should let go, compared to you, my love in less than two years died early, if it was a long time, I would be more painful! You also try to let go, the man is not as perfect as you think, he also has shortcomings, maybe it is really an excuse for his change of heart? If you have a fate, you will always come together, it's not yours that you don't want to be!

Hey, break up, since he gave up, what are you still insisting on, what's the use of you insisting on it alone, depending on the situation, he is also determined to break up, you just break up, no one, no one, no one will be able to live, it's good after a long time.

If you want to be together, you still try to be in one place, and it is not easy to maintain the relationship even if you are married.

I believe him, men's tears are not casual.

Be brave and let it go! This is obviously the reason he found for breaking up, don't embarrass yourself, turn around and leave proudly, maybe he is the first person to regret it!

He is the reason, divide it, he doesn't care about you anymore, why bother to be together, there is still a long way to go in the future, you stay silent, don't speak, see what he does, if one of them wants to go, then there is no way.

What a reason to be boring?. There's no fun together?. Or does he like someone else?

If you don't feel it together anymore, just break up, and you can't be happy if you force it... But. You better go and try to talk to him and see what he's thinking.

Have a new love? Or is it hard to say? Since it's sudden, let's hold on for a while. Four years is not easy.

The feeling is like this, there is no feeling. Naturally, it was divided.

Since he brought it up like that, hurry up! If you have to force him to stay with you, it's no different than breaking up.

He's not new to you.

Divide it, you can't be happy if you are barely together. Like my boyfriend and I have been together for a few years, and he says he loves me, but I feel like he loves someone else.

If it were me, I'd be sad and sad.

But I wish I could do the following:

Without shedding tears, calmly asked him why. Because this is the last right, and it is also his due account.

No matter how sad he is, he no longer wants to rely on him as much as before, because since he is in such a hurry to go, he is no longer as goddess in his heart as before. The present self is just an ordinary place in his heart.

The only thing that can be done is to let go freely.

Yishu wrote in "The Death of Love": "When a man no longer loves his woman, it is wrong for her to cry, it is wrong to be silent, it is wrong to breathe alive, and it is wrong to die." "He loves you, you are everything; He doesn't love you, you're nothing. The same is true of a woman's love.

It's very uncomfortable, isn't it, it's only temporary, I think you should dump him with such a man. Late pain is not as good as early pain, go out and play for a while. The best way to do this is when finding a boyfriend is the best way to heal.

Don't keep dwelling on asking why you broke up, he says it's boring, you say why it's boring, he says he just thinks it's boring......Or do you think it's my fault? He said he didn't blame you, did he blame me? OK quarrel ......

I know you care a lot about why you broke up and why it's not interesting, but don't dwell on asking because it's boring to ask like this. Try to find out what problems he has, empathize with him, say yes, I think this is annoying or something, and then try to solve it. The pace could be a little slower.

It's boring, he also said so, in fact, he has changed, has a new love, or doesn't love you anymore.

It's no fun to try to redeem it, he may be with you because of his soft-heartedness, so what's the point. Sooner or later, it will be divided. This kind of rotten excuse hurts the most, "I feel bored together" haha! It's ridiculous.

Redeem, change your mind, and then redeem, what can you recover? If you're not afraid of being uncomfortable, try to redeem it. The result is the same in the end.

Women should not be accommodating to men. Don't take it back. It's useless. Maybe he lost you and you only know that you regret it!

Ask if you want to divide it, what is suddenly very boring, so is it very interesting to change someone?

Give up, since he has said it so clearly, why should you be a person who doesn't know it, don't try to keep someone who doesn't love you anymore, doesn't want to be with you, because it will only make you miserable.

Ah, life is bitter My girlfriend is also like this with me Hehe It's a pity that yours is your boyfriend, maybe he is disgusted, but my girlfriend feels like she has nothing to say The two are no longer together She feels lonely.

It's only been four years, so let's open it! Can people break up if they have been married for four years?

If you can't get it back, don't get it back, if you really want to be with him, just ask him if he has any room for recovery, if not, it's good to get together and disperse, I believe there will be more suitable for you in the future!

Suddenly want to break up with you, there must be a reason, maybe he has a new object, maybe he has a new object, this kind of you should be able to find it, talk about it, see what he thinks, communicate with his heart, talk about his heart, if he still wants to separate, then he really changed his mind, everything else is an excuse, when a person loves you, he really loves you, he doesn't love you anymore, he really doesn't love anymore, since he doesn't want to continue, let's be free and easy, maybe he is not destined to be your person, this is fate, give up, You've got a chance to look for something better, don't you? Everything goes naturally, what is yours is yours, not what you can't ask for, I wish you happiness!

Be a high-profile girl, in fact, the answer is obvious, he doesn't love you anymore, no matter why he doesn't love you anymore.

You have to love yourself, leave confidently, and believe that you can find something better.

In this way, your boyfriend should have seriously considered breaking up with you. Either you separate from your boyfriend for a while, don't meet often and don't contact often, just contact occasionally as the most ordinary friend, but don't break up, over a month or two, if this or two months, the other party feels that there is nothing special, no other party is there, and they live the same life, then your boyfriend will agree to break up, if you feel that no one is thinking about anyone, then get back together!

Now it's time for you to turn against the customer.

It is completely okay to take the initiative and strive for reunion.

As for the way, ......Hey.

You can go to the place of your first love, drink coffee, go to the street or something.

Get along for four years. Time is not short. There should be a certain emotional foundation.

There may be other reasons for the boyfriend to break up at this time. Maybe he's crushing on a girl again. I always feel that I can't give you happiness, so I propose to break up. This is clearly an excuse.

But you have to be mentally prepared for a breakup. Avoid taking a hit.

Encourage yourself. Be strong.

Even if it's separated. Maybe you'll find a better one than him.

I'm in a similar situation to you, and I often mess with my boyfriend unreasonably, but it's because I care about him, I want him to care more, I care more about him to do a lot of childish things that make him helpless, I love him very much, but more, it's relief, so it will be more free and easy with him. I'm not being vexatious, I'm just afraid that he'll forget me when it's quiet.

So, maybe time will undo everything, and we're all the same.

Let it be, believe it's yours, and you'll never be able to run away!

He doesn't want to be with you anymore, and the reasons are all excuses. Once a man makes this decision, his heart will die long ago. Truly, I was in the same situation as you, and then he quickly got along with other girls.

Emotional matters, it's not like you can divide them, it's better to think about how to get along better, and think about each other for the sake of each other.

I'm not a master, I think the best way to solve the problem is to say anything directly, he said he can't bear you, which means that he is accommodating you in many places, you may have nothing, but he will be very tired after a long time, so you ask him directly, you ** do not do well, and then try your best to change, it has been 4 years, I believe he will not let go so easily.

I wish you happiness.

Love needs to take care of each other and tolerate each other, this is broken love! I guess no matter how unreasonable you are, you are not as bad as my girlfriend's vexatiousness, your temper is quite bad, whether you do it right or not, you don't meet her requirements, you get angry, but she has a good heart, quite a typical knife mouth, tofu heart. Whether it's her fault or mine, I will take the initiative to admit my mistake and coax her to be OK, sometimes I know that I am wrong and still like this, this is a woman.

Forget it, I wish you a better one!

Cleanse yourself for a while, think about what went wrong, and then prescribe the right medicine.

Maybe he is really tired, maybe he can't feel your love, you might as well put yourself in his shoes and think about what kind of love he really needs, so that he can see your sincerity.

Divide and divide. Since he can't give you happiness. Just find one to give.

I think his mother should have something to worry about, what mother doesn't want her son to get married and hold her grandson as soon as possible, and besides, his mother doesn't hate you. Is it that his family's economy is not very wealthy, and it may be a little reluctant to hold a wedding now, so if you want to delay it for a while, it is not good to say that you have no money in front of your parents. In this way, your boyfriend also agrees with his mother's opinion because he is considerate of his parents, otherwise he will definitely not agree to get married later.

Don't just separate like this, talk to your boyfriend and ask what the reason is, your relationship is so good, he won't lie to you.