How to break up with your boyfriend tactfully, how to break up with your boyfriend tactfully?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Actually, I've had a time when I told him we should break up because I couldn't talk about it.

    He angrily agreed, and then regretted that he wanted us to do it again. But I'm not looking back.

    Later, I regretted it. Because none of the boys I've ever met are as good as him. And he's not looking back.

    I've been sad for almost half a year. Now it's hard to get out.

    Don't be too casual, didn't everyone say it, being together is not because of the question of suitability, or the question of cherishing or not cherishing.

    It's just because I don't cherish it, so I lost such a simple and happy happiness.

    I typed these words, and although it had been so long, I still felt a little sad in my heart.

    Please, please don't let go of happiness casually. If it's casual, then whatever you want.

    Happiness doesn't come easily! It's true. Hope you can find happiness and seize it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That is to say, you have not been together for a long time, in fact, as long as you break up and hurt each other, there is not much difference between direct and indirect words, if you really want to say it, it is better not to say, it is a big deal not to contact, he feels bored for a long time, forget it, if he is really very pestering, then say to him, I want to be separated for a while, there have been too many things recently, too annoying, let me calm down!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Go with the flow!

    Since you don't want to be together anymore, let love go for a living.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I won't be tactful. Recommended landlords. Say directly to your boyfriend: "Damn, break up!" If you don't break up, you will be pulled down, and it will be divided anyway. If you don't divide it, I'll make trouble with your unit (if your boyfriend has a unit, this sentence is useful.) )”

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's better to say it directly.,Euphemism often doesn't solve the problem.。。。

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Make your own MV of Happy Breakup and give it to him!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Say: We really can't get along, let go of me if you love me.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since you don't like him, don't be reluctant to get up, otherwise you will be hurt more by each other after a long time, find a suitable opportunity to answer, calm down, be rational, and say what you think in your heart, so that it will not be too embarrassing to meet in the future, and you can also be friends, after all, we are not children, we will understand each other, but you must not say it in public, this will make him unable to get off the stage, and it will make him lose face, Be sure not to let him feel that you have dumped him, and let him know that you left because you have no feelings for him and have a different personality.

    I have such an example, a friend at a party, others confessed to her, because it was a particularly important occasion, she in order to take care of the boy's face, and then agreed, after getting along for a while, I found that I didn't like the boy, personality, concept is significantly different, so I expressed my thoughts with the boy, and then the boy also understood, and now they have become very good friends.

    Since you don't like it, don't accommodate others, suffer yourself, and hurt each other in the end, you should decisively choose to break up, don't drag the mud and water.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you usually get along with your boyfriend, you should know what kind of person the other party is, according to his personality to think about how to break up he is easier to accept, he loves you very much If you say break up, let him not be sad I think it is very difficult, I can only say that try to say that your boyfriend is not so sad and sad, in fact, it is very easy to say, just say that you may not be suitable for a relationship now, now most of your heart is anyway in study or work, I don't want him to be unhappy and tired when he is with you, although I know that you love me very much, but my focus is now on other aspects, I hope you can understand and support, maybe I am not the right person for you, you should find you a person who loves you more to love you, I want you to say to each other so gently and sincerely, the other party is also easy to accept, not so sad, and a peaceful way to break up is the best choice model for couples.

    It is difficult for two people to get along with each other because of personality differences, so we will often say that it is best to find a person with three views and personality gaps that are not very big, and then the other party also knows and understands what they want to do, since you have found that the other party is not suitable to be together, you have to take the initiative to talk to your boyfriend about breaking up.

    When talking about breaking up, the tone is softer, it is best to put all the responsibility on yourself, let him understand that sometimes letting go in front of the relationship is also a relief for himself, and tell him that this is good for each other, although you will be a little sad during the breakup, but when you get better, you will find that the world is still very beautiful, and there are good people waiting for you to love, not a girl like me is not suitable for you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Nowadays, it is very common for boyfriends and girlfriends to split and merge. However, if two people have been together, it means that they have also been in love, so what! When you break up with your boyfriend, you have to tactfully explain the matter to your boyfriend.

    You don't have to speak very strongly, after all, both of you have loved, and you have to think about him.

    So! Now that you have the intention of breaking up. Whatever the reason for your breakup with him, you should be tactful.

    You can choose to ask him out, just say that you have something to discuss with him. Then, you just euphemistically say, I'm sorry, after the two of us have been together, I find that we really don't fit. Perhaps, we are all passers-by in each other's lives.

    I think you also need a girl who understands and loves you more. So do I. So, we both let go of ourselves and let go of each other.

    I'm sure you also have a girl who is more worthy of your love. This is a more euphemistic statement. You won't hurt as much as you say it directly.

    Both of you have loved and fought in the past, and there is no need to stab him in the heart when you break up. If you think about it, I was very happy at the beginning, and when I was lonely and lonely, I also gave each other warmth and love. Why do you need to hurt people if you need to export.

    As for girls, in this kind of breakup period, you are the first to say that you want to break up. So. You should be tactful, and it will be beneficial for others and for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Breaking up is more tactful, of course, it means that we are not suitable, we are not suitable to be together, because our three views are different, we have stayed together for too long, I feel a little uncomfortable, although you are very good, but you can find someone more suitable for you than me. Say so, and he won't object to you. Because boys are like this, besides, if you are a girl to say it, it will be better, saying that boys are a little irresponsible, sometimes they want to break up, I will say it on purpose, and will do some actions to say that they want to break up but don't say it, want to give the girl a step down, let the girl say it.

    A breakup is a breakup, it doesn't matter if you say it euphemistically or clearly, breaking up is inevitable, there are many ways to express your meaning, just say it clearly, tell him what you think, so he doesn't have to guess, because he doesn't study psychology, guessing is a very tiring thing, it's better to wish each other a better future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love is beautiful, but there will also be some cruel situations, when two people feel that they are no longer suitable, they will want to end the relationship by breaking up, and when it comes to breaking up, you also need to let yourself have certain skills to not let the other party get hurt or lose face.

    First of all, you can call the other party out more tactfully, and choose a more suitable or quiet place to talk about this matter, when talking to the other party about breaking up, you need to lay a premise for yourself, so that the other party will know that you are talking about the breakup when you hear a few words, and it will also make him have some psychological preparation, so that he will not be a little embarrassed and at a loss when he suddenly says this sentence.

    Secondly, you should tell the other party that you feel that both parties are not suitable enough, so in order not to delay each other's love life, you must propose to break up now, in order to better face the future life, and this is the fairest way to treat, otherwise it will become more painful in the future, so I hope the other party can understand this idea of yourself, and I believe he will also be able to understand what you say.

    Again, you can also in order to alleviate the embarrassment, shake hands with the other party, say that you can always be friends, if there is something you need to help yourself, you will definitely stand up for the other party, so this does not delay the friendship of each other, even if two people break up, you can also maintain a good friendship, if the other party says that there is no such thought, you must also respect the other party's opinion, after all, he loves you very much, and he must not be able to accept this feeling for a while, so wait for the two people to calm down, Let's talk about it again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The so-called fish and bear's paw can't have both, if you want not to hurt each other, you won't break up, and if you want to break up, you must hurt the right back.

    Square. Answer: Is it useful that he loves you very much? No matter how much the other party loves you, it won't be exchanged for your heart that is ready to break up.

    Besides, how can a breakup be too tactful? The more tactful the reason you tell the other person, the more the other person feels that there will be a possibility of redemption between you, because he loves you very much, so if you are always indecisive, no matter how tactful you are, you will still break the other person's heart in the end. And such harm is much more serious than outright rejection.

    Just take advantage of the fact that you haven't been dating for a long time now, and break up as soon as possible if you want to, if you procrastinate like this, as the date of your relationship grows, his feelings for you will become deeper and deeper. Only the sooner you propose to break up, the less it will hurt him.

    Tell him directly why you think you are not suitable, and be decisive in your attitude and decisive in refusal. There is no way, you can hurt him enough at once, only then will the other party stop; Only then will you not be entangled again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1. Face-to-face interviews, consider each other's feelings, and respect each other.

    When you break up, you have to face to face, this is the minimum respect, don't make a ** text message. Ask the other person out for a meal or tea together. Find an appropriate opportunity to speak tactfully, take a soothing attitude, consider the other person's feelings as much as possible, and don't let people think that you are arrogant, as if you have abandoned the other person.

    2. Break up peacefully with good reasons.

    When talking about breaking up, give the other person a reasonable reason, tell him why you want to break up, talk about the problems between you, and tell him that it is not because he is not good, but that you are not suitable to be lovers.

    3. Try to be friends.

    Tell the other party that you recognize him very much, thank him for his encouragement and help all the time, and you can try to be friends if you can't be lovers. There is a good chance that a lover is temporary, but a friend is for life. In the future, we will still help each other in work and life.

    4. Firm attitude and indecisiveness.

    Since you have made up your mind to break up, then divide it happily, even if you are reluctant, you have to be ruthless, the long pain is better than the short pain, knowing that there will always be a day, it is better to come early. Procrastination will only delay each other.

    Maybe some people will think. Slowly cold first, and after a long time, the feelings will fade, and they will naturally be separated. But have you ever thought that this has invisibly added a shackle to both sides, and you can't move if you want to move forward, maybe, as soon as you turn around, fate is by your side, just because of your indecisiveness, this fate has been ruined.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think the breakup itself is tactful, it's a painful thing, it's better to say it openly, otherwise it's too tactful and always leave hope for the other party, which is a harm to both parties.

    But girls are naturally kind, and they don't want to hurt each other in this love that shouldn't continue, and they always want to use a tactful way to let two people break up peacefully, so everyone can get together and disperse! But what I want to say is that if two people in love can break up peacefully, either one party hides his sadness and lets the other go in a chic way in order to fulfill the other party; Either there is no love between the two, and they just hit it off and go to find their own happiness. If the boy really loves the woman, no matter how the girl proposes to break up, it will only cause deep damage to the boy, and it cannot be reduced by euphemism.

    So I really want to tell girls that it's best to be clean and neat if you want to break up, even if you are considered by others to be ruthless and unjust, it doesn't matter, because long pain is better than short pain, and it's good for both parties. However, saying that you are breaking up cleanly does not mean that you can casually throw the word breakup to the other party. This is an extremely irresponsible approach.

    When a girl mentions breaking up, she must tell the boy what she really thinks about the relationship, "Why can't it continue?" This answer must be given to the other person. This can be regarded as a kind of respect and love for the people who love you!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Summary. Hello dear, if you want to euphemistically say to your boyfriend to break up, you can do this: 1. Release the breakup signal in advance If you want to end a relationship.

    You can be cold to the other party for a while and see how the other person reacts. If the other party's reaction is also very cold, if there is nothing, then this breakup is relatively simple, maybe as long as you say a firm word. If during the period when you are relatively cold, the other party is still very enthusiastic about you and cares more about you.

    Then, you can continue to be cold and release some signals to break up, which can be regarded as making the other party mentally prepared. So that there will be no sudden rollover. 2. Honesty is very important to be honest with each other in emotional life, and adults should use adult methods to solve it.

    Be honest about your thoughts, look the other person in the eye honestly, and tell the other person the truth why you don't love anymore. In fact, the best reason is: I don't feel for the other person, not I hate some of the other person's shortcomings.

    Honestly telling the other person that breaking up is the best respect for the other person.

    How to tactfully break up with your boyfriend.

    Hello dear, if you want to euphemistically say to your boyfriend to break up, you can do this: 1. Release the breakup signal in advance If you want to end a relationship. You can be cold to the other party for a while and see how the other person reacts.

    If the other party's reaction is also very cold, if there is nothing, then this breakup is relatively simple, maybe as long as you say a firm word. If during the period when you are relatively cold, the other party is still very enthusiastic about you and cares more about you. Then, you can continue to be cold and release some signals to break up, which can be regarded as making the other party mentally prepared.

    So that there will be no sudden rollover. 2. Honesty is very important to be honest with each other in emotional life, and adults should use adult methods to solve it. Be honest about your thoughts, look the other person in the eye honestly, and tell the other person the truth why you don't love anymore.

    In fact, the best reason is: I don't feel for the other person, not I hate some of the other person's shortcomings. Honestly telling the other person that breaking up is the best respect for the other person.

    Dear, do you have any other questions?

    Can you help me write a breakup?

    Dear, do you have any other questions?

    1.Forgive me for what I have done wrong, I'm really sorry to make you sad. 2.

    Please leave me, you can't give me the happiness I want, I'm not happy with you like that, I don't see. We're done, there's no chance at all, don't waste time, okay, I'm busy, I don't see. 3.

    My dog doesn't like you very much, and your cat doesn't like me very much, so don't say anything more, and you'll understand it later.

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