Why is it said that people have to mute even crying when they reach middle age ?

Yes, there will always be a lot of helplessness on the road of life, but I think that middle-aged people should not be muted to suffer, only if she cries out loud and vents her inner desires, so that he can have a process of decompression, in order to better relieve his depression and achieve a more fulfilling life, so I think that middle-aged people, although he has matured, should not be deprived of the right of middle-aged people to be presumptuous and decompressed, middle-aged people should also cry out loud.

Once, when Dabao was writing his homework after school, he had just learned to write the alphabet and couldn't write, so he would pretend to go to the toilet for a while, drink for a while, be hungry for a while, and not write a word for two hours. Xiaobao has a toddler emergency and has a fever all the time, so I coax Xiaobao while teaching Dabao to write homework. Dabaoxue won't lose his temper over there, and Xiaobao is crying in my arms.

I was devastated, a sense of loneliness, powerlessness overwhelmed me, and I couldn't help crying. The two children saw me crying, and Dabao was so frightened that he cried, hugged me and said that he was wrong, and he was doing his homework. Xiaobao didn't know what was going on, and she cried even louder.

For a moment, my situation was even worse, and I could only wipe away my tears to comfort them. This is what middle-aged people have to face, you are the backbone of the family. If you cry and are not strong, the whole family will collapse.

Therefore, you can only bear it alone, and if you are afraid of crying, you must turn it to silent.

I saw a report before that a taxi driver accidentally knocked down a luxury car, and during the mediation process, the driver suddenly sat on the ground and cried, and everyone present was very sad. Because he knew what that meant, he might have been working for months in vain. The burden on this crying man is too heavy, his own children, his wife.

Parents of both spouses. He only had to work very hard. I'm sure he will still be smiling when he comes home after venting and wiping away his tears, and he will mute his crying.

He didn't want his family to worry. Maybe this is life, there are some things you always have to face alone, pass the difficulties, don't be cowardly!

Middle-aged people have carried too many things and experienced a lot of things, but they have long passed the age of impulsiveness, and it is not the kind of past, when they meet people, they say, when they see people, they pour bitter water, middle-aged people are more willing to hold their hearts in their hearts, in fact, because no one can understand themselves, some things are because it is useless to say to anyone, and they can't help themselves solve problems, and more importantly, there are some difficulties, and some hardships are said to them, which will only increase the troubles of relatives around them, knock out their teeth, and tears can only be swallowed in their hearts.

When your body is plagued by minor illnesses and pains from time to time, your middle age is coming. When people reach middle age, they have accumulated a certain amount of knowledge and experience, and they continue to enrich it. People begin to become more and more calm, and they will think more and more about life.

At this time, the physiological function is declining, the body is no longer the same as before, such a middle-aged person is happy: do not quarrel for his wife, do not be angry for his children, do not worry about the health of the elderly, and do not worry about money. The accumulated interpersonal network is smooth, and the accumulated knowledge and experience are transparent everywhere.

If it is such a middle-aged, harmonious and happy, day by day.

I've heard such a sentence before, and this sentence is for those company bosses. He said that you must not scold those young post-90s generations, because they will leave immediately, and those middle-aged employees you can scold to death, and they will not leave. Because they have old and young, they have endless responsibilities on their shoulders, and countless days and nights in their hearts.

Middle-aged people are burdened with too many things, in addition to facing the possibility of sudden diseases anytime and anywhere after the children get married and the elderly get old, and we ourselves are gradually changing, whether it is energy or physical strength, they have begun to decline, especially men, the burden of the whole family is on themselves, you can't admit defeat, you can't retreat, you can't fall, middle-aged men are the entire pillar of the family, if you fall, the family will be finished, the child who supports the parents who supports, how to support the wife?

Life is in a hurry, and in the blink of an eye, I sigh that my youth is no longer there, I don't want to enter old age, and I have to face the helplessness of life. Life is not easy, life is difficult, how many nights are difficult to sleep, how many people are forced to smile in front of them, and all kinds of grievances are known only to themselves. Middle age is an age that can no longer be willful, faded from youth and impetuousness, and added more maturity and stability.

Children's studies and parents' health are all contained in the hearts of middle-aged people, family harmony, economic excellence, and every middle-aged person has a heavy responsibility.

When people reach middle age, the burden on their bodies is getting heavier and heavier, there are old and young, and there are wives to take care of in the middle, it can be said that the responsibility of this age is very heavy, we do not have so much leisure to enjoy life, some just continue to work hard to create a good condition for the family, so that they can live happily, so that the family can be harmonious.

After middle age, we are already the mainstay of this social injury, and we must understand responsibility and principles. Sometimes we have to learn to smile in the face of everything, we can't have sad emotions, and we can't show our unbearable side in front of our families.

We are bitter, we are tired, we can only knock out our teeth and swallow our stomachs, no one can say, you are not qualified to cry, let alone mute when crying, we can only move forward, forward, and forward.

A few days ago, I went to an office building to do something, because the elevator was crowded, so I chose to take the stairs, just to exercise.

When I arrived at the corner of the second floor, I found that Ryoko, a colleague with whom I had a very good relationship, was crying tears, and I was stunned. Ryoko on weekdays is a funny king, a particularly cheerful and lively person.

Such an optimist actually has unspeakable pain. He said that he didn't dare to go home and cry, for fear that his family would see it, and he didn't dare to go to the street to cry for fear of bumping into acquaintances.

Ryoko's wife was laid off, her son was in high school, and her mother had terminal stomach cancer, and doctors did not recommend surgery because she was too old. Whenever she looks at her mother's expression when she is in severe pain, Ryoko always holds back her tears and lied to her mother that it is okay, which is a common stomach cramp that many elderly people often do.

When Liangzi connected to his wife's **, her voice was full of sunshine, and she couldn't hear anything unusual at all: "Hey, daughter-in-law, it's true that I've already gotten off work, I don't buy fish, you wait, buddy will show your mother a good hand tonight!" ”

Looking at this middle-aged man who was wiping away from his tears, I thought that he must have been the same as usual when he came home. The pillar of the family, the filial son in the eyes of the mother, the optimistic husband in the eyes of the wife, and the omnipotent father in the eyes of the children.

When people reach middle age, how can they carry it? We can't rely on anyone, but we have become the old and the young. In addition to family and work pressure, most middle-aged people also face sub-health problems caused by long-term stress.

Zhihu once had a popular question called "How much does a father earn a month to support a family", there is a father with a monthly income of 40,000, coordinates of the magic capital, a wife of about 10,000, and two children, such an income level is perfect in my opinion, but he still feels anxious. When a person reaches middle age, there are old and young, and the huge pressure of life makes him anxious, and the strict requirements for himself make him anxious.

I read a lot of answers, different income levels, different ages, different regions, everyone will feel anxious, so I began to understand that the most indispensable emotion in modern people is anxiety.

Nowadays, many adjectives describe middle-aged people: "mid-life crisis" and "greasy middle-aged", which is in itself an aggravation of the situation for middle-aged people who are already anxious.

But there is no standard answer to life, and the world is not a watermelon, and only a one-size-fits-all can be considered a success.

Your liking of cilantro and my allergy to leeks do not conflict at all.

Adults are also qualified to grieve, don't suppress yourself, find a time to cry, after crying, just pat the dust and continue walking.

When people reach the age of forty or fifty, it is the age when they need to bear the greatest pressure, the old and the young, and the things they encounter are indispensable, but there are hardships that they have to suffer by themselves, for fear that the children and the elderly will know their difficulties and worry about themselves.

When people reach middle age, there are old and young, your problem is related to the family, you do not live for you alone, but for the family, in order not to worry the family, crying is secretly crying.

Remember such a sentence, the responsibility on the shoulders can only be carried by yourself, at most from one shoulder to another, people to middle age, really stressful, troubles, crying can not be loud, because I am afraid that others will hear the sarcasm or indifference, slowly a person can cry without a voice!

In fact, we can cry, the reason why we shed tears in our hearts is that we don't want our children and parents to worry, and we don't want our children to experience the difficulties of life too early.

When people reach middle age, it is the time when the burden of life is the heaviest, parents need us to support the elderly, children need us to raise, the whole family depends on us middle-aged people, such a heavy responsibility can be casually shed tears? At that time, we already knew that shedding tears would not help, it was better to think of ways to deal with the difficulties of life and give them the best life.

I don't want my children to know that I am really under pressure, I have to rely on myself for many things, and I am even more stressed at work, and it is really not easy to raise money to support my family. A lot of things are out of your own hands.

Although I am actually young, I am 35 years old in my heart, and I don't cry out so that the people I love don't worry about my work, and I don't let others see my weakness (which is cowardice from the perspective of others), so I don't be looked down upon. In fact, it's nothing to cry, vent your emotions, cry and continue to face life. But I hope that the tears of all of you here are more joyful.

I'm not middle-aged, I'm young, I'm a woman, I can still cry when I'm in elementary school, in fact, I can't cry but I have to pretend, and then in junior high school I'm really sad and can't cry, I don't know how to cry, and then I feel like I can't cry without crying, so I pretend to cry, and the tears come out, and then I'm directly expressionless, what is crying? It's as if I don't have this expression, and I'm still angry, and I don't. I didn't know what crying was all these things I've experienced since I was a child.

Who will feel distressed? No one has ever been distressed, rest assured, it's not a joke, but these things I have experienced since I was a child have made my personality very extreme, and I can't show anything in my heart. Now it's completely joyful and angry, and it's just a completely expressionless face. Hehe.

In the adult world, there is no such thing as easy. I feel more and more like this.

You're getting older, but life doesn't allow it.

When you are middle-aged, there are old and young, and the whole family is counting on you, do you dare to cry? You don't have the time or the energy because you have to take care of them; Secondly, you are their only support, and you cannot fall in front of them.

, don't get married, don't find a wife, one person can feed the whole family and not be hungry. I'm in my 30s now, and I don't care about tomorrow after today

When I was a child, I was beaten on the leg by my mother with a stick, and my calves were thin and I didn't stand firm, and I felt so faceless, and when I stood up straight, I would beat you You didn't dare to fight again.

When people reach middle age... Hehe, what is there to cry about.

Having said that, when watching a TV series, tears are in the eyes, is it crying o soft-hearted people will only be moved.

Ever heard a phrase? Middle-aged men are inferior to dogs.

Have you ever seen a man in his 40s cry so loudly? Is it silently crying?

If life is like a product forming and setting up a process, it is natural to encounter a number of "hurdles" to reach a certain program, what is the meaning?

It's normal to be stressed, and there must be a reasonable way to relieve stress!

Worry about the little ones. I'm afraid of old worries.